Is the educational concept of “If you don’t work hard, you won’t succeed” really correct?

There are many ways of education, which have different effects on different people. There is also a certain nature in education, that is, children's education, ideological and moral aspects must be well managed. As the saying goes, there is no rule without rules. The growth of a child is not only the improvement of academic performance, but also the control of ideological and moral aspects. Only by combining them can we educate children well and develop talents through education. Therefore, education must be eclectic. This is the true meaning of educating children.

Many people have mentioned Wolf Dad Xiao Baiyou recently. His education method is to beat children, and the results are very good. Several children are now very promising, with good academic performance and good ideological and moral standards. But what we should pay attention to is that the wolf father has his own way of beating his children. It is not just beating and scolding the children, but an act of punishment when necessary. The wolf father's beating has his own principles and principles. own norms.

We need to analyze the behavior of Wolf Dad carefully. I have read special information about Wolf Dad educating his children. In fact, the most severe period for him to treat his children is before the age of twelve, because he feels that this period is When children learn and establish rules, once they violate the rules, they must be educated. Beating children is a necessary behavior. I think Father Wolf did this very correctly because he has his own educational principles.

Children’s growth is inseparable from the education of their parents. Many children today, growing up under the pampering of their parents and grandparents, have no idea what rules and discipline are! In the eyes of children, they only see themselves and no one else. When such children grow up, they will behave unfilially to their parents and disrespect their elders. The reason is that the children did not set rules when they were young, and parents did not let their children learn the rules, which resulted in the children's ideological and moral decline.

There is a saying in the Three-Character Classic of my country that it is the fault of the father to raise well but not to teach, and it is the fault of the teacher to be lax in teaching. From it we can see that parents must set up rules to educate their children so that they can have good habits. A good ideological and moral character has some basic rules of conduct for being a human being. Therefore, when the wolf father educates his children, it is necessary to spank them appropriately, because this is a necessary education for the children. You can see that 99% of children who are pampered and spoiled are harmful to society and the family, while 99% of children who are strictly educated have a righteous and kind heart!