Is my mother selfish?

Your mother is a material girl, and you are a girl who pays more attention to feelings.

Your mother likes to have fun, but there's nothing wrong with that. Everyone has the right and freedom to enjoy.

Your mother may not love you very much, but she still loves you.

It won't hurt you much. Explain that since childhood, I have to do everything myself and don't care much about you.

For your sake, I'm afraid your marriage will be damaged, so I want a bride price instead of money to support you. Marriage is an investment and a gamble in your mother's eyes.

Loving you means that she will stand up and help you when you are cornered. Anyway, you are her daughter after all, and she has the will to help you.

I don't know how educated your mother is. You should be an educated girl. After all, educated people are more educated. In a word, your social values and love views are somewhat different.

Your mother doesn't love you, but she loves you, but the way of love is a little stiff. This kind of love is more like a responsibility, which is sometimes unbearable.