A son said to his mother, don't count on my wife. I will be the last person to get hurt. Do you think it's right?

"I had a big fight with my mother. They all said that I had a daughter-in-law and forgot my mother, saying that I was unfilial." A few days ago, Xiao Yong said this sentence helplessly.

Xiao Yong said that the reason why he quarreled with his mother was the house. Because I have been married for three years, I still haven't bought a house. Now he finally has money to pay the down payment. When he could buy a house, Xiao Yong's mother wouldn't let him. Even his mother had a lot of quarrels with his wife about the house.

Mother told Xiao Yong, "Let Xiao Yong give them money, and then buy a house in their name, and write down their names. In this case, even if you divorce later, the house will not be divided by your wife, and you have no risk or pressure at all. "

Xiao Yong was very angry when she heard her mother's words, and then roared to her mother, "Mom, don't count my daughter-in-law, it will hurt me in the end!" Also because of Xiao Yong's words, his mother was very angry, saying everywhere that he had a daughter-in-law and forgot his mother, saying that he was unfilial and would regret it sooner or later.

Xiao Yong said that in fact, he said a lot to his mother that day. He doesn't know whether it will help. Xiao Yong told his mother what he said in front of his wife.

The following are Xiao Yong's exact words:

Mom, I know everything you do is for my own good and my future, but whatever you do, it can't be my wife. I respect you, respect you, because you gave me life and brought me up, so I should listen to you. On weekdays, you have the final say in the little things at home.

But as far as marriage is concerned, I can't listen to you, because this is not only my business, but also my wife's business. I am not only your son, but also her husband, so I can't think like that.

When my daughter-in-law married me, I had no skills, no money and nothing. She chose "naked marriage" to marry me, so she didn't resent it at first, so I have to learn to be grateful and love. Otherwise, what is the difference between it and animals? You taught me how to repay kindness since I was a child, so I have been practicing it.

Although my father died young due to illness, he rarely taught me the truth of being a man, but he also told me when he was alive that as a man, he should support a family, shoulder his own responsibilities, stand erect and have a clear conscience.

If a man gives any risks, responsibilities and pressures to a woman to fight, is he really a man? This will make people laugh, so I can't do that. If I marry her, I have to be kind to her all my life. I am willing to do everything for her, even if she is the only name in my family, because it will only make my marriage better and make me always good to her.

Mom, if you really think of me, then I hope you will mind my family's affairs, because I am an adult and a man, and I can be responsible for my own choices and decisions. Don't worry that my wife will divorce me in the future, because when she married me, I just had nothing. Even if one day, she left me and took everything, I didn't lose anything, everything just went back to the beginning, so I don't have any regrets.

If you are still stubborn, then I can only keep you away from her, because I have to make a choice for my family. It's not easy for you, and neither is my wife. Over the years, she has paid a lot for this and married me at great risk. I can't let her down. In this life, I will take good care of her, just like my father did to you. If you have to hurt her, although I won't hate you, I will definitely blame you for a lifetime and even disappear before your eyes.

Xiao Yong said that after listening to his words, his mother turned very pale and left without saying a word. Then his wife burst into tears and hugged him.

Xiao Yong asked me, "He doesn't know if his words are useful. Will these words affect his relationship with his mother? "

Bian Xiao has something to say:

I told Xiao Yong that if your mother didn't come to dissuade you from buying a house again, it would prove that she had accepted the fact in her heart. She didn't say yes directly, but that was only because she was proud. You should learn to give her a step, give her face, and then the problem will be solved naturally.

It is said that "if you are poor, you will change your mind", and there is not a parent who does not care about their children. Although they will be angry, they will not bear a grudge against their children, so Xiao Yong need not worry about his relationship with his mother at all. As long as Xiao Yong makes it clear, his mother will come to her senses sooner or later, because the purpose of her mother's doing this is to make Xiao Yong's marriage more stable in the future.

In fact, from what happened in Xiao Yong's family, it can be clearly seen that to really solve the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the man can only rely on himself. Only when the man stands firm can you really solve the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, because as a middleman, neither side will hold a grudge against him.

As someone said: "The key to most problems of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is actually the inaction of men."

Seeing this, you must not think that this is just a story of dog blood. I tell you, this is a true story, and this kind of thing is happening every day.

This is a very interesting phenomenon, which is in line with the saying that "if you are poor, you will think about change", and it is vividly displayed in the game between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Many mother-in-law will plan a daughter-in-law for her son and leave her son with all kinds of back roads, because in their view, there is only one son and the daughter-in-law can find another one.

For these mother-in-law, I especially want to say to them: "You are so old, why don't you understand?" Look at your daughter-in-law, it will also affect your son's marriage. If they divorce, it will hurt your son for life. "