Some people say that feelings are weak because they are too busy to have time. what do you think?

True feelings will not change because of the change of time and distance.

I have a good friend who is also my junior high school classmate. At school, we were inseparable and even went to the bathroom together.

After graduating from junior high school, we went to technical secondary school together. We are not in the same class because of different majors. Although we can't have classes together, we always find each other the first time after class.

After graduating from technical secondary school, my friend went to Shenzhen for an internship, but I had to drop out of school for health reasons.

Later, she got married and had children in Shenzhen, and I started a long career of drifting north.

At that time, QQ was very popular, and we talked about work and life on QQ almost every day.

However, one day, she suddenly disappeared into my world, and her QQ avatar turned gray. No matter how I sent her a message, there was no response.

One year, two years, three years ... she never showed up again.

One day in July this year, she suddenly sent me a message on QQ. I was both surprised and moved. Fortunately, I finally arrived.

We talked about each other's lives and recalled our youth at that time, and the warm feeling seemed to come back.

It turns out that we just got lost in a casual moment. It turns out that she has been here.

True feelings, no matter how long it takes, will last forever.

Sometimes, it is not time that dilutes feelings, but we choose to forget. Feelings need careful care, give each other more care and more companionship. I believe your relationship will last forever.

I think I may have neglected my feelings because of my busy work, but I can't say that I have no time to deal with my feelings because of my busy work.

As far as I'm concerned, I'm really busy at work at ordinary times, and I can spend my time freely at the end of the year. Because there are too many customers to deal with, I always feel that time passes very quickly during the day, and the day passes without paying attention. I think I'm very busy, but even so, I often take time to greet my daughter-in-law and family.

In fact, sometimes the maintenance of feelings does not necessarily mean meeting and chatting every day. Even if you send a message to say hello after work, the other party will be very happy. For example, eating at noon in the morning and at night is a very fixed and meaningful time period.

Feeling weak really doesn't necessarily mean that you are busy with work and don't have time, but that you haven't thought about how to manage and maintain this relationship, so you should have an independent consciousness and know how to experience emotions effectively. This must be a long time. As long as this relationship is worthy of your protection, taking a little time to say hello every day will definitely last longer and will basically not affect your personal work.

Therefore, we should face up to emotional problems. Take the initiative to be king

I don't know right or wrong.

Because I love my girlfriend very much.

I had a hard time last year. I get up at six in the morning and then go to work. I was very tired when I got home from work near 1 1.

So after a month, our communication became less and less, from the initial understanding to the later incomprehension.

Sometimes I really want to give more company, but time really doesn't allow.

There are some problems. Last time I remembered, I changed my job and our relationship became better. I don't think we can say absolutely, but one side needs to make changes.

I don't think it's because I'm too busy to have time Don't I even have time to make a phone call when I'm busy? Even if there is no separate telephone time, you can always say something at dinner.

The main reason is the lack of communication. My husband and I were in different places when we were in love. We call every night before going to bed. Spend 5 ~ 10 minutes when you are busy, and spend half an hour to an hour talking about the people or things you met today when you are not busy. We are happy and unhappy. So after two years, and then get married. After a year of marriage, we are still in different places. We still called like we were in love, and now we are finally together. At work, when it's time to eat, they will send messages to each other "I'm going to eat". Then I will reply, "Well, eat more and I'll leave." . After four years of marriage, every day is still as sweet as love.

So don't use being too busy as an excuse. Too busy, but you don't want to run this relationship. Why don't you run without fading?

Let me tell you what I think:

1. Before the ineffective communication technology appeared, our earliest communication method was only letters. At that time, there were only chariots and horses, and the communication efficiency could be imagined. But when we received letters from our relatives, we felt so cordial. We have not neglected the affection between our relatives because of the inconvenience of transportation and communication.

Second, as a post-80s generation, we basically didn't have a telephone at home when we were young. At that time, the landline was a rarity, not to say that you can have it with money. Bicycles and motorcycles would be better if it weren't for the mutual visits between relatives. At that time, we didn't feel the feelings faded.

I don't think it's because I'm too busy to have time Don't I even have time to make a phone call when I'm busy? Even if there is no separate telephone time, you can always say something at dinner.

The main reason is the lack of communication. My husband and I were in different places when we were in love. We call every night before going to bed. Spend 5 ~ 10 minutes when you are busy, and spend half an hour to an hour talking about the people or things you met today when you are not busy. We are happy and unhappy. So after two years, and then get married.

After a year of marriage, we are still in different places. We still called like we were in love, and now we are finally together. At work, when it's time to eat, they will send messages to each other "I'm going to eat". Then I will reply, "Well, eat more and I'll leave." . After four years of marriage, every day is still as sweet as love.

So don't use being too busy as an excuse. Too busy, but you don't want to run this relationship. Why don't you run without fading?

As far as I'm concerned, I'm really busy at work at ordinary times, and I can spend my time freely at the end of the year. Because there are too many customers to deal with, I always feel that time passes very quickly during the day, and the day passes without paying attention. I think I'm very busy, but even so, I often take time to greet my daughter-in-law and family.

In fact, sometimes the maintenance of feelings does not necessarily mean meeting and chatting every day. Even if you send a message to say hello after work, the other party will be very happy. For example, eating at noon in the morning and at night is a very fixed and meaningful time period.

Feeling weak really doesn't necessarily mean that you are busy with work and don't have time, but that you haven't thought about how to manage and maintain this relationship, so you should have an independent consciousness and know how to experience emotions effectively. This must be a long time. As long as this relationship is worthy of your protection, taking a little time to say hello every day will definitely last longer and will basically not affect your personal work.

Personally, I feel that my feelings are weak and my work is too busy, which has nothing to do with this. I believe everyone has heard a song that says I miss you not because I am lonely, but because I miss you. No matter how busy a person is, as long as I miss you too much, he will take the time to come to you, so he will come to you not because he doesn't miss you, but because your feelings have faded, he becomes busy and other things become more important than you.

We should learn to treat feelings rationally, from the perspective of bystanders, not those in power. Well, it is understandable if we are busy for a short time, but is it long? Generally speaking, you may not like you very much because of him. Suppose you are only busy today and I am busy occasionally, you should be more understanding and tolerant.

As far as I'm concerned, I'm really busy at work at ordinary times, and I can spend my time freely at the end of the year. Because there are too many customers to deal with, I always feel that time passes very quickly during the day, and the day passes without paying attention. I think I'm very busy, but even so, I often take time to greet my daughter-in-law and family.

In fact, sometimes the maintenance of feelings does not necessarily mean meeting and chatting every day. Even if you send a message to say hello after work, the other party will be very happy. For example, eating at noon in the morning and at night is a very fixed and meaningful time period.

Feeling weak really doesn't necessarily mean that you are busy with work and don't have time, but that you haven't thought about how to manage and maintain this relationship, so you should have an independent consciousness and know how to experience emotions effectively. This must be a long time. As long as this relationship is worthy of your protection, taking a little time to say hello every day will definitely last longer and will basically not affect your personal work.

People who really love you are not busy all year round and are on the road. So the feeling of "busy" is just a scapegoat. The real reason is that you are not that important to him. He needs to allocate time to people and things that he thinks are more important.

Because he is "busy", he has no time to eat and go shopping with you, but he has time to drink karaoke with his friends.

Because he is "busy", he has no time to communicate with you, but has time to flirt with others.

If he is busy with these things, please keep your eyes open and see how much the person you love loves you. What abandoned your relationship? Let busyness be an excuse for perfunctory?

Of course, there are also some people who are really busy with their work and career and ignore their loved ones. Even if you are busy, you have to eat and sleep, right? ! You can talk to your lover more at the dinner table, you can also call your lover and send a message between work, and you can give your lover a hug or even a hug before going to bed at night. I don't think it will take too much time for busy people.

Personally, I don't think the other half likes it enough. It's not like before, the traffic is inconvenient and the information contact is slow. Most of the feelings between two people can only be maintained by correspondence. Even under such conditions, people who are in free love have overcome the limitations of various realistic conditions and walked together. Tell me about my wife's experience with her second aunt and uncle (for convenience, her second aunt is called the woman and her second uncle is called the man).

In the 1990s, the woman was an ordinary citizen and the man was a soldier. From recognition to now, it is 4000 kilometers apart. Listen to me, my wife said that they usually write letters once a week to express their thoughts about each other. This state lasted for five years, and in the sixth year they got married. The general situation is that they did not return to being soldiers in different places after marriage, although it lasted for nearly 15 years.

Later, the man recovered, returned to his hometown and arranged to work in the county. His wife and children live in the city, so now they are still separated, and the family can only be together on weekends. My wife said that during the period when I lived in my second aunt's house, sometimes I met my husband and wife snuggling up and watching TV at home for two weekends, which was quite cool. Although I realized that it had been 25 years, and I didn't know how many ups and downs they had experienced in these 25 years, they kissed me and my children stuck together.

The first time I heard such a loving couple, to be honest, I really envy them. Besides, now that we are technologically advanced, what can we do even if we are in a different place? If you want to meet the high-speed train, you can arrive in any day, and you can also see your lover through video or voice in your spare time. Generally speaking, people nowadays are not busy but don't like it enough, or people become selfish and always think of each other. Those who say they don't have time don't take the initiative to communicate with their other half, but just use this sentence as an excuse. Whether friends or lovers, busy people always have time to send a greeting. That's it, cherish each other!

Being too busy is sometimes just an excuse. When we talk about emotions, it may be that there are problems and contradictions between two people. There are "beauty comes from distance", there are reasons why they are not suitable for being together, or there is no * * * topic, and the three views are no longer in tune and want to break up.

Years ago, my mother introduced me to an object, but the nature of my work is quite special. The work and rest of the service industry are different from normal holidays and are often staggered. I don't want to waste other people's time, and I'm not going to fall in love or enter the next stage. I'm sure I don't want to spend more energy on it now, so I'll discuss it with that boy. I don't want to refuse you on the pretext of "I'm busy", so I won't keep you.

Therefore, I personally feel that if you pull yourself out of this relationship, treat it rationally as a bystander, and explain it directly if you feel unnecessary, you can avoid the deterioration of the relationship.

Take myself as an example. I am really busy at work at ordinary times, and I can spend my time freely at the end of the year. Because there are too many customers to deal with, I always feel that time passes very quickly during the day, and the day passes without paying attention. I think I'm very busy, but even so, I often take time to greet my daughter-in-law and family.

In fact, sometimes the maintenance of feelings does not necessarily mean meeting and chatting every day. Even if you send a message to say hello after work, the other party will be very happy. For example, eating at noon in the morning and at night is a very fixed and meaningful time period.

Feeling weak really doesn't necessarily mean that you are busy with work and don't have time, but that you haven't thought about how to manage and maintain this relationship, so you should have an independent consciousness and know how to experience emotions effectively. This must be a long time. As long as this relationship is worthy of your protection, taking a little time to say hello every day will definitely last longer and will basically not affect your personal work.

People who really love you are not busy all year round and are on the road. So the feeling of "busy" is just a scapegoat. The real reason is that you are not that important to him. He needs to allocate time to people and things that he thinks are more important.

Because he is "busy", he has no time to eat and go shopping with you, but he has time to drink karaoke with his friends.

Because he is "busy", he has no time to communicate with you, but has time to flirt with others.

If he is busy with these things, please keep your eyes open and see how much the person you love loves you. What abandoned your relationship? Let busyness be an excuse for perfunctory?

Of course, there are also some people who are really busy with their work and career and ignore their loved ones. Even if you are busy, you have to eat and sleep, right? ! You can talk to your lover more at the dinner table, you can also call your lover and send a message between work, and you can give your lover a hug or even a hug before going to bed at night. I don't think it will take too much time for busy people.

I don't think it's because I'm too busy to have time Don't I even have time to make a phone call when I'm busy? Even if there is no separate telephone time, you can always say something at dinner.

The main reason is the lack of communication. My husband and I were in different places when we were in love. We call every night before going to bed. Spend 5 ~ 10 minutes when you are busy, and spend half an hour to an hour talking about the people or things you met today when you are not busy. We are happy and unhappy. So after two years, and then get married. After a year of marriage, we are still in different places. We still called like we were in love, and now we are finally together. At work, when it's time to eat, they will send messages to each other "I'm going to eat". Then I will reply, "Well, eat more and I'll leave." . After four years of marriage, every day is still as sweet as love.

So don't use being too busy as an excuse. Too busy, but you don't want to run this relationship. Why don't you run without fading?

If you are weak, you don't love. No excuses. If the object tells you so, you can just tell him to fuck off! To put it bluntly, work is more important than feelings, and he doesn't want to be with you. In the choice of work and feelings, he chose work. How busy are you? Don't you even have time to say good morning and good evening? What about 996? 247? It is not too late. Some people say they are busy, but there is still time to visit a treasure, brush a sound and brush a circle of friends, and come to a plate of chicken from time to time. ...

For the allocation of time, it reflects one's own choice and the priority level in one's heart. Life is not easy, and I am busy every day. The more successful a person is, the more he knows how to allocate time reasonably and manage the family business. Busy or not is an excuse.

24 hours a day, please don't let your feelings disappear in a greeting, a phone call or a video that takes up little time. At the same time, the maintenance of feelings requires the efforts of both sides. Think about the reunion. Some people haven't seen each other for years, but they still hit it off immediately after meeting. Nostalgia opens the valve of language. And if you are cold and indifferent, no one takes a reason, and the other party does not take the initiative, then the feelings of your classmates will disappear.

If he is too busy, you should also understand him. Don't disturb him when he is busy. Timely and thoughtful greetings can relieve his tired nerves.

Being too busy is sometimes just an excuse. When we talk about emotions, it may be that there are problems and contradictions between two people. There are "beauty comes from distance", there are reasons why they are not suitable for being together, or there is no * * * topic, and the three views are no longer in tune and want to break up.

Years ago, my mother introduced me to an object, but the nature of my work is quite special. The work and rest of the service industry are different from normal holidays and are often staggered. I don't want to waste other people's time, and I'm not going to fall in love or enter the next stage. I'm sure I don't want to spend more energy on it now, so I'll discuss it with that boy. I don't want to refuse you on the pretext of "I'm busy", so I won't keep you.

Therefore, I personally feel that if you pull yourself out of this relationship, treat it rationally as a bystander, and explain it directly if you feel unnecessary, you can avoid the deterioration of the relationship.

I feel weak, not because I am too busy to have time, but because I have given my time to others.

We always say that feelings need to be managed and love needs to be preserved, but few people can really do it. Treat that person well for ten years, love her for ten years, and tell her everything for ten years.

Feelings fade, because together for a long time, everyone forgot to manage the feelings between two people, always thinking that everything is taken for granted, he is naturally good to me, and she is naturally enjoying his good.

One pays, one ignores, one is disheartened, and the other muddles along. You will never talk all night again, and you will never expect each other again. After a long time, your feelings will naturally fade away until you can't find any warmth.

I think there is still a sense of ceremony between two people. No matter how long you live together, the sense of ceremony will always let you see the attention and thoughtfulness of the other party, and the feelings will not heat up, at least you can keep the temperature.