I hate my husband's family. The family is not only poor, but also poor. What should I do if I really can't like it shamelessly?

I think it is necessary for you to say all your suggestions, otherwise it will explode once and for all in the future. If you want your husband and wife to go on living, then make it clear and don't hold it in your stomach. In my opinion, you are too tired to live like this. Why should we help them when we can't even have a hot meal?