My parents-in-law suddenly want to separate from us, and it’s unfair. I don’t know what to do. I ask my brothers and sisters to help me pay attention and give me suggestions. Thank you!

There is a saying in China that goes, "Grandparents love their eldest grandson, and parents love their children." Judging from your description above, this proverb should be true in your family, so your parents-in-law prefer This is an indisputable fact for your brother-in-law, and it has been deeply ingrained for a long time. Your family alone cannot change the status quo. It can be seen that this problem makes you very wronged and troubled, so it must be solved as soon as possible. Your brother-in-law has also started a family, and it is time to separate the family.

I have seen a lot of situations like your family's separation. Just relying on consultations between a few family members will not produce results, so I suggest you ask someone from your village to help. Clan elders (such as your father-in-law's uncles) or village cadres who have high prestige or can control your parents-in-law or village cadres can help you discuss a more reasonable family separation plan so that you can divide your family fairly and justly. In this case, your parents-in-law will get in the way of their elders and family affairs, and they will not be too biased towards your brother-in-law. Don't forget to bring some greeting gifts when you go to your elders' home, so that the elders' words will be biased towards you. Although it may be suspected of bribery, this is how Chinese society is after all.

Finally, I hope you can divide your family fairly and justly. After separation, don’t forget to honor your parents-in-law. Do all good deeds and filial piety first, and be kind to your neighbors. If you have a good reputation in the countryside, people will stand up and support you when you are wronged! !