Pay back the money, look at people's hearts and talk about matching couples

Langenas said: "The greed for money and pleasure makes us their slaves, or throws our whole body and mind into the abyss. Mercenarism is a chronic disease that makes people mean, but the pursuit of pleasure is even more shameful and hopeless. "

Money is not everything, and you can't do anything without it. Money can't solve all the problems in life, but you can at least use money to alleviate the problems you encounter.

However, the most heartfelt function of money is not to buy what you want, but to measure people's heart, character and humanity.

Whether a relationship is good or not is strong enough. Money is the best test.

If you want to see a person clearly, money is the "tester" that most easily exposes a person's personality.

In short: borrow money to see people's hearts, pay back money to see people's character, and make money to see human nature.

0 1 borrow money to satisfy people's hearts

On the wine table, there is a saying: deep affection, a stuffy mouth.

In fact, the friendship between people is not deep, and there is no need to drink to prove it. Borrow money once and see it clearly.

When you are in trouble and down and out, most people who are willing to associate with you are your real friends, while those who run away when you are down and out are dispensable types.

In this world, except parents and close relatives, if you don't really understand, no one will stay by your side and help you when you are in trouble.

Zeng Guofan's family is not rich and his grades have been very poor. He took part in the imperial examinations many times and failed.

On one occasion, he went to Beijing to catch the exam, and as a result, he couldn't even make up the travel expenses. You know, at that time, I thought about it. If you miss it once, you have to wait for another three years.

Later, it was his fifth uncle who sold the only cow in the family a little money and unconditionally lent it to Zeng Guofan for him to take the exam.

My uncle's timely help, Zeng Guofan in mind, also secretly determined in my heart. When he succeeds, he must repay his kindness.

After Zeng Guofan became an official, his first salary was sent back to his hometown. In a letter from home, he specially arranged 220 yuan for Wu Shu, fearing that Wu Shu would not accept it. He also told his father that if his fifth uncle didn't want it, he would change the money into fields and give it to his uncle.

Accept a drop of water when necessary, and I will repay your kindness with spring water.

In fact, apart from kindness, what is even more touching is that you are still willing to lend a helping hand when you encounter difficulties and embarrassment.

People's hearts are really unreal, and a difficult fall can tell.

Whether the feelings are deep or not can be seen by borrowing money once.

Paying back money depends on character

Zhang Cheng's daughter will be promoted to junior high school in two years. However, neither he nor his wife are satisfied with the middle school where their family lives now. If they want to move to another school district, they will sell the house together. Plus the savings at home and the debts outside, you can basically buy another house in your favorite school district.

As a result, Zhang Cheng and his wife divided their actions, and his wife was responsible for looking at the house and Zhang Cheng was responsible for collecting debts, which really made Zhang Cheng realize that "it is the uncle who borrows money and the grandson who collects debts".

Most of the borrowed money will be repaid readily when asked, but students who have been troubled for more than 20 years have been reluctant to repay it.

However, his money is the most in all arrears. Get that money back, and the house will be almost decorated.

Mr. Zhang inquired about this classmate from the side. It turns out that their family is also considering choosing a school, so they want to leave the money to their children.

After learning the news, Zhang Cheng found a classmate, and after being moved, he also figured it out. This classmate just didn't want to pay back the money, saying that it was really difficult at hand.

In desperation, Zhang Cheng turned to him and asked him to pay back the money within a time limit.

What Zhang can't figure out is that when he borrowed money, he made various promises, and he didn't pay it back when it expired, and he didn't rush it himself. Now he is in urgent need of money, but he is dragging his feet. This kind of classmate relationship for many years is wrong after all.

This incident made Zhang Cheng understand that borrowing money is risky and debt collection should be timely. You can't use money as a bridge to maintain the so-called relationship.

It really is.

You can make long-term friends even if you settle accounts.

No matter how good the relationship is, on the issue of money, it needs to be clear, clear and not vague.

A person, you talk to him about money, he talks to you about feelings, you talk to him about feelings, he talks to you about money. Such a person is probably not worth making friends with.

By the same token, no one's money falls from the sky, and everyone's money is hard to earn. People lent you money for love. If you still cherish this friendship, or hope it will continue, then don't let money test your character.

No matter how good the relationship is, don't borrow money easily; No matter how hard the road is, don't pay back other people's money.

It's not difficult to borrow it again. Don't trample the trust of others on the ground at will.

People who pay back money on time will not be too bad in character.

03 making money to see human nature

A gentleman makes money in a proper way.

On the way to making money, human nature can best be reflected.

A relative has been in the shoe business for more than ten years. In this city, he has opened four or five branches, each of which is doing well.

As far as style is concerned, there is nothing special about their goods; Compared with the price, there is not much advantage.

Whether you can do business or not depends on the quality of shoes.

The same style, the same price, but the quality of their home is much better.

Whenever they encounter shoes with quality problems, they will take the initiative to explain them to customers and sell them at low prices, never concealing the quality of the goods.

In the face of interests, always maintain a sincere initial heart and gain sincere customers.

Ill-gotten gains are not desirable.

On the way to making money in business, it is the most test of human nature.

How many people can keep an initial heart in the face of the temptation of interests, then the quality of this person will not be bad.

Zhang personally taught his sons and nephews: "goods that violate the rules will also violate the rules." Therefore, the ancients were neither righteous nor righteous. "

There is a way to make money. If holding a sum of money makes you uneasy, you can't have such money anymore.

Money earned by improper means will always make you roll over and make you lose it in a more painful way.

Fundamentally speaking, no one can make all the money in the world. However, life is only a few decades, you can get a good reputation, and you can get more glory in your lifetime.

On the way to making money, don't let desire blind your reason; Don't let people's greed overcome their initial intentions.

You know, money can be recycled, and it is difficult to get it back if human nature is destroyed.

Poor, difficult, not terrible. The most terrible thing is that I have lost my heart, lost my heart.