I had a big fight with my mother, and I was so sad.

Everyone has a different mode of thinking. That's your mother. Even if everything is wrong, don't blame too much. After all, family quarrels only hurt feelings. In fact, from what you said, I feel that your understanding of your mother is not profound, but it is not necessary. Controlling your emotional intelligence is good for yourself and your family.

You are so old, you are an adult, and it is normal to have your own thoughts and behaviors. But you can't ask others to accept everything. You can like your point of view. On the other hand, you told you to fully accept your mother's thinking mode for the same reason! Playing hardball will only hurt both sides.

You can get along with your mother in another way. If it is not too big, you can verbally promise the other party and do it in a private way that you think is appropriate. Avoiding conflicts is good for you and your family!

Respect for others means respect for yourself. Learn to communicate with people around you slowly, which is good for your future!