Two young children in Chongqing fell from the 15th floor and died. Their father was at home at the time: Is such a tragedy all his fault?

There is no doubt that the father is not a qualified father, or even a qualified man. Because if you give it to him, you won’t cherish it, and if you lose it, you will regret it. It is not to promote the attack by netizens, but to analyze and discuss the matter. Men need to make money to support their families, and it is understandable that they put their career first. But putting career first does not mean that you do not need to take on family responsibilities. If you are tired, you can do less or even no housework. But what is certain is that this tragedy was all the father's fault. He was the only one at home at the time and he was also the head of the family.

However, the behavior of being so focused on mobile phones and games at home and neglecting the safety of children does not seem like the behavior of the head of the family. For him, home may not be a harbor or a place of family affection, but just a place of residence.

You will regret it if you lose it

The incident happened in Nan'an, Chongqing on November 2. Two children fell from the 15th floor at the same time in a community, one was five years old and the other was two years old. . One person fell and died on the spot, and the other died after being sent to the hospital but failed to be rescued. The Chongqing police are currently involved in the investigation. According to feedback from neighbors at the time, the father of the two young children was at home when the incident occurred.

After the incident, the man rushed to the scene and found the child crying loudly after falling from the building. He kept scratching his face and banging his head against the wall, regretting it over and over again. There is no regret medicine in the world, just like parents who were unfilial during their lifetime and burned more paper money after their death are the same reason.

But people are gone and no one can bring them back to life. For this father, the rest of his life will be spent repenting. If he had known this, why would he have done so in the first place? You are at home with two young children unsupervised? He has just learned to walk at the age of two, and he is active at the age of five, so it is reasonable to have no concept of safety. After all, he has just come out of infancy.

In the words of netizens: When facing danger, dad is my superhero; when there is no danger, dad is the biggest danger.

The word father is originally the safest and most solid harbor for children. Two children fell to death and their father didn't respond at all. He was definitely not a qualified father. A father who doesn't know how to cherish will only have infinite regrets.

Lack of control over potential risks

For a family, children place their parents’ expectations on them, so they pay special attention to their children’s education, growth and safety. Especially in the early years of children, because they do not distinguish between right and wrong in danger, they cannot understand what danger is. Under normal circumstances, the father will eliminate such threats or pay special attention to them. For example, guardrails for windows and balconies prohibit climbing guardrails such as benches and tables, and anti-theft window guardrails are designed. Insulated protection buckles are selected for wire interfaces, and the sockets are even designed to be at a height that is difficult for young children to reach to ensure the absolute safety of the growing environment.

Obviously in this incident, the father had no control over the safety threats to the children around him. This was the biggest dereliction of duty for a father. Three- and five-year-old children can actually cross guardrails and windows that are difficult for adults to cross, and two children can fall at the same time. As a father, why are such risks not cleared? Even if it is not cleared, why is not enough attention paid to this type of risk? If this is an oversight, I really can't understand it. Personally, I also like to provide rough education to children, because this can cultivate children's ability to withstand stress and the ability to deal with people, but it is by no means to put them into a dangerous environment and let them fend for themselves.

The child must have screamed before falling. This is a potential physiological reaction of a young child. Why the father did not react at all, except that he was wearing headphones at the time, I really have no other reason to understand. He could only regret it after it happened.

This is not a normal father, he is a failed father.

Family tragedy, alarm to the world

For the family, this is a devastating blow. For this man, the separation of his wife and children is a foregone conclusion. Men are supposed to make money to support the family and become the breadwinner of the family. Now Liang is still there, but the person is gone. It also reminds men in the world that no matter how hard they try, they should always pay attention to the safety of their families. Everyone has their own choices and considerations about whether to raise their children freely or in captivity. It should be a lifelong commitment of all men in the world not to let their children live in danger. Through this tragedy, perhaps everyone's attention to children's safety will rise to a higher level. May the living repent and the dead rest in peace.

Thankfully, the child's mother and grandmother were not at the scene at the time of the incident, otherwise the consequences would have been an accident more serious than the death of two children.

Although losing a child in middle age is the greatest pain in life, the child is innocent. A father's failure to fulfill his responsibilities as a father is worthy of regret, but it is definitely not worthy of pity.