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A man hits his girlfriend in the street: Apart from 150W bride price room, what else can drive a man crazy?

I have heard a saying that bride price and dowry are the reserve funds prepared by both parents for two young people to form a new family, so that the couple can face the storms of life with confidence in the next life. However, I don't know when the dowry was no longer mentioned by the woman, but the bride price that appeared in the news of various emotional disputes from time to time has become something emphasized by many girls and the woman's parents.

Once, a video of a man hitting his girlfriend in the street for a bride price exploded on the Internet. The boy in the video is emotional and his voice is almost desperate. At the moment when his emotions were out of control, he gave his girlfriend a good beating. And from his almost crying roar, I probably heard the whole thing

The couple, who had been in love for two years, broke up because the woman wanted a bride price of 300 thousand yuan and a house of 6.5438+0.5 million yuan. However, it is incomprehensible that the woman took someone to the man's work unit for four months and beat the man with him when the man failed to meet the woman's requirements. That's why this man collapsed in the street and started hitting his girlfriend.

"Your family wants a 30W bride price, 150W room, do you want me to live? Where does my money come from? You drove me to death! " Behind the man's hoarse questioning, apart from the powerlessness of the bride's 30W bride price and 150W house, there is also the chilling of this two-year-long love.

I have received similar letters from readers. Zhou Bin, a reader friend who just graduated, finally went to see her parents with her girlfriend who had been in love for three years in college. Zhou Bin got up the courage to mention marriage to his girlfriend's parents and wanted to ask them about the bride price.

Before coming, Zhou Bin specifically asked his girlfriend about the local requirements for bride price. Although the bride price of 16W was a bit hard, Zhou Bin really loved his girlfriend, so after doing his parents' ideological work, he came to see his girlfriend's parents. But unexpectedly, when Zhou Bin asked his girlfriend's parents how much the bride price was, his girlfriend's mother gave a figure that she could not accept: 288,000.

Such a figure shocked his girlfriend, and his mother explained: My niece graduated from college and just got married last month. The man gave her a bride price of 18W8, and the daughter was an undergraduate, plus100000.

"But aunt, my parents just bought a house to make a wedding room for us. I really don't have that much money, and my career has just started. I really don't have that much money on hand. "

Zhou Bin's words annoyed his girlfriend's mother. She sneered: "My daughter talked to you for three years, and she is an undergraduate. You won't stay in your hometown after you get married, which means you abducted my only child. We are old, and it is not too much to ask for some money to prevent our old age. Get married as soon as possible if you can afford it; If you can't afford it, then break up early. "

Zhou Bin was silent for a long time. He doesn't remember how he got out of his girlfriend's house. He didn't want to lose this relationship, but when he called his father and heard the noise from the opposite construction site, he didn't speak after all.

"Can you tell your parents that I really can't afford such a high bride price?" Zhou Bin's words haven't finished, but the girlfriend sitting on the side seems to have been brainwashed to say such a sentence: "My sister can give 18W8 as a bride price, so it's not too much for my family to ask for 28W8. She is not as good as me since she was a child, and I don't want to be laughed at by her at the bride price. "

The ending of this relationship can be imagined. On the day Zhou Bin broke up, his girlfriend even accused Zhou Bin of being love rat with tears on the phone: "I spent the best time with you for two years, but I didn't expect you to pay 100 thousand more, love rat!"

Zhou Bin on the other end of the phone made no excuses. He only said one sentence: Isn't my two years just the right time?

In fact, there are quite a few couples like Zhou Bin who finally broke up because of the bride price. When girls emphasize how much they have paid, they should also realize that when they pay, boys are also paying, and the time and energy they pay are not less than girls.

When I was brushing Zhihu before, I saw such a question: Why do many boys not want to spend money to marry their girlfriends who have been in love for several years, but are willing to spend money to marry a woman who has not known each other for a long time?

In so many comments, I saw a unique answer that attracted many people's attention: I was talking about feelings, but you insisted on talking about money with me, which made me feel that the feelings for so many years were not as good as hundreds of thousands, and I couldn't accept it. In that case, why don't I talk about money first? If the price is clearly marked, the child will not be deceived.

The terrible thing is not that after we talked for a long time, you asked me for a huge amount of bride price money, but that you talked to me about money when I wanted to talk about feelings, and then you talked to me about feelings when I wanted to talk about money. What is more frightening than this is that you think that so many years of hard work is worth so much money. You forget that when you are spending time, I am also spending time; You forget that when you equate yourself with money, you have already lost.

The bride price money has lost its original meaning so far, because the dowry corresponding to the bride price is rarely mentioned again. Most parents who want the bride price don't have to spend it on their daughters after receiving the bride price from the man, but move it to their unmarried brothers as a bride price for another family or provide for their own old age.

However, this seemingly meticulous logic is completely unworthy of scrutiny. When the parents of the bride are really old, they will not ask for support because their daughter is married. More importantly, a daughter with a brother at home has no right to claim her legal inheritance even after her parents die.

The most incomprehensible thing is that in the huge bride price incident, many girls are usually accomplices, helping unwise parents to force their boyfriends who have just started their careers to take money. When most boys get married, they can't raise enough money for bride price on their own, but if the happiness of the man's family is sacrificed behind the marriage, then the marriage itself is meaningless.

The girls in the huge bride price incident fell into the misunderstanding of self-materialization and self-commercialization. They think that if they want less, their value is not high, and the other party refuses to pay a large amount of bride price, which is to look down on themselves. But what I want to say is that if you really equate yourself with money, then appearance, age, figure and so on must be selling points.

These selling points usually depreciate over time. If a man chooses to marry you because of these external factors, when his career rises slowly and his life value is realized, he is naturally willing to pay a higher price to find a younger and more beautiful one, and you are unattractive.

What do you think of the bride price money? Men and women must have different ideas. Let's discuss it in the comments section.

Dear married readers, how much is the bride price when you get married?