How to kiss the doctor's ass

Tips: Motto for "flatterer": 1. Don't overdo it, it will make people sick. If you are just a clerk, please don't directly praise the president as a genius. The greater the gap between you and your partner, the more subtle your flattery will be. 3. Although it is your own business to shoot with what method, please be sure to pay attention: don't hurt others when shooting the boss, and the mass base is also an important factor affecting your rise and fall. You can flatter yourself with practical actions, but don't be defined as "nanny type", because nanny type people are only suitable for subordinates and are not conducive to your promotion plan. Look at the following story. Flatterers in the digital age are not just putting honey on their mouths, but kissing the boss's ass every day. The real flatterer is implicit flattery, and his expression is reasonable. The flattering version has already been upgraded. Three "sycophants": * a lotus mouth on the tip of the tongue * a conscientious person with quick action * an ouchi master who teaches by example. 1. As the saying goes, one person gets a word, and one Buddha gets a wick. It was only by understanding this "truth" that Jojo changed from an ordinary reception to a cocky little phoenix. Jojo's mouth is as sweet as honey, and only she can coax Nancy, the office manager, into laughter. For example, the most pleasing thing about Nancy is her gfd. That day, she pinned a brown hairpin to her loose perm, which looked like a social butterfly in old Shanghai, but Nancy didn't realize how dazzling the dress was. Everyone refrained from commenting, except Jojo, who praised: "People are beautiful and well dressed. By the way, your hair is so white. It must be more charming when rolled up. Let me help you change your image. I studied beauty and hairdressing in Monita for two months. " Nancy asked happily, "Really?" "Of course." Jojo took out her hair comb from the drawer and carefully combed Nancy, looking like Li who served Cixi. Suddenly, Jojo put it in Nancy's ear and whispered, "Don't worry too much in the future. If you are worth it, let's do it. Look, it's all gray. Don't move, I'll pull it down for you. " Seeing that Nancy was speechless, Jojo added, "Alas, there are really too many things to do in such a big office. I can't do without worrying." Nancy's expression changed subtly in Jojo's intimate words, of course, she was both sad and happy. By this time Jojo had finished, and Nancy looked at herself radiant in the mirror, very satisfied. To her delight, Jojo sent two boxes of Lady Oral Liquid the next day. Her sentence "Health is the capital of revolution, so don't bother about work" touched Nancy. Isn't it a sign of her success that a woman can get such care from her subordinates? To say that Jojo was really careful and didn't know how to know Nancy's birthday, she quietly arranged for everyone to have dinner that day. Some people who don't understand are too busy to go home, and only a few bachelors eat around Nancy. Nancy was too excited to speak when Jojo raised her glass and said "Happy Birthday to you". She really forgot her birthday. Just when she was moved, a beautiful double cake appeared in front of her. Jojo said, "Nancy came to Beijing from Taiwan Province Province, and her daughter and husband are both in Taipei. It is not easy for a woman to do this. Look at the ladies in our office. They run away like flies after work, reluctant to let their husbands and children get hot. They are all women, but they are different! " Look, you can only tell by comparison. Those capable working girls became the foil of Nancy in Jojo's mouth. In this way, Jojo, the receptionist, successfully achieved a triple jump: first, she was promoted to secretary, then to assistant manager, and now to executive director. There is only one reason. Nancy says Jojo is thoughtful and has the necessary qualities for administrative work. Flatter: If there is no profit drive, no one will try their best to compliment. After all, insincere sweet words will make you feel bad. However, the workplace is a big stage, and everyone is rehearsing their own programs in order to appear on the stage. Think about it, if you are a leader, are you a subordinate who likes to talk with thorns, or a sweet-mouthed person who "warms people's hearts"? If the flattery of the tongue-born lotus can bring you benefits without hurting others, and you are thick-skinned, it's no harm to try. Just, be just right, don't get carried away, don't say too irrelevant, otherwise it will offend others and embarrass the photographer. Second, people who are sensitive to action say that the highly competitive workplace should learn to show themselves. Guan Lin, however, is not good at words, and instead of helping others to win votes, she sits on the top spot as the director of the office, which makes many people jealous. In fact, the mystery is very simple. Guan Lin knows the truth that "actions speak louder than words". Through careful observation, she found that Zhang Tao, the administrative director of her boss, has a hobby, that is, she pays special attention to his hands and applies moisturizing cream every time she washes them. However, Zhang Tao is a careless person who often forgets to buy, so he often wipes the oil of women, which attracts many women's ridicule. Guan Lin put a large piece of hand cream in a conspicuous position on the table without saying a word. Every time Zhang Tao comes in from the outside, she will pick up the tube of oil on the table. Over time, it becomes a habit. In fact, Guan Lin seldom uses hand cream, but she always ensures that the hand cream on the table will never stop. Zhang Tao and his lover Ping Haidu are outsiders. Half a year ago, Ping Hai was hospitalized with stomach cancer, which was undoubtedly a trouble for Zhang Tao and his wife who were alone. Several people in the company made an appointment to see Pinghai. At that time, Pinghai had just finished surgery and was very weak. Judging from Zhang Tao's hectic appearance, he knew that he would not serve patients. To make matters worse, he can't cook at all, and Pinghai complains about it. After coming back from the hospital, everyone became indifferent to this matter. Only about Lin, the next day she appeared in the ward, carrying her own hand-cooked millet porridge and a small dish of shredded sauerkraut. Pinghai eats very well. When she left, she left two newspapers in the ward. She knows that although the doctor asked for a rest, the interruption of information exchange with the outside world is the most unbearable for Pinghai, who is doing market planning. Since then, GuanLin BaoPingHai two meals every morning and evening, Zhang Tao looked at PingHai body gradually improved, grateful to GuanLin. Guan Lin just said flatly, "My family is also in other places, and I know how much people in a foreign land need help." This sentence seems to awaken Zhang Tao, who can't help but pay more attention to this quiet colleague. He found Guan Lin very dedicated and earnest, and more importantly, he tasted her soup, which was delicious and memorable. There is Ping Hai, who often asks Zhang Tao about Guan Lin. When she heard that she was just an ordinary assistant, she said smoothly, "Such a good person deserves a promotion." So, at an appropriate time, Guan Lin became the director of the office. Some people say that it is beneath her dignity for Guan Lin to be a free nanny for others. However, Guan Lin never thought so. She thought she was giving love to others, a stranger in a foreign land. Sketch of "Flatterer": Actions are always more powerful than words, and "Flatterer" is familiar with this. When naked flattery has become a eliminated pediatrician, the hidden beard-walking action can impress photographers. Although doing good deeds is awe-inspiring, it often leads to criticism from others because of different objects. At this time, no matter how you comfort yourself, you will feel powerless. After all, the benefits of "good things" are really affordable. If Guan Lin had not been promoted, or had been promoted long before Pinghai was hospitalized, I'm afraid her professionalism would not have been called a free nanny. The timing is really coincidental, but if it's unfortunate, I'm afraid she won't get the job with her usual performance. No wonder some people say that opportunities are everywhere, it depends on whether you can seize them! Third, Qu Min, the great master of Ouchi, is the oldest manager in the company. At the age of 40, young subordinates think she is old-fashioned and mean. Qu Min also thinks that they are ambitious and have no down-to-earth style, but she likes dreams very much. It is no exaggeration to say that Meng Yun is a super "flatterer". Let's talk about her mouth first: Yes, everything that pops up like fried beans is good news. Not long ago, Qu Min bought a small villa in the suburbs. Meng Yun praised him: "You are still the district manager and bought a villa. Now the competition is so fierce that we dare not lend, or you have the courage. Let me know when you decorate, maybe I can help you. " A few words not only praised the quality of life of the boss, but also expressed admiration for his courage and loyalty. Let's talk about Mengyun's actions. They are all real and make people feel sincere. Only two days later, Meng Yun took some beautifully printed magazines and pushed District Min's office open: "District Manager, I found you some books for decoration. Please refer to them." Will leaders not like such picky subordinates? On weekends, department employees have dinner together. Qu Min pointed to a passerby's shawl and said, "Look, it's really beautiful. I don't know where I bought it. " The speaker was careless, but the audience was very interested. At work on Monday, Meng Yun sent a large shawl of the same style to District Min's office: "District Manager, I went to a supplier meeting on Saturday, and people gave me a gift certificate from 500 yuan. What a coincidence! There happened to be a shawl of this style in the shopping mall passing by, so I chose one for you. Do you like it? " District Min stood up and said, "Look at you, I bought something for myself, and I am still thinking about me!" " "Meng Yuner wrapped her shawl and said," It's rare for you to say that you like this shawl. Besides, without your concern, how could I have the opportunity to attend such an important meeting? "Looking at his luxurious temperament in a shawl in the mirror, District Min was happy from ear to ear. She took out an invitation and said, "There will be a reception at the China World Hotel next Wednesday. Young people like to join in the fun. Please go for me. " Meng Yun took the red post and pretended to complain: "Look at what you said, it seems to be really old, which makes us all afraid of the future. "Meng Yun used a few angry smiles and a shawl that borrowed flowers to offer Buddha, and I'm afraid he won more than an invitation from a hotel. Sketch of "Flatter": People who practice tongue skills too often will make people feel flashy; People who speak slowly and act quickly sometimes feel moved and timid; Only a bearded walker like Meng Yun, who combines words and deeds, can truly cultivate into "essence". How can we stop the boss from laughing with temperature and behaving appropriately? Knowing how to make small profits but quick turnover, knowing how to put them away freely, the boss certainly has special respect for such sensible subordinates. The workplace is like a sports field, with results every day. People in the workplace should not only learn to use eighteen weapons, but also learn all kinds of Sun Tzu's art of war to deal with competitors. Flattery is one of the effective means to win important votes for yourself. So far, no company has clearly stipulated that flattery is not allowed. " Flatterers try their best to please their boss. Their brains are stocked with countless compliments and action scripts to meet their flattering needs on different occasions. The "sycophants" in the new era flatter themselves in the workplace and fight for their goals. Here, I would also like to advise people in the workplace that although you are constantly getting spiritual rewards in the process of flattery, there will be times when the horse slips, and flattery is also risky. Besides, you have to shoot properly, you can't hurt others, and there are many flattering skills. When you have to rely on flattery to advance, please think twice. In any case, sincerity always wins the market more easily than hypocrisy.