My brother took my brother home from school. Who would have thought that my brother didn't receive it, but he was almost locked in by the guard.

For parents with two children, the biggest headache may be that the two children disagree and often fight, which makes the family very uncomfortable. However, at ordinary times, fighting is always fighting, but in most cases, the two children get along very harmoniously and happily.

Some time ago, a treasure mom uploaded a video in Weibo. The little boy in the video is standing at the gate of his brother's kindergarten school, waiting for him to finish school. I saw him stand on tiptoe and look in from time to time, looking forward to it. But as time went by, my brother still didn't come out. At this point, the security guard sitting next to him witnessed the whole process and wanted Doby's little boy, so he pretended to close the school gate. The little boy cried when he saw it, for fear that his brother would not receive it and he was locked in the school.

After watching this video, netizens thought the little boy's reaction was cute:

Netizen A: The furtive look is so cute. Listen, have some fun with the janitor.

Netizen B: Is this the so-called brotherhood? I'm sorry, I kind of want to laugh. Ha ha ha.

Netizen C: It seems that I have been waiting for my brother for a long time.

Many people may think that having two children at home will definitely be a harmonious picture of brothers, friends and brothers, but the opposite is true, because when the age gap between the two children is too large, contradictions and frictions are inevitable. What should parents do at this time to make the two children get along more harmoniously?

1, set the rules for Erbao.

Whether it's Dabao or Bao Xiao, when they do something wrong, their parents must stop it in time, instead of turning a blind eye or covering up blindly. In addition to making children more unscrupulous and do whatever they want, this is actually not delicious. Of course, the best way to deal with it is to "make three chapters" with children in advance and tell them what they can't do. For example, when Dabao (or Bao Xiao) is angry and abuses violence, parents should explain to their children that it is wrong to hit people. If this happens again, they will be punished.

2. Treat two babies in different ways.

Generally speaking, apart from twins and twins, Dabao and Bao Xiao tend to have different growth processes because of a certain age gap, which means that parents can't teach them in the same way, but should teach them according to their children's personality and preferences.

3. Respect the property ownership of two children.

Many parents think that Bao Xiao is not sensible, so Bao Xiao should choose Dabao first, whether it is toys or food, and sometimes even connive at Bao Xiao using Dabao's articles. In this way, Bao Xiao's needs have been met, but it is not conducive to cultivating two children's awareness of property rights. Especially Bao Xiao, who robbed Dabao's articles, may not know which ones are his own and which ones belong to other children, which has caused a bad influence.

4. Cultivate the teamwork spirit of the two babies.

Many times, the reason why Dabao and Baoxiao look at each other with disgust is because they lack team consciousness and do everything by themselves, so conflicts often occur. Faced with this situation, parents can take their two children to do activities together in their spare time, such as camping and making handicrafts. Let two children, Qi Xin, work together to accomplish one thing, and team spirit will naturally come into being.

Of course, in the process of taking care of Dabao and Bao Xiao, parents should not forget to give the two children independent space, let them try to get along alone, and if possible, organize the two children to play games together to enhance their friendship, so that the parent-child relationship will be improved accordingly.