There is a terrible consumption concept called "exquisite poverty"

Recently, I received a phone call from a company, telling me that I was their gold VIP customer and asked me to open a white note business. What value-added services can be provided at present? I politely repeated my thanks, and then went on. Finally, I said? I've been recording since you started saying white notes, that's all.

In recent years, with the rise of major Internet shopping platforms such as a certain treasure, a certain east, a certain meeting and a certain number. The era of consumerism, especially the frequent occurrence of 6 18 shopping festival, double1/kloc-0 shopping carnival and anniversary celebration, has also nourished various online lending platforms.

A large number of people have fallen into the trap of consumerism.

A college student wears a famous brand, an Apple computer, an Apple mobile phone, Adi's clothes and Nike's shoes, but they pay in installments.

A 25-year-old professional woman earns 3800 yuan a month. She must order a Starbucks every afternoon.

The 30-year-old single Xiao C took photos of her life after work with the iPhone she bought in installments of 12, and the corner of the photo inadvertently revealed the brand-name bag she bought for 10,000 yuan. Hair band essay: Be nice to yourself while you are young.

The 28-year-old Xiao Wang wears white stripes and AJ, adds some game equipment from time to time, such as a computer mainframe and a game mouse, and eats instant noodles in the rental house after work. Euphemistically called: the house is rented and life is your own.

I used to think that people who carry brand-name bags, wear AJ and use Apple computers and mobile phones must be rich. Now I find some such examples around. Is this what people usually call "exquisite poverty"? This "exquisite poverty" is "devouring" some young people to some extent.

0 1? Don't be a "loser", you must have a correct view of consumption.

I saw a hot search the other day. A sophomore owes more than 9000 pieces of white flowers. Paying back and facing his parents is too much. There is also a girl who owes 202 1 year.

It is also frequently reported on the Internet that college boys were unable to repay hundreds of thousands of cash loans, and finally left a suicide note "Be a cow and a horse in the afterlife to repay you" and jumped off the eighth floor to end their lives at the age of 2 1.

There is also a tragedy because "19-year-old girl owes a cash loan, and her mother committed suicide by drinking pesticides under the pressure of debt collection."

These living cases can not help but sound the alarm for us. We must have a correct view of consumption. Don't fall into the trap of consumerism. Be kind to yourself when you are young, be willing to part with yourself, and don't spend tomorrow's money to realize today's dreams. Everyone has the right to pursue beauty, but don't go beyond his ability.

If you don't want to be a "negative Weng", just do the following;

Number one? Don't be influenced by external factors, do what you can.

Second? Don't blindly follow the trend and pursue famous brands.

Third? We must learn to distribute property reasonably.

Fourth? We should learn to control consumption desire and delay satisfaction.

Only buy what you really need and can use, never buy what you can and can't use.

White to say; It seems expensive to buy, but if you use it every day, such things are cheaper; On the contrary, it is not expensive at first glance, but useless, or the low quality is expensive.

I don't save money, that is, I don't reduce the quality of life; I don't spend money, it's the quality of life within my ability. The correct concept of consumption is that useless things are the most expensive and useful things are cheap. Buy only what you really need.

If you really want to buy it, you might as well add it to the shopping cart or collection first, then look for other things and decide whether to buy it later. When you are young, you should learn to delay your satisfaction properly, accumulate wealth and experience in a planned way, and don't be blinded by glitz and desire.

Don't be an invisible poor man. The surface looks shiny, but in fact the socks have slipped to the soles of your feet.

Don't be a person who works overtime to make money, but never keeps up with the growth of desire.

Don't be a person who has nothing to worry about, but is still trapped in poverty and debt.

Making money is the most respectable thing for adults.

I saw this passage on the Internet some time ago: Laziness stolen at the age of 20 needs to be made up at the age of 30, and making money is the greatest dignity of adults. On the road of poetry and distance, we need both feelings and travel expenses.

Many people like to say that if I had known … I would have …, now is the earliest time, and I should do what I think I should do as soon as possible. Only bitter before sweet, otherwise it will only be bitter first. If I don't work hard now, I will work harder in the future.

Many people are embarrassed to say that they like money to make money. We can tell the world loudly that I just like money, and gentlemen love money. Material is the cornerstone of the pursuit of ideals. Without bread, it is difficult to have the poetry and distance you want.

Making money is the most respectable thing for adults.

Here, I have to mention the singer Pu Shu, who was very popular at that time. His comments on Pu Shu are mixed, and all kinds of big names have played their roles. Some people even described him as an "unearthed cultural relic" because he can't play mobile phone WeChat. Others say he is poor and short of money.

On a variety show, the host asked why Pu Shu, who had never wanted to take part in the variety show, wanted to come.

Pu Shu replied: I really need money. ...

Frank people, it's really good to speak frankly like this. People are as simple as their names imply. In fact, I like money, saying that I am short of money, and there is nothing shameful about making money myself; On the contrary, making money is an adult's greatest dignity. Making money by yourself is an adult's greatest dignity and delicacy.

Luo Yonghao, the originator of internet celebrities, frequently searched for goods last week. He is also broadcasting live and accepting the endorsement of the game. He never misses an opportunity to appear in the variety show "Tucao Conference". From time to time, he also suggested in the program that "bring the goods at 8 o'clock every Friday night", and even said to himself that after paying off the debt, he would make a "real return".

I remember in the program "Ace to Ace". When talking about his father's illness, Ada said: Although my father spent his 70th birthday in the hospital, I am very happy and proud because I have enough financial ability to provide him with the best medical conditions.

As an adult, don't be shy about talking about money and don't get tired of it. Making money hard is the greatest dignity and exquisiteness.

So don't choose "debt" exquisitely to save face. When you put down your face to make money, you slowly earn back your face.

03? True exquisiteness is inner abundance.

There is a saying in "A Generation of Masters": "People live in the world, some people live as faces, and some people live as linings." ? Don't let yourself live for face and be kidnapped by the so-called "pseudo-exquisiteness". ? Only those who are really rich and full of heart can embrace real exquisiteness.

Exquisiteness does not necessarily mean buying thousands of bags and four or five hundred lipsticks. The focus of exquisiteness is not exquisiteness, but the so-called exquisiteness leads to wrong consumption, blind comparison, nothingness and prosperity, and it is particularly easy to get lost.

It is right to pursue quality life. You don't have to carry a brand-name bag for quality. Brand-name clothes are not brand-name, clean and tidy, and quite exquisite.

Pursuing quality life doesn't have to be expensive. Reading and drinking tea on weekends are also exquisite, which has nothing to do with other people's definitions. The key is to love your life. The inner richness should be earned through your own efforts, which is the real exquisiteness.

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False exquisiteness is not respected. Find out which aspects of yourself should be exquisite, professional, skilled or life? In fact, with less money, life can be exquisite.

A friend of mine said, "The monthly salary is 10,000 yuan. I didn't buy a big brand, but I returned a pair of shoes with 700 yuan. I always feel that my money must be saved. I will feel very safe when I see the increasing numbers. Maybe I am afraid of being poor. "

It's true to pursue exquisiteness, but it's wrong to over-consume, over-consume, and get yourself into a difficult life because of the pursuit of exquisiteness! You pursue refinement to pursue a better life, not to make life worse.

Li Yinhe said: "The exquisite life is first sober, not ignorant, that is, aware of its own existence."

So to put it bluntly, anyone has the right to pursue exquisiteness, but he can't overdraw his life to pursue exquisiteness. Exquisiteness is good, but you should do what you can.

Exquisite life is not trying to be yourself, but trying to be what you want.