Why do some people meet beggars on the roadside and don't even want to give a dollar?

Sad for their misfortune, angry at their indisputable.

We can sympathize with their misfortunes and hardships, because kindness is human nature and sympathy is human instinct. We sympathize with their misfortune because we have a conscience.

But no one's wealth is not gained through struggle, and no ordinary person can enjoy it. Just when we only stay at the level of compassion, we feel even more sorry for their disappointing performance. Obviously there is no good life, but I still don't want to make progress; I have a chance to change, but I don't want to make progress. Beggars give up their dignity for a little food. We are angry at their behavior, and we are worried about their tomorrow, because the relief can only be temporary. It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish!

Back to the question, why some people don't even want to pay a dollar, because they know in their hearts that they can't save their lives for a while, and it's more not indifference, but seeing through the essence of the facts! The ancients also had the ambition of beggars not accepting the food they got. Now people are in a lucky contemporary, so why are they willing to live under it?

When I was a child, as long as I had change on me, I would give money to beggars on the roadside.

Then once, my father took me to buy books. After buying books, dad went to KFC to queue up to buy the whole family bucket, and I waited for him at the door. Later, an old man in his fifties came to me to beg. I have ten dollars on me. This is my pocket money. I really didn't have the heart to give it, but he kept reaching out in front of me. I think he's dressed in rags. It's pathetic. I'm sorry to give it to him. So I gritted my teeth and gave him ten dollars, which was really a lot for me at that time.

Later, on my way home, I told my father that I had done a good deed today. When I heard what happened, my father said I was a good man. Anyway, he didn't praise me, even a little unhappy.

After a long time, I can see beggars every time I go shopping. I don't know if my heart is hardened or something, and I won't take the initiative to give money.

Maybe when I grow up, I will have the ability to think!

Except for the disabled or the elderly who really can't work, why don't people with hands and feet work and can't find good jobs? It is no problem to work hard. I don't believe that a hard-working person can't even solve his own food and clothing problem.

There are so many students who lost their tickets in the street and pregnant women with big bellies, I wonder if they cheated on purpose. Isn't it chilling to use the kindness of passers-by to get something for nothing?

In rags, with a broken bowl, you can get something for nothing, and sometimes even earn more than those who work hard. Is this fair?

Some people don't even want to give a dollar because they really don't want to, but most people don't think it is necessary to give it. A dollar is nothing to most people, but it is not necessary to give it to some beggars.

Just like now, I only help people who really should.

Because for those professional beggars, every dollar you spend will boost their confidence and nourish their laziness.

The most shameful thing in the world is to deceive the kindness of others and turn kindness into selfishness. What's more sad is that kindness is rampant without asking questions, but the result is connivance of malignant growth, which is actually equivalent to aiding the abuse.

The country's assistance system is still very complete, and the disabled and widowed elderly can be properly resettled and will not be reduced to begging on the streets. Therefore, for those professional beggars who pretend to be poor, we cannot provide them with a hotbed of evil thoughts. Of course, people who really need help, such as those who are poor due to illness and those who are in trouble for special reasons, should be concerned and helped. In this case, donations are generally organized by the community, and it is unlikely that the helper will "act alone".

Because there are so-called professional beggars in this society who deliberately make themselves dirty and miserable, trying to win the sympathy of passers-by and give them money for nothing, and some people pretend to be disabled when they are obviously not disabled, which is not worthy of people's sympathy. It's not that people don't want to give the money in their pockets to others, but that there are too many professional swindlers and beggars now, which can be seen on almost any street. Especially in crowded streets, in fact, disabled people with real ambition and backbone will try their best to make money even if they are physically disabled. Just like Mr. Hooke, who has no hands or legs abroad, the disabled and the determined people, relying on tenacious willpower, will not get their own career in the end, but will also gain a loving family and four lovely children. Therefore, disability is not a reason to win others' sympathy for you. If God closes a door for you, he will open another window for you, regardless of his fate.

Those are professional beggars, who make a living by it. Don't take it to heart whether to show your heart or not!

It's not that people are unsympathetic, but that too many people cheat sympathy.

Beggars are tax collectors of conscience. In fact, able-bodied beggars can be ignored. They are all limbs, so they should give some change in their pockets. Personal opinion! Don't spray if you don't like it!

Don't give points for the following situations:

First, passers-by do not believe that he is really a beggar, and there is a crisis of trust.

Second, passers-by are in a hurry.

Third, passers-by want to give but have no change.

Four, a dollar means three steamed buns to passers-by.

Fifth, from the public interest, others will not give it, and I will not give it.

6. Passers-by look down on people who beg for a living.

Because I am poorer than him.

Not all beggars deserve sympathy, keep your eyes open and treat them differently! Especially those who take advantage of others' sympathy to seek benefits, we can't see what is hidden behind these.