What is the experience of being a wife of Voldemort?

When I mentioned the word "Voldemort", the first thing I thought of was the recent TV series, the most typical of which was The Only Son starring Lin. When I first came into contact with this drama, I would brush the same story over and over again because of the recommendation mechanism:

"Leo, the male owner, wants his wife Lin to take out 200,000 yuan saved for several years for emergency use because he needs money to open a clinic, but his wife stammered that the money had already bought a house for his brother, without her husband's knowledge; What makes Leo collapse even more is an accidental opportunity to learn that the 200,000 wife did not lend it to her younger brother, but sponsored it to her younger brother, which means that the money will never come back ... "

Although the plot is fictional, it can also reflect some social phenomena from the side, just like the sentence circulating on the Internet: "Marry a wife without marrying Mo, and marry a mother without marrying a baby boy", which still has some truth. Here are some pertinent suggestions for you:

1. If your wife is Voldemort, then you must master the financial power.

There is a simple reason. Voldemort's terror must still be related to money, because she will sponsor her brother indefinitely. If you let her manage the money, you can't save it. Of course, a key factor here is this younger brother. If the younger brother is a sensible person, he will not ask his sister for money without restraint. It is reasonable to appropriately subsidize my brother without affecting his life. Of course, the best way is to control your own financial power, be rational, give the money you should give, and resolutely not give it.

2. Know clearly before getting married, and in this respect, both husband and wife have reached an understanding.

Before you get married, you must know each other's family situation, and if necessary, tell your ugly behavior first. In this case, the wife will also consider dealing with family matters and try not to hurt the feelings of husband and wife.

If the wife is a rational person, it will be much easier; If the wife is an emotional person, she must communicate well in advance, explain the interests and let her know the consequences of doing so. In a word, couples should communicate more.

Finally, to sum up: a family with Voldemort may not gather wealth, but I believe such a woman must have her excellent side, so everything has two sides. In any case, couples must communicate and understand more to have a harmonious and happy family.