"My husband and I have three houses, and my brother wants to give one when he gets married." Do you have such a brother-in-law around you?

I saw a news that my brother was married, and my sister secretly gave my brother 200,000 savings as a gift without telling her husband.

I really cried after reading it. One really dares to give, and the other really dares to accept. Brother and sister.

Such a confused woman relies on her husband's love and tolerance. In other words, she has no love for her husband at all, because loving someone can take into account each other's bottom line.

In other words, the so-called lover in her eyes is just a "tool" that can be used to fulfill herself, her family and her younger brother.

Both my sister and my brother are the best gifts left by our parents, and they are the only relatives in the world except our parents. Getting married is a big deal, and being your brother is normal, but at least you should discuss it with your lover first.

Home is the home of two people, and money is also their money. If one person secretly makes a decision, he obviously doesn't care about another person.

Yang Xin doesn't do things that well, but it's terrible. Although I discussed it with my husband in advance, it was a house as soon as I opened my mouth. Although it is a small county, its absolute value is 400,000 to 500,000. Seeing that my husband didn't agree, I argued with him confidently.

"The two of us can't live in so many houses. What's wrong with giving a set to my brother? Isn't your hand idle? If he is rich in the future, he will certainly remember your kindness. "

In this case, it is enough to show that a woman's heart is not in her own family. This deep-rooted idea was almost hard to change later, and she didn't think there was anything wrong with her idea. Husband and wife will only drift away if they lose their common pursuit.

02

Tell me about the conditions in Yangxin! When I first got married, my in-laws prepared a wedding room for me.

Later, my husband and in-laws did business, and the family made a lot of money and bought two houses one after another. My husband has made a plan. Although he has no son, he has two daughters. This is their future dowry.

Being married for eight years is the greatest ability. Plus there is not much savings at home, and Yang Xin knows this, so he didn't say anything when discussing buying a house for his younger brother.

Yang Xin's maiden, the condition is very general. Although she can afford a house, she can only pay a down payment. After all, there are miscellaneous expenses such as bride price, decoration and banquet.

Yang Xin didn't want his brother to live so hard after marriage, and he had to pay off his mortgage and car loan.

Then I put my thoughts on my own real estate, hoping that my husband would agree with my thoughts and send a house to my brother. Anyway, they have three sets now.

It's a pity that my husband doesn't agree, and because of this, the two people have been estranged and their feelings have also had great problems.

"My husband and I have three houses, and my brother wants to send one when he gets married. Is it too much? " This is the answer that Yang Xin wants to know most now.

Before, the affection between brother and sister could not be measured by money. Everyone wants their loved ones to live well, but some help still needs to be done according to their abilities. First of all, even if you are a sister, you have no obligation. It's just a favor and a heart, and you can't think that a girl should pay.

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Whether the woman's brother gets married or the man's sister gets married. Without the consent of the lover, neither party can make a promise easily, otherwise it will only destroy the harmony of the family.

There is no standard answer to this kind of thing, but it is a suite directly, which I think most people can't accept. I believe every adult has a deep understanding of how difficult it is to make money.

Moreover, life is full of too many unknown variables, and smooth sailing at present does not mean smooth sailing in the future. Have a plan to live. What should I do if I encounter difficulties in the future?

After two people get married, they should consider and plan for the family and think about how to make the family better. Only in this way can we help the people we love. The better we live, the stronger our abilities, right?

In this case, what makes men sad is never the woman's request, but her attitude, which values the mother's family or brother more than his own. This attitude will make him sad, chilling and sad.

One more thing, for a long time, a sister treated her brother like this, and my brother would not be moved by it, but felt that you should. Human nature cannot be tested.

Also, after my brother got married, some things were not decided by my brother alone. Many times, he was forced by himself.

There are three houses, and my brother wants to give one when he gets married. Strictly speaking, this has shaken his family. This is beyond my power to help, and it is not just a matter of mind.

Finally, a marriage that does not consider the feelings and thoughts of the lover will not last long and will not be strong.