What do people over 65 fear most?

I don't think a 65-year-old is afraid of anything. At this age, life is not far from the end. Everything is natural. One day at a time, one year at a time.

People over 65 are almost 70 years old, so we can take our time. Fame and fortune have nothing to do with us. We should live a high-ranking and generous life and have more children and fewer girls. There is only one kind of helplessness to catch up with them.

Whether you are a senior official or a rich man when you are young, you will eventually face birth, illness and death. God is fair.

It's just that people with good conditions live better, and those with poor conditions have to live. Don't compare money and filial piety with others. It's good to be alive.

Life is very difficult. They struggled when they were young, and they felt at ease. They only pay, regardless of return, but also let go. There are thousands of trees in the mountains, but it is hard to see a centenarian in the world.

Cherish yourself, be less sick and less miserable, cherish the people around you, love and cherish those who care about you and help you get old.

It is not easy for children to cherish their affection, and it is not easy for children to be cool. Try not to get the children into trouble. Do it yourself as much as possible, don't always be filial, people will change their minds.

Don't complain. What social injustice, what welfare is bad, what children are unfilial, and what changes in the world have to be put aside. Life and death are natural laws, so we should face them frankly.

Old people have five fears. Let me tell you the truth:

According to my observation, people over 65 have five fears.

One is afraid of losing another partner, with no one around. No one cares about diseases and disasters, and loneliness is very helpless.

The second is to go to the hospital for fear of getting sick. I can't stand tossing and turning. I worked hard to save two dollars, and I spent all my serious illness.

Third, I am afraid that my pension is too small to go to a nursing home. It's hard to hire a nanny, so spend the rest of your life carefully.

Fourth, I am afraid of slippery roads in the snow, and I will fall down if I am not careful. The injury of flesh and blood is a trivial matter, and the fracture is even unbearable.

I'm afraid to go out and cross the road. The traffic is heavy. Stop and go, look around, and be careful of accidents.

People have difficulties when they are old, so it's no use being afraid.

Birth, old age, illness and death are the laws, and we can only be optimistic.

Happy every day, living in the present is the most secure.

There are many things to be afraid of. When people get old, their bodies gradually decline and they can't do anything. They have to rely on others to help them. It is often said that it is better to ask for yourself than to ask for others. Dont Ask For Help can't do some things when he is old.

Sixty-five years old, most afraid of poor health, illness, and no money in my pocket. That is the greatest sorrow. No money hurts me to death. Secondly, I need someone to care about me, someone to be warm, and someone to be afraid of loneliness.

In real life, there are many lonely old people living alone. Despite social care, TAs are still eager to have family to accompany them for the rest of their lives. It is not unreasonable to raise children for old age. The national pension system is gradually improving. In the process of perfection, it is inseparable from the family pension model. Only by combining the two can the old people feel safe and dependent.

People are always the inevitable law. We respect the laws of nature, and it's no use being afraid. When it comes, we should have a good attitude, good living habits, face the reality optimistically, take good care of ourselves and live a healthy and happy life every day.

At the age of 65, you have entered the twilight of your life. No matter how young and energetic you are, your physiology will always remind you that you are no longer young and it is time to consider the issue of providing for the aged.

Now many old people in the city have enough pensions, food and clothing, physical permission, can travel everywhere and enjoy life to the fullest.

However, when you calm down and think about it, there are still things to worry about, things to worry about, and things to fear most, which have always been in your throat: worrying about being seriously ill in bed when you are old and afraid of bringing a heavy burden to your child.

This kind of worry is not groundless. Not every old man can always fall asleep in an easy chair like Marx. Some people are over 65 years old, and they have physical diseases, strokes, cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases, which lead to bedridden and unable to take care of themselves.

My neighbor Professor Han is 67 years old. He cleaned the room, stepped on a step, broke his collarbone and is now bedridden. My son is busy at work and can't share his troubles. He asked a middle-aged woman to pay 4000 yuan a month for food, accommodation and day and night care. Fortunately, Mr. Han's retirement fee is more than 8,000 yuan per month, and he will not lose money. However, he is lying in the hospital bed, distressed! People don't have everything they want, and they have to admit their troubles.

Worry is not as good as taking good care of your body from now on. Don't be reluctant to eat, drink or consume. The body is the most precious and valuable real estate, and all the big items in the family have depreciated, but only the body is priceless.

If you want to get through it, you should always pay attention to protecting your body, keeping in good health scientifically, eating well, sleeping well, playing fast, walking well and living happily every day. I don't think I will get seriously ill, so don't worry at all!

Sixty-five years old, over sixty-five, stumbling towards ancient times.

Say goodbye to the post of love.

Say goodbye to hard work

Say goodbye to familiar colleagues.

Say goodbye to rushing.

Say goodbye to ambition and ambition

Farewell to promotion and salary increase.

"Flowers will reopen one day, and people are no longer young."

There is still afterglow, and there is still residual heat.

Or return to the field, or return to the roots, or stick to the nest, or move the child.

After five years of self-cultivation after retiring,

Stay away from sweating.

Stay away from dizziness

Stay away from fatigue

Stay away from hard work

Stay away from day and night.

Stay away from the bang.

Stay away from the struggle

Stay away from the battle for drums.

Stay away from deep feelings and hatred

I forgot the blood boiling at work.

Forget about his all-powerful days in office.

Forgot that I was walking on thin ice at work.

I am very relaxed, watching the scorching sun, the snowy moon, the autumn rain and the spring breeze.

In downtown, in alleys, in mountain villages, in Taohuayuan,

Travel around famous mountains and rivers, taste all kinds of specialties, play all kinds of things that you like to play, and be proud of forgetting your ambition.

Be a good nurse, security guard, buyer, cook and hygienist, and enjoy family happiness.

Inadvertently, look in the mirror:

What a familiar face inside, suddenly become strange:

Thick hair, like dead leaves on trees in winter, is sparse. "I stroked my white hair. It has become so thin that it can no longer hold hairpins. "

Smooth face, like wrinkled bark, ravines. The face is covered with dust, and the temples are like frost.

Bright eyes are like unpolished glass, turbid and dim.

Smart ears, I feel that the loud songs outside the window are getting lighter and lighter. After lights out, sleep in the beautiful rain.

White teeth, never say goodbye a few times.

He seems to be two centimeters shorter.

There seems to be two small bowls missing from my appetite.

It seems that I lost two hours in sleep.

The pace seems to be two beats slow.

The clothes seem to be two fingers too big.

Leather shoes seem to have gained two pounds.

Old, natural law, can't refuse to obey!

Sixty-five years old, what are you most afraid of?

Afraid of getting sick, unable to take care of themselves, dragging down children,

Afraid of being penniless, stretched out and unable to move,

Afraid of losing his wife, helplessness and loneliness,

I am afraid that my children will be unfilial, ignore them and leave the dusk alone.

I am even more afraid that the country is not rich and strong, the society is not peaceful, and the most unfortunate thing is the elderly.

Sixty-five years old, what are you most afraid of?

After the vicissitudes of life, there is nothing to be afraid of!

We should get together, have a rest, eat, drink, sleep, get up, play, swim and have fun.

Life is only once, and youth is gone forever, and it is impossible to start again, while Su Shi Dongpo thinks:

"Who said that life has not decreased? Running water in front of the door, you can still go west. "

Although people's youth can't be copied, they can be old and strong, and they can have the spirit of self-improvement. This spirit often makes people glow with youthful brilliance, that is, life can be less, just like a stream can still flow westward.

These two inspirational words, that is, framing metaphors, express profound philosophy of life in perceptual language.

We should be soberly aware that we are sixty-five years old and still young;

Twenty years younger than two old people running for president in the United States;

In rural areas, it is still half of the labor force. As usual, weeding at noon, planting melons and beans;

In foreign countries, some are bosses in enterprises, some are looking for jobs to earn their own living, and some still have meetings around dusk.

Let nature take its course and be content.

We should be glad that we were born in a good country, inherited our traditions, relied on our government, conformed to our system and enjoyed good treatment:

Holding three cards:

Social security card, with food in your hand, don't panic in your heart;

Medical insurance card, early treatment of illness, strong physique;

Bus card, urban and rural travel, pleasing to the eye.

At the beginning of Gengzi, COVID-19 ravaged the world, and the old people in the world bore the brunt, and everyone feared it. Some countries have given up the treatment of the elderly over 65 directly.

Only the great people of China and the country, people-oriented, life first, men and women, old and young, whether 65, 75, 85, 95 ... as long as they are sick and alive, they will try their best to save lives.

Proud that we are from China,

Proud that we are old people over 65 years old in China.

"The five-star red flag flutters in the wind, how loud the song of victory is, singing about our beloved motherland, and moving towards prosperity and strength from now on!"

Don't worry, people over the age of 65, put down their bags and go into battle lightly, and a happier life is waiting for us with a smile.

A healthy body is our body,

Happiness is our mood,

Hip-hop is our friend,

Tuan Tuan Yuan Yuan is our family,

Wisdom Fofo Agbo Wisdom Fofo Agbo is our wife,

Filial piety is our offspring,

Stability is our society,

Prosperity is our country.

After the age of 65, people's health is getting worse every year, and various diseases gradually begin to appear, such as three highs, leg pain, back pain, and the body is no longer working. In fact, these are not terrible. My biggest fear is emergency hospitalization. Such as cerebral hemorrhage, myocardial infarction, various polyps, especially cancer. Spending money is a matter, and children can't just delay their work and feel uneasy. The thought of being in hospital just to suffer makes my hair stand on end. So the old man is afraid of an emergency. Chronic diseases are no problem. There are online pharmacies on the street. It is common sense for the elderly to take medicine when they are sick. The old man listens to the doctor and tries to avoid acute diseases. Don't smoke, drink less, wear thick clothes, eat less, walk slowly, be less in charge, and be careful everywhere, you can avoid acute diseases.

There are many things I fear most at this age, such as getting sick, having no money in my pocket, and being unfilial to my children. ......

If what I fear most is loneliness.

Sixty-five years old, from the time point of view, should be enough, especially for retired people in the city, there is nothing to do at all. However, a lonely old man doesn't want to cook by himself, even if he has time. He is often hungry after eating, and three meals become two meals, and two meals are leftovers; I don't want to go out. I'm far away and my age doesn't allow it. I'm afraid of accidents, and I have nothing to do when I leave home. I don't even want to wash clothes. Why? No motivation!

A lot of spare time is locked in the house where I have lived for several years. Isn't it lonely? !

Mentally speaking, there is no goal and pursuit in life, and you can't divert your attention. A person is idle at home, no one listens to what he says, and there is nowhere to complain. Children are scarce, most of them are not married around, it is difficult to meet, and they have no patience to listen to you when they meet; Living with children doesn't help. Not only can not solve loneliness, but also may lose freedom and loneliness!

From a realistic point of view, when you have a headache and your brain is hot, you want to drink saliva. The water bottle is empty and the water can't reach you. At present, I am only sixty-five years old, and my body is still strong. I can still move when I want to do something, but I dare not think about the road behind me. I'm afraid I can't spend money. Not only loneliness, but also fear.

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So people are most afraid of loneliness after they reach the age of 65.

However, if you have a wife, especially the original wife, you won't be lonely. The original wife has lived with herself for decades. Even if there are quarrels and bumps, she will not be separated from herself. She is loyal, reliable and considerate, and has long been a "comrade-in-arms" in the trenches.

With a wife, even if the money is less, it can make life a little harder; If you have bitterness in your heart, you can tell your wife that you may get comfort or ideas from your wife; Life is also regular, even if you do it yourself, you are more energetic; When I was sick, someone was around asking for help. ......

Therefore, cherish the original wife; Even if the original match is gone for some reason, find a wife as soon as possible.

A hole in the eye.

People over 65 years old will reach 70 years old before they know it. Even the employees of enterprises and institutions have retired for several years, and the elderly in rural areas will still go to work at this age, and no one will want anything. China's delayed retirement is still under discussion, and the age is set at 65, so we have to admit that we have completely entered the old age. What do old people at this age fear most? Refreshing means not supporting the elderly and being afraid of getting sick.

Older people over 65 enter a "decisive period" in their lives. The foot root is unstable, and falling sometimes causes joint diseases; Especially a stroke, if you are not careful, you will fall and be paralyzed. Not to mention looking down on illness, you can't take care of yourself just by living, and the pain is beyond words. Pension only has three meals a day, as long as you are not hungry, live day by day. Sickness and pain should be the most feared thing for people over 65.

Older people over 65 should exercise properly, for example, doing gymnastics and walking, which can promote blood circulation and improve immunity; Pay attention to the schedule, develop the good habit of going to bed early and getting up early, and sleep for at least 6 hours every day, which can regulate physiological functions and stabilize the balance of the nervous system; Protect brain health. Only in this way can we be in a healthy and benign state and prolong life.

What I fear most is lack of money, poor health, unfilial children and social neglect. Life is worse than death.

It has been several years since people over 65 retired. When they just retired, they had already enjoyed a happy retirement life. They are crazy, have had enough fun, and their physical functions are slowly deteriorating. Even some playmates may have left. If they can't keep a good attitude, they will start to worry about their future life:

First of all, I'm afraid my children are not filial. It was supposed to be a time to enjoy family happiness. When you meet unfilial descendants, you will not only be unfilial, but also be angry with you every day, or not support the elderly, or be indifferent to the elderly who can't afford to get sick, or ignore the empty nesters, or make trouble outside to make you wipe your ass. Do you think you won't go bad?

The second is fear of illness and disaster. Whether it is a disease or a disaster, it is a loss of wealth and a loss of life. There is still a chance to turn over when you are young, but when you are old, you really can't afford it, so don't get sick or suffer.

Third, I am afraid of lack of money. Although money is not everything, you can't do anything without money. No Country for Old Men, you can only support old bones for two meals. It hurts to think about it.

I'm afraid to see my friends leave one by one, and I'm even more afraid that white-haired people will send black-haired people. That's the mood, alas.