My mother always insults me and satirizes me. What should I do? Some of them are still not in line with reality. I mentioned them to her, and she didn't agree, but I was really, really sad.

Don't count on it Some parents just like to shock education. This is their parenting philosophy. There is a typical case, which should be a girl from Harvard University, from China. Her mother said she jumped off a building. She studied hard since she was a child and was admitted to Harvard University. She is someone else's child. She worked so hard not for anything else, but for her mother's affirmation and praise, but never. She is the pride of her mother, the treasure that her mother shows off in front of others, but she has never said a good word for her. Finally, at Harvard University, her mother flew across the ocean with joy to see her. In the dormitory, she asked her mother, am I really that miserable? How can I satisfy you? Mother replied, "Do you think you did a good job?" There is still no affirmation or praise. She was desperate. She felt that she would never satisfy her mother. She closed the window ... mom may still treat you like a child, so she said that. She didn't notice that you have grown up and have your own independent personality and self-esteem. In her view, this is a spur and education for you, but her expression should be improved. The child is growing up. I hope parents can talk to their children attentively and stand on an equal footing. If your mother doesn't realize this, you can talk to her and express your opinions on all kinds of things at ordinary times, so that parents can realize that you can think completely independently and have your own thoughts and ideas. Such a mother is wrong. Now, children should be encouraged more. It is rare to hear mothers do this. It's time to reflect. This kid is good. At least he knows that mom is wrong. He pointed out to his face that his mother really disagreed. He should condemn that every child is the treasure of his parents. No parents don't love their children. Is it because your mother doesn't like what you usually do, so she satirizes you with words, or inspires you with provocation in disguise? Communicate with your mother and tell her what you think. I believe mom will change.