Why do many old people now prefer dancing, playing cards and playing mobile phones rather than bringing their grandchildren?

do I have to bring it? Children can be unfilial. Old people may not take it if they are in poor health, or they may not take it if their living conditions are poor, and so on. Taking care of grandchildren is not a legal obligation, and it is completely unnecessary.

Happy dancing, playing cards and playing mobile phones!

are you happy with your grandchildren? Some are happy, some are unhappy.

When I go to my daughter-in-law's house, I cook, do laundry and take care of my children. When I meet a daughter-in-law who is not sensible, I have to look at her face and be a little idle. Of course, I don't want to take care of my grandchildren. It's as simple as that.

Dancing has a happy mood, can exercise well, and is neither angry nor sick. Now they are all only children, selfish, and have nothing to do with the elderly. Many elderly people are very disappointed with their children, and many of them plan to live in nursing homes when they are old.

Playing cards is also fun, which can exercise your brain and avoid dementia. I'm afraid it's useless to expect children to take care of dementia.

it's fun to play with your mobile phone! Know what's going on in the world It also prevents Alzheimer's disease.

Taking care of children is the daughter-in-law's own business. Some daughters-in-law don't go to work and let the elderly take care of them and play by themselves. Of course, the elderly are not happy.

You can hire a nanny for your own children. Old people take care of their children, which is basically a paid nanny. Maybe they are still angry. Of course, old people are not willing to take care of their grandchildren.

Because dancing and playing cards are recreational activities to relax the body, some elderly people often appear in the dance floor and poker field according to their own preferences. This will lead to different opinions and different voices among different people. People who understand will say, dancing and playing cards are good, so relax. People who don't understand will light their fingers behind their backs and say,

"I'm really full!"

as for babysitting, it is a heavy and time-consuming manual labor. For the elderly, it is mostly due to age and physical factors, which makes them have no strong and abundant strength to look after their children. Even if there is, most of them are trying their best to take care of it. Because their son and daughter-in-law are very busy, because their children are their own grandchildren.

but even if the elderly make efforts, sometimes they don't fall well.

people, it is better to be content. For those in-laws who often take care of their children, as daughters-in-law, it is better to give some smiles and encouragement!

There is no contradiction between dancing, playing cards and playing mobile phones and bringing up grandchildren. Lao Li doesn't know how to dance and doesn't like playing cards (unless his wife drags him to accompany his grandson for several rounds), but he plays mobile phones every day, but he hasn't delayed seeing his grandson, from half a year old to 12 years old this year.

dancing isn't all day long, is it? Generally, we jump for a while at dawn in the morning and for a while at night, that is to say, when our young parents are at home, can't we relax? Do you have to be a 24-hour nanny to be satisfied?

As for playing cards, it is also common for me to send my grandchildren to school. Generally, most of them are 7.8-year-old people, and most of their grandchildren have grown up, and their great-grandchildren can't watch them even if they have them. It can be said that this is a way of making friends and entertainment for the elderly. Although I don't participate, I am sympathetic and considerate.

as for playing mobile phones, I don't know how you young people play outside, but I know that when you get home, you should sit on the sofa with your eyelids down, and you should pay three respects when you eat. Shouldn't we play just because you are allowed to play? Just working life?

There is no denying that some old people would rather pay than take care of their children. This is their freedom. The law does not stipulate that grandparents must look after their grandchildren. When our children were born 56 days ago, they all took care of their children and sent them to the nursery when they went to work. Didn't they grow up the same?

So I think this "why" question of the subject is a little too much, a little disrespectful to the elderly of their parents, and a little imposing.

I think it's better for you to play, but make time to see your children and let's play for a while. (Laughter)

After spending my whole life taking care of my parents and my children, please let me have a good experience of what life is, not just living!

Everything has two sides. I think it's necessary for the elderly to see their grandchildren, unless their children don't use them. Seeing their children is a family pleasure. It's common to have more contact with their children and deepen their feelings. The elderly find pleasure in it, cook for their children in a different way, send them to work, watch him dance, listen to him sing, buy shells for him, and really play the role of grandparents. Daughters-in-law get along well. On the other hand, if you have time to dance, play cards and travel, and don't fulfill the obligations of the elderly, will your heart be peaceful and worthy of your children and grandchildren? This is just my opinion. Please comment if it is inappropriate.

Let's talk about the questions in the question first. I believe the old people have sufficient reasons to be unwilling.

The topic of the elderly taking care of children is discussed everywhere and at any time. In reality, there must be disharmonious reasons for those who are unwilling to take care of children except for physical reasons, or their sons and daughters-in-law take the elderly taking care of children for granted. And I am not sensible or understand the love and hard work of my parents.

Especially some daughters-in-law don't respect their parents very much, and it depends on their faces to help with their children.

Most warm families find it a pleasure for the elderly to help with their children.

When people reach the age of having grandchildren, who doesn't want to see their descendants grow up healthily and happily, even if they are hard, they will feel happy. This is human nature. Therefore, the younger generation of the family who are unwilling to help the elderly take care of their children should find out the reasons for themselves.

It is written in the Constitution of China that the elderly must take care of their sons or daughters. Should old people be free babysitters, cheap waiters, and shopkeepers who pay and contribute? Taking care of children is easy to say. Feeding to sleep, changing diapers and washing excrement cloth, playing in the sun, teaching numbers, reading pictures, singing, playing the piano and dancing. Every household has a father, who sends it in the morning and picks it up at night. Primary school transfers for six years, middle school transfers for three years, and high school accepts for three years. Universities don't need to transfer, and they have to pay money from time to time. Blow the old man's blood and sweat dry. This is the children's plan. In these ten years, it is unreasonable for the elderly who have to cook with their children and take care of their children and grandchildren all their lives. What's wrong with old people dancing, playing cards and playing mobile phones? I want the elderly to be paid nannies all my life. How can you bear being children?

Dancing, playing cards and playing mobile phones, why not help your children with their grandchildren?

Old people dance, play cards and play mobile phones, which is the true embodiment of their old age after retirement, and it is also a kind of fun in their free time. There is no right or wrong distinction.

Old people have no obligation to help their children take care of their children, but if their children are too busy at work, they can help them take care of their children. However, most children don't remember the old people's efforts, but regard the old people as free servants. After they enter the door, they don't help them, but they reach out for food, which is too much. The old people are too busy washing and cooking to look after their children, and they still think that the old people have not taken care of their children well.

The old people have worked hard to bring up their children, worked hard for them, married and had children for them, and paid their own efforts. And can children know how to honor the elderly? They only know that they live in their own world of two people, regardless of the bitterness and cold of the elderly.

It's true that young people are under great pressure, so it's very difficult to work and raise their children. However, when it comes to treating the elderly, if you can use it, you can use it. If you can't use it, you will never ask about the life of the elderly, or even be enemies with the elderly. In this way, will the elderly help their children look after their children?

Today's society is basically a small family. Most elderly people live alone with their children. On the issue of helping their children with their children, it is understandable to help them if they can. Everyone has their own way of life, and the elderly have no obligation to help you with your children. More tolerance and understanding, making life happier and happy every day is the most important thing.

When people are old, they should stop working, have a rest, enjoy life and enjoy happiness. These are the beautiful wishes of people who have worked hard for most of their lives.

when you are old and retired, you have to find your own fun to spend the rest of your life when you have nothing to do. What is your own pleasure? I think what I like is the greatest pleasure. Among them, I think it is the greatest pleasure to help my children take care of their children as long as their physical condition permits, and they still enjoy the greatest family happiness. There is a saying on the Internet that "it is better to wait on grandchildren than to let them". Of course, it is not good for some people not to help their children with their children for various reasons. The situation of each family and each family is different, so try not to seek perfection and blame.