Old people have money but no money to talk about their mood.

Wilde said: When I was young, I always thought that money was everything. I won't know until I get old. It's true.

When people get old, they have no savings at all. When they need to spend money, it's too uncomfortable to reach out and ask their children for money. Only those who have experienced it can understand the bitterness.

Although money is not everything, in old age, if there is no money, it is absolutely impossible. Although everyone thinks that talking about money hurts feelings, talking about money is too tacky, but talking about money is sad, especially when the elderly need to spend money, how many children hurt each other by giving money to their parents?

Money is the basic guarantee for people's survival. Without it, even survival is a problem, let alone life. With money in hand, you don't panic. When you are old, that is your confidence and dignity.

Aunt Pan, 75, said that when people are old, there is a big difference between having money and having no money. My husband and wife have a high pension and a lot of savings. My son usually goes to a relative's house, but when he comes back to see me, it's much less. He didn't call, so he came back to see me during the holiday and left.

Aunt Pan has a son and a daughter who live in the same city, but seldom go home. Occasionally, they just come back to visit, buy some daily necessities, and then leave for a while without more communication.

The son often drives to his in-laws' home for dinner, and sometimes takes them out to play. Mainly because my in-laws bought him a car and reimbursed him every time he went out.

I have a small pension, which is just enough for living expenses in one month. If I take any more medicine, I will have no money. By the time my son got married, I had spent all my savings and my daughter's bride price money.

Now my daughter thinks that I didn't bring the bride price money back to her small home, that I am biased by my mother, and that my son thinks that his in-laws are rich and would rather go to her home.

This man is always unpopular when he has no money. The older you get, the less money you have, and you can only enjoy a quiet life alone.

Sometimes when I look at other people's lives, I really seldom regret that I didn't know how to save more money when I was young. I have been living a life of "drink today, get drunk today". When I am old, I find that there is a big difference between a life without money and a life with money.

In-laws are also a son and a daughter, but they all raise their children into college students. Now life is easy and my pension is high. One person is much more than me, let alone two?

According to my son, my in-laws will give red envelopes to the younger generation on holidays. After everyone has finished eating, my in-laws will settle the bill. If the young man checks out, give them a red envelope. In-laws always say that young people are happy to come back to accompany them. How can young people pay for meals?

In-laws also gave their grandchildren a college award fund when they were in college. Grandchildren are happy, children are happy and the whole family is happy. Such days are the foundation of money, so I can only sit downstairs in the sun and watch other children come and go.

Occasionally, my daughter comes back to see me, and I want to give her some money, but my daughter says nothing. She said to me, mom, keep it for yourself. There are many places where I need money in the future, and I can spend it myself.

Who doesn't want money? My daughter just doesn't want it. She is afraid that I will ask her for more in the future.

When people reach their old age, having money and having no money reflects self-confidence and dignity. Rich people's words sound good, but poor people's words don't sound good, mainly in these three aspects:

The old man worked hard all his life. When he is old, he wants to have a good rest, enjoy life, do something he likes, or visit great rivers and mountains.

Rich people often get together, go out together, go out with like-minded friends, eat and drink tea, see the local customs of various places, and leave some beautiful photos to commemorate when they are old.

Others learn what they didn't have time to learn before and live a colorful and happy old age.

People who have no money, even after retirement, are not allowed to have a good rest, but try to find something they can do. If not, they will go to the community to collect waste products, save some change and save some future pension money for themselves.

As for the leisure of travel, I can only envy it. Usually reluctant to eat and spend, I always want to save more money for my children.

Many people feel that talking about money with children hurts their feelings, and not talking about money hurts their mood. They think that the affection bought with money is not worth mentioning at all, but this is the most real reality.

When people get old, they have money in their pockets, but they don't panic. The monthly pension is enough for expenses, including seeing a doctor and taking medicine. Old people can support themselves without increasing the burden on their children, and occasionally lend a helping hand when their children are in trouble. Look at the family atmosphere again.

Colleague Lao Li has been a leader all his life, and his income should be much higher than mine at the grassroots level. But when he was young, he did not know how to save money. He is old, and his pension is ok for eating and seeing a doctor. When he needs to pay for hospitalization medicine, the contradiction between his children appears.

Another colleague, Lao Zhao, knew how to save money and manage money when he was young. Now he is ill in the hospital, and his children are rushing to take care of him. Because Lao Zhao pays for his own medical treatment and will give subsidies to take care of his children after discharge, who doesn't want to take good care of him?

Many things in people's lives are marked with good prices in the dark. If you don't know how to save money when you are young, you will suffer some sins in your later years.

In the past, the inheritance of the older generation was "raising children to prevent old age" and relying on children to provide for the elderly. However, real life tells us that the real old-age care still depends on ourselves, not children.

Children have their own homes and live their own lives. It is not easy for everyone. It is not that some children are unwilling to be filial to the elderly, but that they are really unable to give money when their parents need it. They have to run for survival and can't accompany their parents.

For the elderly in their later years, the money in hand is the greatest reliance and guarantee. If you feel unwell, you can hire an hourly worker or a live-in nanny so that your child doesn't have to worry too much.

I have money in my hand, so I don't have to ask my children what I want to buy. How many old people in life are reluctant to spend even the money to buy medicine, and they all carry it hard and drag a minor illness into a serious illness.

It is better to have children. The money in the hands of the elderly is their confidence and dignity in their later years. Make more money and save more money while you are still young and have a lot of ability.

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