Daughter suffered domestic violence after marriage. What should parents do?

I have always attached great importance to privacy. Although I have often shared my life online in recent years, most of them discuss parenting experience and spiritual growth. I only talk about the past, not the present. In addition to avoiding the pursuit of a violent father, I am actually very quiet and self-disciplined and need personal space. After the daughter of domestic violence became a mother, she summed up four parenting points and shared them with everyone.

Sometimes I will say with a smile that I have the function of "self-purification", and I can slowly turn bad memories into motivation for progress through introspection and analysis. This is a journey that needs to be calmly combed. It's a pity that my dad is a control freak, and he has to master everything completely. Maybe he just stepped on the bottom line. The more overbearing he is, the more disgusted I am. At that time, I used a small notebook to record my mood, saying that my diary was not so diligent and I only wrote it when I sighed at school and at home. At that time, my father's new girlfriend lived at home, and I often scolded her in my notebook, because I couldn't get rid of her in real life. All that remains is my unrequited love when I was young.

One day, I found that my father's new girlfriend stole my diary, because it was moved, and it was definitely not where I wanted to put it. In this case, I will write comments to her even more brazenly. Love it, come and see it! It is because of this woman that my mother moved away from home. If I don't even have the freedom to write, how can I invade my privacy for this woman who destroys other people's families?

This little book has mysteriously disappeared. A few months later, I found it in my father's suitcase and some letters from my friends. At that time, I thought that my father and new girlfriend openly picked up personal belongings without even informing me of any letters, completely ignoring my privacy and power, which was simply stealing. You got it? When families don't respect children's autonomy, the original small things will swell into big things, and nothing will become nothing. After extreme disgust, children will start to maintain the east and the west, and then it will be even harder to care about them!

Since I was born, motherhood has often urged me to take more care of it, but the unpleasant experience of being interfered since I was a child reminds me almost every day that children have autonomy, no matter how small. Don't touch anything and don't repeat the same mistake. Over the past few years, the results have been quite good. I summed up four points to share with you!