No one can escape fate in this life

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Human life seems to be a ball of intertwined threads, seemingly without any structure. There are no flaws.

But in fact, one hair can affect the whole body. As long as you identify the main thread that governs the overall situation and follow it, you will be able to unravel all the mysteries of your life.

To put it bluntly, all human beings who have flesh and blood and need to endure the pain of life, old age, illness, and death can never escape the willful tricks of fate.

Many people think that they are strong enough to change their destiny, but after going around for half their life, they will find that no one can escape their fate in this life.

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In the movie "Young You", Chen Nian is an ordinary female high school student with fairly good academic performance, but her appearance is really not memorable. My life was originally calm, without a trace of waves.

Until Chen Nian witnessed a school violence incident and chose to report it to the school, a storm suddenly began to set off in her world.

First, he was isolated and bullied intentionally or unintentionally by his classmates, and then his stool was glued and he was chased and beaten on the way home.

Chen Nian was unexpected by all these violent incidents. She often thought that if she had not been the one who stood out, perhaps she would not have so much trouble if she chose to remain silent.

Unfortunately, there are no ifs in this world. Every decision you make now will lead you to a different distance.

-03-

It was like Chen Nian met Xiaobei, a street gangster who had nothing to do and enjoyed fighting all day long.

Their meeting was a fate, and everything that happened next was an arrangement of fate.

Chen Nian originally didn't want to meddle in other people's business, but when she saw Xiaobei being beaten with blood by several people and unable to stand up, she still softened her heart.

So she shouted loudly, "The police are coming." Those people who were about to punch Xiaobei heard that the police were coming, said a few harsh words and ran away in a hurry. .

And it was precisely because of this unexpected incident that the fateful entanglement between Chen Nian and Xiaobei officially kicked off.

On the one hand, Chen Nian was forced to get involved in the turmoil between Xiaobei and other gangsters because she was mistaken for Xiaobei's girlfriend. She was faced with the problem of kissing Xiaobei or Xiaobei. In the dilemma of being slapped, I painfully chose the former.

Chen Nian has always been kind, but she has never experienced the kindness and warmth from others.

On the other hand, the school violence Chen Nian suffered became more and more serious, and she began to long for someone's protection, and finally she identified that person in Xiaobei.

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Perhaps fate is really a wonderful thing. A second ago, Chen Nian felt that Xiaobei's appearance had brought her too many hardships that she could not bear.

The next second, she felt that Xiaobei was taking her to and from school. She finally no longer had to worry about hiding from this and that. She even further hoped for something that was out of reach before.

For example, going to college and staying away from this city that made her sad, or changing the world and making it a paradise without violence and only peace.

However, fate has never been kind to the two people who depended on each other. After school, Xiaobei did not come to pick up Chen Nian because he had something to do. Chen Nian thought that the girls who took the lead in school violence on campus should be punished. He restrained himself somewhat, so he relaxed his vigilance.

What Chen Nian didn’t expect was that when she was halfway there, the group of instigators of campus violence headed by Wei Lai suddenly robbed her and said they wanted to give her some. Color looks at the vicious words.

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In the chaos, Chen Nian was stripped of her clothes and took indecent photos. The moment the violence ended, Chen Nian’s heart seemed to have died. She thought Can I still live to see the sun tomorrow?

Afterwards, as we all know, Chen Nian indirectly caused Wei Lai's death due to a mistake in his thoughts, and Xiaobei got himself involved in order to take the blame for the other party.

As time passed, everything changed. Xiaobei became a released prisoner with a criminal record, while Chen Nian became an English teacher.

The ending of the movie is when two people walk side by side, seemingly full of light, but if you look into it carefully, there are countless regrets.

Some people would like to say that if Chen Nian had chosen to remain silent, if she had not interfered with Xiaobei's affairs, if Xiaobei had come to pick her up that day, and if all the ifs had come true, would the ending have been okay? rewritten.

But in fact, there will be Li Nian without Chen Nian, and there will be Xiaonan without Xiaobei. They are just the "lucky ones" chosen by fate, what right do they have to say no?

Whether Chen Nian or Xiao Bei, they have actually fought against fate, but what is the reality? It's not developing towards the side that I least want to see.

In fact, in many cases, there is nothing wrong with accepting the arrangement of fate. At least they met, at least they left each other's presence in the memories of their youth, and they will no longer be lonely for the rest of their lives.

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Therefore, behind every seemingly unintentional action, there is its profound meaning and ulterior motives.

Just like fate, it has its own laws of development, and as mortals without any divine power, we can only choose to endure it silently. In the final analysis, stubborn resistance can only be in vain.

In this life, people can escape love, but they cannot escape fate. You think you are the master of your life, but little do you know that you are just a puppet manipulated by fate.

Many people are unwilling to accept what they have suffered and struggle for half their lives, but in the end they find that there is no way to fight against fate.

People in the world say, "My fate is determined by me and not by God." But facts have proven that everything, good or bad, is the best arrangement of fate.

In this case, why not accept your fate and believe that everything is the best arrangement.