The first impression is not good, how to change the impression in its heart?

The first impression is not good, how to change the impression in its heart? According to your title, your first impression is "carelessness". How can I change my impression of "he/she"? There are two typos, indicating that you are not strict with the customs. Enrich yourself and correct your carelessness. A clean appearance and regular practice of speaking will help your future image.

Can "first impression" be changed? Editor: I'm a new comrade who just left the company. Just a few days after I arrived at the company, I was playing with my comrades-in-arms. I turned on the water and broke two thermos bottles. I happened to be met by the company commander and criticized me on the spot. When I first arrived at the company, my first impression on the leaders was very bad and depressed. Left a bad "first impression" on the leaders, and always felt that there was a "shadow" in my heart. I want to ask if this bad "first impression" can be changed? Comrade Liu Xiaojun Liu Xiaojun, a soldier in an army: From your letter, we can see that you are an ambitious soldier. You realize that it is not a good thing not to leave a good first impression on the company leaders. Being able to see your own shortcomings is your advantage. You dropped the thermos and failed to take the first step. A bad "first impression" creates an invisible pressure on you. Many soldiers have had this mentality. But I don't think you should blame yourself or worry too much about it. Under normal circumstances, leaders will also look at problems objectively and dialectically and have no opinion of you. First of all, you should analyze it from your own psychology. It doesn't mean that you are deliberately "bad", and it doesn't mean that you are not good at all, so the possibility of leaving a bad "first impression" is quite small; Secondly, you can take the opportunity to get along with the leaders, talk about some unsatisfactory places, show your determination to constantly correct, and reduce psychological pressure as soon as possible through heart-to-heart communication. In life, for one reason or another, not everyone of us can make a good first impression. Even if you do leave a bad "first impression" on something, don't worry too much. The past has happened, and it is useless to indulge in regret. There is a saying that there has never been a "regret medicine" for us to eat in this world. It's better to face it than to be sad. Things always change in motion. The "first impression" can't determine everything, but it can be changed. One of my comrades-in-arms just came down from the office to the company, and he didn't adapt to the life of the company. He often violated discipline or had conflicts with his comrades-in-arms, which had a very bad influence. He even had the idea of "broken cans and broken falls". Later, after a period of reflection, he realized that being so frustrated would only go further and further, and only by changing himself could he overcome the "dilemma". From then on, he accepted the criticism of leaders and comrades with an open mind, constantly corrected his shortcomings, quickly became one with the company, and also left a deep impression on his comrades-in-arms. With the help of everyone, he was admitted to an institution through hard work. Recently, I read from a psychology book that the first impression is the "first cause effect". Psychology not only talks about "the first cause effect", but also talks about "recency effect", and recency effect is also very important. The so-called "first cause effect" refers to the impression left by the first contact with the other party, which brings various influences to oneself; By the same token, "recency effect" is the impression that will be left on the other side in the near future or in the near future, which will bring various influences to oneself. Therefore, you might as well seize the "recency effect", constantly revise your image, and show the good side to leaders and people around you. Once people around you find your good side, they will be equally impressed, or even more impressed. But then again. Occasionally "frolicking" is human nature, and breaking the thermos bottle is only a trivial matter. Maybe the company leaders didn't take it to heart at all, just chatted face to face. It can also be said that it is a kind of concern, afraid that you will break the hot water bottle and burn yourself. "Treat others differently" is just your psychological function. Therefore, when doing your job bit by bit, don't care too much about small things. Comrade Xiaojun, I believe you will be able to unload your psychological burden and walk out of a new world of your own in your spare time.

How to change your first impression is very important, but not decisive.

First impressions can be changed through later communication, and there are many kinds of changes.

For example, you want to develop a close friend relationship or a lover relationship with her/him and so on.

Let's talk about the change method between the two:

1. Just say hello when you meet in the morning (it is better to meet intentionally). It's normal for her to ignore you at first, and then leave after greeting. It will get better in the future. She might say hello to you. Remember to smile and nod.

2. Be generous with friends in front of her, be humorous (depending on your personality), occasionally make a fool of yourself in front of her, and then walk away with a red face and a smile (girls like cute boys).

Don't talk to each other at first, because her ignorance and prejudice against you in the early stage will only make the conversation counterproductive. We can talk about it appropriately in the medium term, but we should pay attention to subtlety. The later conversation should be generous and rich in topics, and try not to fall into a long embarrassing situation.

4. Don't appear too many times or too little in the other person's field of vision. Too many times is boring (after all, she has a bad first impression of you). Too few times can only make the other person ignore your existence.

Finally, I want to give you a suggestion. There are many things to consider in interpersonal communication. The conditions you gave are limited and you can only help here, but the communication is sincere. What others can give you is just some skills, mainly depending on how you grasp it yourself. Let it be!

For some reason, my first impression of many people is not very good. How can I change my impression in others' minds? Confidence will make you change yourself.

In fact, why do you care so much about your impression in other people's minds? As long as you think you are excellent, why do you care so much about other people's eyes?

How can I change my first impression? Please be yourself and don't care about other people's opinions. Just don't go too far.

Why are first impressions so hard to change? First of all, we can't judge a book by its cover. It takes time to get to know someone. As the saying goes, Ma Quan has a long-term view and will know it for a long time. But when we meet others for the first time, we must leave a good impression on others. As the saying goes, good people are rewarded.

How to change the bad impression on teachers? If he is not a bad teacher, pity him in your heart. He also leads a hard life. For so many students, the most depressing thing is actually the teachers. They pay for you. You can't see it, so as long as the teachers are not too bad, pity them and be considerate of them.

How to Make a Good First Impression You don't need to make a first impression. Use your usual style. It is difficult to get along with each other, and the other party will have a bad wrong impression on you.

How to change the teacher's first impression of students, show more, but not too ostentatious, but let students see that they can also influence the teacher's thoughts.

Please accept it, thank you!

What should boys do if they are not impressed with girls at first? I will contact you frequently to deepen my impression.