When my aunt has something to do, she asks my husband to do it. I am very distressed. Am I wrong?

Be silly, if you have anything to ask your brother-in-law, she will call you husband once, and if you call her husband once, she won't call again!

You are really full. I have been a milk compatriot since I was a child. You say it's not good to call people friends. You have no brothers or sisters, do you? My brother is always available, but he can push everything away from his family. My brother-in-law knows better than you and never complains. Sometimes my brother forgets to remind her.

My sister-in-law lives in my house with her children. After shopping, my husband will drive her to the street, and after shopping, she will pick her up. Obviously, the bus arrived at three stations. Husband drives his daughter to school in the morning, picks her up at noon, sees her off in the afternoon and picks her up at night. When we were in love, her husband had an accident on the road and called my husband. My husband accompanied me for training and it was inconvenient to answer the phone. I hung up twice. I'm afraid I'll sneak out and ask my husband to call back. Just after I finished the phone call, my sister angrily asked her why she didn't answer the phone, and then asked my husband to accompany her to meet her husband at high speed. Husband said how to accompany you without a car. She said your girlfriend's brother. Then I relented and helped her borrow the car. On the way, my husband said that there was no change to pay the toll, and my sister-in-law didn't even answer the words. It was one o'clock in the afternoon when she finished talking with her husband. My husband said what to eat, and my sister-in-law said angrily, what to eat. My husband said to give the car back to my brother, but my sister said not to worry, get something for me ... without mentioning the death toll. Every time my husband and I go out for dinner, she calls to ask why we don't take her, and then she says she wants to eat this and that and ask my husband to send it to her house. Once, her daughter was ill in the middle of the night, and we went to her husband's house (from the city to the village) to deliver medicine. My daughter is ill. She sent the expired medicine. ...

I hate it, too. My husband has a sister who is three years older than me, but she still feels weaned. As soon as the three of us went to a friend's house, there was a dog at the door. She said I was afraid of dogs, so her brother hugged her, but I was also afraid of dogs. My husband pulled the dog away and let me go. I was in a really bad mood, and once it was worse. I just gave birth to my son by caesarean section and lay in bed with a urine bag. My sister-in-law came to the demon again, as if she had a quarrel with her husband and wanted to commit suicide. My husband answered the phone and told me that his sister was going to commit suicide. He had to find her and leave me alone in the hospital. If something happens, ring the bell and the nurse will come. I suddenly felt cold, and I cried my eyes out. I said, can you not go? She certainly won't die. I need you more at this time. He made up his mind to leave. My heart is cold, really cold. At that time, I looked at my baby and felt sorry for me. How can there be such a sister-in-law and such a husband? I hate the good relationship between brother and sister, so I wonder if it's my own. Since they are so inseparable, why do they want to get married and harm others? Why can't they live together? Is it because siblings can't have children? And find a baby who is not related by blood?

After the power failure, my mother-in-law came to my sister-in-law's house again. Anyway, as long as she belongs to her husband's family, you women are not pleasing to the eye, and you are the only one in your heart. In fact, you don't want to think so badly of your mother-in-law and sister-in-law. Your husband belongs to that family, too. What can be a good thing? You are blindly looking for such a man [picking your nose] [picking your nose]

Hehe, you're right. I can understand your feelings. Because I also have a sister with the same paragraph.

The first time I went to see my future in-laws, my sister called my husband away and asked him to help her input a word document and a handwritten document into the computer. Is it difficult for her to go to graduate school? Not difficult! However, she just can't use this as an excuse to call my husband away. The first time I came to the door, she wanted to leave me alone in a strange environment.

Later, there were many similar things. For example, buying train tickets, helping the children she leads write papers, borrowing my husband's car (my car, my husband can't drive, her family has a car), and coming to my house from other places without saying hello. Why is she like this? Because she wants to prove to me that she and my husband are family.

Perhaps because the relationship between husband and wife is not very good, she can't accept that her dear brother has someone else in his heart. Has been intentionally or unintentionally proving to me her relationship with my husband. My husband says I'm imagining things, but women really have a sixth sense.

Later, things were too trivial and everyone was very busy, so my husband was reluctant to do it himself, because it was all trivial things. I visited his elder sister several times, intentionally or unintentionally proving to her that my husband and I are a family. Slowly, she learned to accept the reality!

Excuse me, don't you have any brothers or sisters Don't your brothers and sisters walk around? As a sister, it seems that there is nothing wrong with asking my brother for help.

Don't think you married this man. Everything about him is under your control. In his life, there are not only wives, but also parents, brothers and sisters. A bloody man can't break all his family ties just because he married his wife.

I remember when I first got married, my husband and classmates invited him out for a drink, but I wouldn't let him go. He said: if I can't get married, there will be no one. If I can't get married, there will be no social interaction.

Yes, how can a man always revolve around his wife when he gets married? It's so unrealistic.

My husband's sister may be used to ordering my brother to do something, which is nothing. Do it when you have time. Do you have to quarrel with your husband about this?

My husband was used to my sister's orders before you appeared. As long as my husband doesn't delay his work, don't be a villain in vain.

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Between brothers and sisters, it is normal for the younger brother to run an errand and do some work for his sister. A sister can't have something to say to her brother every day. Sometimes it's always noon. If working for your sister really affects your life, you don't have to stop it. I believe your husband has broken up with his sister.

Brothers fight, fathers and sons fight. On the day when you are really in trouble, the only person who can really help you is your own sister. Don't artificially create family conflicts. First, there is no need. Second, do you think your objection will be effective? It is foolish to try again and again when you know it is ineffective.

In marriage, as long as men don't cheat and don't have domestic violence, others can turn a blind eye, and it's not tiring to take care of too much!

The pictures are all from the Internet.

1, before the Spring Festival last year, my family changed a refrigerator. My mother-in-law asked us to give her the old one. She already has two at home, and then asked her to add one to her daughter's house in another city, which is her husband's sister's house. The freight is paid by the husband. I wonder in my heart, I don't care if your family runs a restaurant and wants so many refrigerators.

His sister gave birth to three children, the older 26 and the younger 20, all of whom are working. I gave birth to a five-year-old child. Every year, his sister leads three working children back to their parents' home to ask my husband for a red envelope. The girl didn't come last year, so I have to take the red envelope back. His sister gave my son a 100 red envelope. Does my husband give them three children 30 each? I am not happy in my heart and I don't care. My son wanted Transformers, and my husband joked that it was bought by my aunt. His sister said that if you bring 1000, I will buy it. "Shame on you.

His sister went back to her parents' house and quietly went downstairs to my husband's office to ask him to treat them to steak. No one told me when she came back that day, but I remember that my mother-in-law came back and passed by my house that afternoon, showing off to my 2-year-old child and saying, "Your aunt and I just ate steak, but you didn't eat it." At that time, my son was only 2 years old and it was raining cats and dogs outside. My son and I dawdled until a little after noon before buying takeout. However, it was not until a year later that my husband passed by the steak house and complained that "my mother and my sister ripped me off and three people ate me 5000 yuan". I suddenly realized that I was unhappy and felt like an outsider, but I was wronged for my son! They eat steak, can't they take us, even if they don't, can't they pack it? What is a husband? Didn't you think of his wife and son? But I didn't say anything.

My husband did something wrong and begged me again and again. I was very upset. I told his big brother and big sister that my brother was good. His sister kept saying that "it's his own business for someone to do something wrong, so don't tell my mother", and then she stopped telling me and lied to me that she was angry with me in the intensive care unit. There is no such thing. She is acting, but she believes in it at the expense of cursing herself. His sister's daughter, 20 years old, jumped out and called me "My uncle's business is none of our business, so get out of here". I am very angry. I called his sister, who was too scared to answer. I changed my number, and she wouldn't answer as long as it was our area code. Okay, no answer, right? Then I'll find her daughter's school tutor. Parents don't educate, please tutor. I showed her daughter's information to my mother-in-law, who said she shouldn't talk to her elders like this. I said, "If she stands in front of me and scolds me. I can't fan her to death! I educate her daughter for her parents! " .

Twenty years ago, we just bought a tractor, and my sister-in-law told us to take her land first every year. We never add a drop of oil to our cooking. When father is hungry, drink some cold water and chew the steamed bread dry. This has been the case for several years in a row. In autumn, my father and I are both laborers, and we have more than ten acres of land. We were anxious, but I never stopped helping my sister-in-law. In the past two years, we have planted three acres of safflower, which is exactly six acres. Because of helping my sister, our land is harvested and sown later than others every day. Once, the child's father was really anxious to call the child's uncle, made an excuse and left for five minutes. (My mother-in-law was at work at that time), and I was so angry. Isn't this a bluff? Even if I come and you don't go, then I won't wait on her. From now on, I will call her again, because my mother-in-law blocks my door and wants to bully me into obeying their wishes. I said don't scold me yet, but I have reason to refute. I can only make everyone laugh and watch the fun. I shouldn't be a lady. I owe your daughter nothing. I used us for several years, which delayed my land and didn't need her at all. I know you. My mother-in-law ignored me and rolled around at the door cursing the street until the neighbor took her away. The relationship between daughter-in-law and aunt will last for a long time, and a more sensible mother-in-law plays a key role.

I know this question best. It's too long to elaborate. My date has two brothers. He is the youngest. I am a heartless person, and everyone in our village knows that I have a good heart. We have been in love for eight years. During this period, I was very kind to his parents, brother-in-law and niece. When I got married in 2008, every day I thought about how to decorate my little home beautifully. The year after I got married, I never had a good life again. How often do his two brothers, especially his eldest sister-in-law, call? It was all her family who fought with her again, and she suffered. Ask my partner to help. I had never experienced anything at that time, I couldn't watch the road, and I knew my partner wouldn't listen to me, so I never said anything to stop my partner from doing things for them. My family not only contributed, but also paid and acted as a thug. My brother and sister-in-law didn't say anything, and thought it was normal for my partner to work for them. It gives me the feeling that my partner and I are both their parents-in-law. Of course, I'm not saying that it's good for us. It's just like some women now think that it's natural for parents-in-law to listen to their own instructions, say and do what they want. I don't know how to be grateful. Later, there was something wrong with my partner's health, so I told my sister-in-law that you should never tell my partner about family affairs again. He is in poor health, so don't always worry about getting angry. She didn't listen, but she remained the same. Until because of them, a great event happened in my family. Now I can't even get past that hurdle. Because of this, my object is like a different person. Because I am honest, my sister-in-law will say (he has always attached great importance to my sister-in-law, and she is more filial than her own mother). I took it out on me and insulted me. I haven't had a good day since. As a result, my temperament has changed a lot. I have a bad temper, my thoughts are not as simple as before, and my mood is low (I want to die every day now). The hardest time for my family is 20 thousand to 30 thousand a month. The child really suffers with us, but his villain is not at all. I scolded them all later. I don't associate with them either. And his sister-in-law offended my uncle, brother and sister. Everyone knows that she is bad. Don't even associate with her I want to stop here and talk about my business. I think if I am bored with this kind of thing, I will tell your partner and sister directly. I also have a younger brother who will ask him to pick up a child for me, occasionally. It doesn't matter if you help with such trivial matters. If you ask someone to trouble you, I don't think your sister is worried about her brother. Yes, why? Really, not at all.