If you rely on trees, trees will fall. If you rely on others, you will run. If you rely on yourself, you will be steady.

Love will have a different flavor after the precipitation of time; women will become more mature and wise after the precipitation of time, and understand that making a living is the prerequisite for seeking love, and seeking love is the prerequisite for seeking love. Based on making a living.

Marriage is not a fairy tale. It allows us to understand the meaning of life and gives us the courage to face the cruelty of life.

In a real marriage, if a man can support you for several years and still be polite and respect you, that is a rare miracle of love. The charm of life for a middle-aged woman has never been achieved by love. It is not achieved by men, but by changing one's own ability to survive.

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The love of youth, the simplicity of love, the madness of love, and the self-righteousness of love, thinking that as long as two people love each other, they can get a happy ending.

Being crazy about love is really only suitable for young and frivolous people. In love, you will fly into flames and be shattered to pieces, and you will not hesitate to be completely hurt. Love is public, even if the front is a mountain of swords and a sea of ??fire, for love No matter what, there are too many oaths of eternal love in the world, which are just words in the end; there are too many moths in the world who fly into the flame, only to be shattered into pieces.

Love, love and hate, can you understand love and life better. Too much pride will eventually be lost to reality, and too much strength will be shattered by reality.

Sometimes, when love falls in front of reality, it is actually nothing. The person you want to spend the rest of your life with may not be the person who protects you from the wind and rain, but the person who brings you the storm. .

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When a woman reaches middle age, she should stop asking "Do you love me or not?"

When we were young, we all thought that love was more important than anything else. But in middle age, we realized that making a living is more important than seeking love. After experiencing the ups and downs of life, the influence of fireworks, and the hardships of life, we understand it better. taste.

When I was awakened by the cruelty of reality again and again, I realized that there is nothing in this world that I can rely on. Only when I am strong can I protect my world from wind and rain. At a certain point, As I get older, I live a more transparent life, which can also be said to be helpless. I have learned to compromise and adapt, find my most comfortable lifestyle, and live the life I want.

Real life always tells us that love is never anyone’s destination. You are your own destination. Love is the icing on the cake. If not, your life can continue smoothly without any restrictions. Tie.

In the world of love, never underestimate the coldness of a man when breaking up. A woman must not give up her ideological and financial independence for the sake of love. At least she can still have a living when the relationship ends. Your own ability allows you to continue living with dignity.

The so-called tree will fall if you rely on it, and it is better to rely on yourself to be practical.

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For middle-aged women, seeking love is not as good as making a living. Making a living is the prerequisite, and seeking love is sublimation.

The old vows of eternal love cannot withstand the baptism of time. People who hate each other are not as good as water. Women should have themselves first before they can love.

Equality between men and women is not only emotional equality, but sometimes also economic equality. For the rest of our lives, the further we go on in life, the fewer opportunities and choices we will be given. When a middle-aged woman faces an old friend's change of heart or a dull companionship, money can best give you the confidence and dignity to leave or stick to it.

The essence of love, in addition to love, there are also responsibilities and obligations that must be faced. As the saying goes, poor and humble couples are miserable. Love, marriage, and life without an economic foundation are not enough to talk about life.

If a woman wants to live more powerfully, she should work hard to make money. Problems in the world that can be solved with money are not problems. Middle-aged women should work hard to maintain the ability to make money, study more, and walk more. Facing life calmly and getting what you want decently is the way to long-term happiness for a woman.