What is the most painful thing during pregnancy?

1. Frequent urination: Frequent urination while squeezing in the subway, frequent urination in meetings, frequent urination in supermarkets, watching movies, or sleeping, so just carry it to the toilet at all times!

2. Constipation: Everyone who has constipation knows what constipation feels like. Pregnancy will aggravate constipation. Ma Ma, who has hemorrhoids, feels sorry for you for 10,000 seconds!

3. Morning sickness: vomiting in a daze, no matter what you eat, no matter how elegant you are usually, vomiting will destroy everything.

4. Stretch marks: Say goodbye to bikinis and midriff-baring clothes. No matter how girly you dress yourself up, stretch marks will always reveal that you are an "old mother" (actually you are not, you will still be there after giving birth) Very beautiful! )

5. Insomnia! This is the most intolerable! Heaven and earth, don't you know that insomnia can make people very irritable and look very difficult to deal with? TO, people around me: We really didn’t mean to lose our temper!

6. Numerous prenatal check-ups: It’s a bit annoying. Every time I go to the hospital, I’m worried, and I have to go every time. When my husband is on a business trip and he has to go alone, waiting in line, getting orders, and drawing blood, my sister can blow up the hospital in a matter of minutes!

7. Spots: "A hundred will cover three ugliness." If you have a child with spots on your face, your skin will become worse, and you will become uglier, the price is too high! Woohoo, let’s stop talking and go to the bathroom to cry first~

8. Stomach acidity and heartburn: No matter whether you eat or not, how much you eat, and what you eat, the feeling of heartburn is unparalleled!

9. Can’t have sex: I feel sorry for my husband, and I feel even more sorry for myself.

10. Back pain, swollen legs, and tailbone pain: There is no room for resistance anymore. The day of unloading should not be so far away!

Love, if I talk about it too much, I will shed tears! Welcome to add!

I think the most painful thing during pregnancy is the pregnancy check-up. From pregnancy to delivery, if everything goes well, it will take about 13-15 times. Not to mention if it doesn’t go well, I will be very nervous if there is any small situation. It's terrible. I'm lying on the bed where the B-ultrasound is being done, and I feel extremely nervous when I see the doctor's expression is slightly off.

I gave birth to two babies. During pregnancy, my heartbeat was very fast. When I was pregnant with my first baby, my heartbeat was 122 times per minute, and when I was pregnant with my second baby, my heartbeat was 135 times per minute. The doctor said it was very serious and suspected that I had a heart attack. I was sick, but I didn’t feel anything, so I went to two major hospitals in Beijing for a checkup, and there was nothing wrong.

When I was pregnant with my second child, I had three or four cardiac ultrasounds. I didn’t want to check, so the doctor just said it was fine last month. It doesn’t mean you will be fine next month. If they don’t check, they won’t prescribe it. I have no choice but to follow the orders for the first examination. Sometimes the doctor's attitude is very bad, with a drooped face, and even if he asks more questions, he will be extremely aggressive.

Because of the rapid heartbeat, ordinary doctors did not set up a file, and they only asked experts to set up a file. The troubles involved cannot be explained clearly in one or two sentences.

Beijing’s obstetrics and gynecology hospitals are overcrowded. Every pregnancy check-up, including two or three simple examinations, takes a whole day. There are long lines to do everything. Some pregnant mothers faint while waiting in line. I've seen it fall a few times.

For me, I think the most painful thing during pregnancy is morning sickness and sleep problems in the third trimester.

Let’s talk about morning sickness first. I started having morning sickness after brushing my teeth in the morning when I was 5 weeks + 1 day pregnant, and it lasted for a month and a half before it got better. At first, I just couldn't smell anything with a strong smell, such as perfume, essential oils, etc. If I smell a little bit, I will immediately feel nauseated. I initially managed to reduce nausea by smelling orange peels and staying away from strong-smelling sites. But later on, as the secretion of HCG in the body continued to increase, morning sickness became more serious. Basically, I would vomit anything I ate, and even the boiled water I just drank would be vomited out immediately. It really made me feel the power of the legendary morning sickness. . Because I couldn't eat due to morning sickness, I lost ten pounds of meat. Fortunately, after the morning sickness subsided, my appetite increased greatly, I gained back all the lost weight, and my baby is also "healthy". But every time I think about morning sickness, my desire to have a second child is suppressed.

The second most uncomfortable thing during pregnancy is the sleep problem in the third trimester. In the third trimester of pregnancy, your belly is getting bigger and bigger, so you must use a pregnancy pillow to feel more comfortable when sleeping. Because the enlarged uterus pushes the stomach upward, every time I lie down, I feel a rush of stomach acid rushing into my throat. I have a strong esophageal reflux and heartburn feeling, which makes me toss and turn and unable to fall asleep. There is no way to alleviate it, so it is very uncomfortable.

This feeling didn't disappear until after the baby was born, but it is still fresh in my memory.

In short, the above two things are the most painful things for me during pregnancy. Sisters, what painful things have you encountered during pregnancy?

During my pregnancy, I had two particularly painful periods, one was the early pregnancy and the other was the late pregnancy.

For a foodie, the most painful thing in the early stages of pregnancy is not being able to eat what you want, because at this time the baby's major organs are forming and the fetus is also in an extremely unstable state, so For the sake of the baby, I can only endure the temptation of delicious food.

The most painful thing in the third trimester of pregnancy is frequent trips to the toilet, which seriously affects sleep. Basically, I have to run more than a dozen times a night, and it's always a little bit, and I feel uncomfortable if I don't go. Even if you don't drink water at night, this phenomenon will not be alleviated. I was tortured and wanted the baby to be born as soon as possible, but she was so calm and delayed it until 41 weeks + 4 days.

After I gave birth to my child, I realized that all the pain during pregnancy was a piece of cake. The most painful part was raising a child, especially for a new mother, when the child cries for no apparent reason. Fussing, fever, illness, injuries, etc. are the most torturous, because everything about the child affects the mother's heart.

Finally, I wish the pregnant mother to enjoy a wonderful pregnancy.

As everyone said, it is not easy for women to be pregnant during this ten-month period. Now I have been stumbling through more than 6 months. During this period, I have indeed experienced a lot. First of all, the change in identity has led to physical changes, then there is the high intensity and pressure at work, and finally there is the occasional sense of loss in my psychology. What is worthy of gratitude is that during this period, my husband and family have given me all kinds of love and care, which has relieved all my emotions. I just hope that these last three months will go smoothly, and I will be a happy mother and welcome the baby. The arrival of the baby.

First of all, the change of identity leads to physical changes. I am a Sagittarius girl who is born with a love for freedom. For the first half of my life, I spent the first thirty years of my life traveling around the world carelessly. As a result, my parents "gave up" on me at one point, feeling that they were treating me badly. The indulgence caused me to become an "older leftover girl". But fortunately, the emperor paid off his hard work. My husband and I also met while traveling, but it was 6 years before we got together again, got to know each other, fell in love, and finally got married. In less than a year, I went from a happily single "elderly leftover girl" to a "happy pregnant mother-to-be" with a big belly. But my heartless and careless lifestyle continued until the day I was confirmed to be pregnant. So from that day on, I could no longer be so reckless, walk and look at my phone, eat uncontrollably, go to bed late and stay up late, etc. I had to correct a lot of bad habits, because now I am no longer "a person", everything about me Your words and deeds are related to your baby's growth. But I personally feel that the biggest change in my body is that I successfully lost 3 digits of weight in the first 5 months. By the way, I used to be a little chubby and not tall, but my weight has always been around 51kg-52kg. After I became pregnant, I "successfully" lost my weight to 47kg due to early morning sickness. But this makes my husband miserable. He said, you should not be thin when you should be thin, and you should not be fat when you should be fat. So before I was 20 weeks old, many people said that I didn’t look like a pregnant woman. Even if I went to take a subway bus, no one would give me my seat. But as the months went by, it gradually began to show up. My movements became slower and slower, and I felt tired after walking for a long time. I remember back then, when I was leading tour groups, I could walk for 10 hours a day and still be very energetic. Then I started to frequently want to run to the toilet. Many times I would feel anxious and anxious not long after I went out, but after running to the toilet, I didn't urinate much. I look at my belly that is growing day by day in front of the mirror every day. I feel that it is so magical. A little life is rolling and growing inside. I look forward to meeting him soon.

The changes in the body that I told you earlier seem to be joyful, and this pregnancy is not painful either. In fact, what I want to say is that this is a stage in life. No matter how tired or painful it is, it is the path you choose. You have to persevere to finish it even if you cry and grit your teeth. It’s really good to change your perspective, calm down and enjoy every day of your life. Being a mother is something I never thought about when I was single, and I didn’t dare to think about it, because as a Sagittarius, what I fear most is being restrained and losing my freedom.

But after getting married, I think about having a baby every day. After all, I belong to the group of "late marriage and late childbearing". The babies of my best friends will go to elementary school. If I don't have their babies, there will be a generation gap with my baby. Don't follow We played.

Let’s come back and talk about work. After I got married, I moved from my city to the first-tier city where my husband lives. I started looking for a job from scratch and started a new career. Although I was lucky, and with the recommendation of my friends, I quickly found a job that was related to my experience and that I liked very much. But this is a very intensive job with a high density of business trips. It means that I have to open up a new world by myself in this new market, and do a good job in connecting the headquarters, market promotion and customer retention. My husband also travels for a long time on business and only comes back on weekends. As I mentioned before, I have always said that I want a baby since I got married. But all we can say is that we are waiting for the arrival of the baby, and in the meantime, both of us have to continue to work hard. The previous work went smoothly, and I made some achievements step by step. However, during this period, the company promised to add a deputy or assistant to me, but due to various reasons, no one was found. Therefore, during the early stages of pregnancy, I continued to do my previous job alone and continued to travel crazily on business. Until one day, my superiors told me that the current project had stabilized, and considering my physical condition, I was no longer suitable for the current high-intensity work. I hoped that I would quit the current project and find a new one. projects that create more value. A new person will be coming to take over my job soon. Please note, he is not a deputy or an assistant, he comes directly to take over my work. You know how I felt at that time. This was also the first time that I felt the uneasiness of new mothers in the workplace. Of course I didn't accept the company's arrangement at first, and I was a little angry. I had all kinds of thoughts at that time, and even in those days, I was really anxious because of thinking about these things, and I had insomnia for several days. Since I joined the company, it has been a new market and new industry for the company. I have brought my own resources to join the existing team, and I can even say that I have provided guidance to help the Beijing headquarters promote projects. I have been working hard for more than half a year to open up the market in the south. At the technical level, the company provided me with very little help. In the end, it was said that someone would come to take over my job soon and let me guide and hand over the new people. Isn't this funny? However, thanks to my husband, who was relatively calm at the time, and the guidance and analysis from some seniors, I calmed down and rethought this issue of personal career development and positioning. Because not only now, but after I give birth to a baby in the future, my future career development direction will also need to be reset. The company, platform, and resources can only be a cornerstone and springboard for my career development. Only if you really have diamonds and your abilities or brand are strong enough, you will not be afraid of the future. So I calmly discussed some work plans with the company leaders during the pregnancy and after maternity leave. Anyway, the purpose is very simple. While ensuring that my current salary remains unchanged, I will carry out my own new projects and work. In the words of the company, I will give full play to my advantages and strengths to create new value. This is all a thing later. My most important job and task at the moment is to take good care of my body and my baby. This is more important than how much money I earn. Regarding work, just treat it as a new beginning and do what you can. After all, we pregnant mothers are still protected by the law. We believe in the motherland, the law, and even better, believe in yourself. come on!

During pregnancy, I also feel that I have become more sensitive, and many emotions will be invisibly amplified, whether they are happiness, sadness, anxiety, anger or tension. But now I have slowly learned to give myself longer time to adapt, and I have to control all my emotions before releasing them. Because if you delay a little, one day, or three days, you will find that your thoughts and emotions are different from before. Afterwards, it’s a different mood to think again, make a decision or plan the next step.

It is really not easy for women to get pregnant, especially in today’s busy and complex society. Whether it is for my family, colleagues, or friends, I may need more care and attention from them now, but I must also give them enough patience and love. I also hope that after this period of time, I can grow more.

I started to see redness, and I didn’t dare to move. After I finally stopped seeing redness, I started to have morning sickness, and I vomited in the dark. After three months, I had a bronchial infection. I was coughing and couldn’t sleep during the day and night. I couldn’t even get infusions. It doesn’t work, I’m so worried. Is there anyone else who has the same cough and is about to collapse?

It is said that there is a pit in this world, and countless women know it is a pit, but they still jump into it happily.

This pitfall is "having a baby and becoming a mother". Some people think that becoming a mother opens a new chapter in life. From then on, whether it is sunny, cloudy or rainy, there will be a pair of little feet behind your buttocks. This kind of companionship Just like a thick quilt, the temperature is just right; but for some people, jumping into the pit of giving birth, they will never see the warm sunshine in the sky again for a long, long time.

If you meet a husband who is inconsiderate, irresponsible, irresponsible, and sarcastic, it will be a quadratic heartache. Next, Junju will reveal some of her husband’s chilling remarks:

1. “A boy or a girl? Where is the child?”

Chilling index: five. Star

Guoer’s mother: When I gave birth to my baby, my husband was on a business trip. During the natural delivery, I had a side incision and the pain was so painful that I almost fainted. When my husband rushed to the hospital smelling of alcohol, the first thing he said was to ask if the baby was a boy or a girl. When he learned that the baby was a girl, he There was a hint of disappointment on his face. I know that their family has always wanted a boy, but... alas, I was lying next to him, and he didn't even ask me: "Honey, are you okay?"

In this regard, eat The people can’t stand it anymore:

It’s not an exaggeration to call you a white-eyed wolf with this kind of husband, but don’t think about it, why should the man who is lying on the hospital bed in pain give you a child? ? You may not be a caring and caring man, but please think about her feelings, speak appropriately, and treat her with more warmth and love. This is what a responsible man should do.

2. "48 days after giving birth, my husband gently urged me to go to work."

Chilling index: four stars ( )

Cai Cai : I am weak and I am raising the baby alone during the confinement period. Due to all the hardships and catching a cold, I finally got better. Unexpectedly, when my husband came home yesterday, he excitedly told me that XX friend’s company had opened. , are recruiting people. I heard what he meant was that he wanted me to quickly join him in making milk powder money.

In this regard, people who eat melons have said:

The puerperium period (what we call "confinement" among the people) refers to the period from the birth of the fetus to six weeks after delivery. During the confinement period, pregnant mothers should pay attention to nutritional intake, get enough sleep, be careful not to catch cold and avoid direct cold wind, and pay attention to regular postpartum check-ups to effectively avoid postpartum syndrome. Cai Cai, who has just given birth to a baby just 48 days ago and still has a history of colds, should take care of herself at home for a while before considering going to work. As for your husband who is anxious for you to come back and make money, ignore him! ! !

3. "Wife, I still like you the way you were before!"

Chilling index: four stars ( )

Chengzi mother (pseudonym): Pregnancy period I accidentally ate too much and gained a lot of weight. After giving birth to my baby, I considered breastfeeding, so I failed to lose weight. It's been 4 months since I gave birth and I still have a ring of fat around my waist. One day when I was changing clothes, my husband stared at my swimming ring and said softly: "Honey, I still like you the way you were before!" Where are the people who raised a happy fat man? !

Oh, leak, the people who eat melons once again failed to control the ancient power in their bodies:

Bao dad really has this idea, he should kneel down! key! plate! Think about it, how much hardship your mother has endured in order to give birth to and raise a child for you. Just your words are like pouring cold water on her head. If it were you, would you be able to bear it?

In addition, what I want to tell mothers who want to lose weight is that October Fungus will teach you a few tricks to lose weight after childbirth, which are to insist on breastfeeding, not overeating during the confinement period, and through aerobics , yoga and other gentle exercises to regain a slim waist!

4. "Don't you just take care of a child every day? How tired can it be?"

Chilling index: three and a half stars ( )

I'll go , no one can control the barbaric power of the melon-eating crowd this time.

When they saw this title, they rushed out:

I wonder how tired mothers are of raising children?

Come on, just imagine this:

You are working hard to fold the clothes on your front feet, and the baby on your back feet is giving you flowers. Can you not suppress the urge to swear? ? ;

You finally wiped the floor clean, but when you look back, you see that your child has made a beggar's face. Does it hurt you? ;

In order to give you a meal, she is weak and holding the baby with one hand in the kitchen, cooking with one hand, crackling and the baby is startled. Can you hold this scene? ;

When you go out to the supermarket, you not only have to guard against thieves and traffickers, but you also have to become a strongman in an instant. Do you really think you can be called a superman by wearing underwear outside? ;

After spending an hour coaxing him to sleep, the baby woke up within ten minutes of sleeping. If it were you, would you still keep smiling?

And when he was younger, you had to feed him, wash his diapers, bathe him, wipe his butt, and tease him with a smile. How dare you say, "Why don't you just take care of a child?" How tired are you?" Such words? !

5. "My mother is old, what's wrong with you letting her order?"

Chilling index: four stars ( )

After giving birth to a child Later, my mother came to take care of me for a while, and then my mother-in-law came, and I lived with her day and night under the same roof. My mother-in-law always had a self-righteous "original method" of raising children. Sometimes I couldn't stand it and would inevitably start talking to her. After a few arguments, no, my husband criticized me bitterly in front of my mother-in-law because of this matter. Oh, Junjun, why do I always feel like they are working together to bully me?

Today it is clearly pointed out that the quality of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is largely due to the husband! If you have a mature enough husband, you don’t have to worry about mother-in-law and daughter-in-law looking at each other like enemies. For those fathers who give up their own principles of life whenever there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and indiscriminately favor the other party, I think you should stand in a fair position to maintain family harmony: take the initiative to help your wife integrate into your own family , help mother-in-law understand daughter-in-law, and build a bridge of friendly communication between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Blindly asking one of the parties to compromise in order to maintain the superficial harmony of the family is something only an incompetent man would do!

6. "Honey, let's have another child, let's put together a good word."

Chilling index: three stars ( )

Comprehensive national second-child policy After I got married, my husband tried hard to get me to give him another daughter. I know he likes girls. It’s not that I don’t want a little cotton-padded jacket, but I’m 38 years old this year and I’m really worried about the health of older mothers during pregnancy.

Having a child is a matter between two people. The opinions of both parties are important. Only by respecting each other can you maintain your own little family. Mothers’ worries are not unfounded. Compared with young mothers, older mothers (pregnant mothers over 35 years old) are very different physiologically, and are more likely to contract diseases such as prenatal pregnancy and high blood pressure. If Dystocia during childbirth can also lead to fetal distress.

Therefore, it is better for older mothers to be cautious about giving birth to a second child.

The above are the "six most chilling remarks about husbands" summarized by Junjun. I believe that in addition, pregnant mothers can also summarize many irresponsible remarks by their husbands. Understand that pregnant mothers and pregnant mothers It must be very heartbreaking to hear these remarks, but what Junjun wants to say is: In marriage, it is impossible for both parties to not have some little fights. He may not have adapted well to the change in roles or the changes in life. He has relatively little experience, and it is possible that he is really out of his mind. But Junju believes that it is not the most terrifying thing that he said such words. The most terrifying thing is that you closed your heart because of his words and refused to communicate with him calmly, which ultimately led to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. The most important thing for a husband and wife to get along is to solve problems through smooth communication. Junjun has a colleague who is very good at saying "what's on the mind" to her husband gently and calmly when the husband and wife have disagreements or feel grievances, and the husband does not waste time. He always tries to figure out her thoughts. They have been married for 10 years, and the two of them have always gotten along easily. My colleague is nearly 40 years old, but every day he looks like a girl in her 20s. She said that communication and understanding are the secrets to a happy marriage!

I have been pregnant twice and given birth twice, and each time I have these two difficulties:

1. In the third trimester, my belly is too big and it is uncomfortable to lie down no matter what. .

Even with a pillow, I still can’t sleep well!

2. Frequent urination! ! ! Because I have experienced spring, summer, autumn and winter (laughing). Summer is fine, but winter is terrible! After a while, I thought of getting up to relieve myself! I really have the urge to lie down and do it, but I’m helpless!

The most painful thing during pregnancy is that there is no one to take care of me. Coupled with the strong secretion of progesterone, I always feel wronged and almost suffer from depression. The most painful thing is that I have an uncomfortable stomach every day, and I have to endure it day by day. Every morning when I open my eyes, I look at the software reminder to see how many days are left. There are still more than 160 days, so just stick with it...

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