How to evaluate the high-scoring documentary "The First Time in Life"? Is it worth seeing?

In 2020, the opening documentary "The First Time in Life" scored 9.2, 12 * * *, and each period lasted about 30 minutes. It takes birth, going to school, growing up, being a soldier, going to work, getting married, going to town, buying a house, staying together, retiring, providing for the aged and saying goodbye as the theme, and outlines a person's life.

Brush down the whole film, the first half is memories, the middle is positive experience, the second half is the future, as if to follow a lifetime. Since the first issue, people with red eyes and shallow tears have been afraid to cry from beginning to end.

It's sensational, but it's not cheap to be moved.

It is not comprehensive, but everyone can find their own shadow more or less in these twelve issues, resulting in the sound of * * *.

From birth:? Before the first cry? .

The day before you officially came into this world, mom was waiting for you in the delivery room.

We often say that mother is the greatest and life is the happiest, but what happened before crying? One foot in the door? It's really not pretty.

The expectant mother dragged her big belly to sleep on the delivery bed and was tortured.

Whether it's the first child or the second child, it hurts like hell. I want to shout and hit the wall. It doesn't hurt. Unfortunately, even if you can feel painless, you should wait patiently for your fingers to reach a certain level.

Doctors and nurses come to check it every once in a while. If there is any abnormality, they must choose between natural delivery and caesarean section. The husband said that they could all rely on their mother, but the mother also made up her mind. She is anxious and accompanied by pain. She wants to try a natural birth again, but she is afraid that the child will have problems.

Of course, there are worse situations,

Xiang Shuang, who suffers from heart disease, wants to bring twins who are only 27 weeks old into the operating room, fix their hearts first, and then try to live for more than ten weeks. It is an extravagant hope that adults and children can be healthy.

Xiang Shuang dreamed of the twins' names very early: He Chun Kagami Akira, which was taken from The Story of Yueyang Tower.

Husband's sentence:? Temporary, my Lord? Let netizens be filled with indignation.

But watching everyone relax again, he comforted his wife in front of the hospital bed and asked anxiously after seeing the child. Where is my wife? ? , read? I don't do anything else for the rest of my life, just stay with the three of them? Tell the audience in front of the screen that he is a qualified husband.

We are always romantic about the beginning of everything, but sometimes we can't predict the difficulties. ?

No one will remember his birth, as if he should have existed in this world, but it is not easy to be born, is it?

Later, we started to go to kindergarten.

Later, we walked into the primary school.

I like the theme of the second story: after school, I will be fucked by my mother? Crazy? Is it? !

This comes from a little girl who is strictly controlled by her mother to practice piano and do her homework every day. The little girl chattered, her mouth was neat, and she was not convinced by her mother's discipline.

But my mother said I didn't want to practice piano when I was a child, but now I think it would be nice if my parents urged me again, and maybe I would have a skill.

We always do. We were not sensible when we were young, and we often regretted it when we were adults. When we have children, we place our hopes on them. Children may not be sensible, they may not be obedient, of course, they may not be suitable for your hopes, but they may have a certain probability of regret in adulthood, and so on.

How many people feel that they didn't understand their parents at the beginning, but now they think about it and really understand it.

Time is advancing, and we continue to grow.

Are you online? Grow up? Thematically, the camera is aimed at left-behind children.

There are a group of children whose parents can only leave them in their hometown with food and clothing, and live independently in their hometown by video contact. Some children are only twelve or thirteen years old.

In all schools where many left-behind children live, the headmaster is very romantic. He opened a course that had nothing to do with the enrollment rate: poetry.

Teachers who teach poetry will take their children to the mountains for inspiration and pour out their worries by the campfire. The poems written by the children are great and the writing is amazing. Although it is a minority, it is real and touching.

He said:? Children who don't study poetry in college, don't break the glass? .

On the road of growing up, some people chose to be soldiers.

I left my hometown, joined a big group and became an air force recruit. Do you know that?/You know what? 19 second decides life and death? Skydiving

Overcome fear again and again in training, and secretly cry every homesick night.

People live in this world to survive, and to survive, they have to work.

And going to work in "The First Time in Life" is not an imaginary job. Different from ordinary white-collar workers, the protagonist of this work photo is: disabled people.

It takes courage to go out of the house, and making money at work is more like dreaming.

Fortunately, Internet e-commerce has risen.

Mr. Wang, who is in a wheelchair, is older, experienced and smart. He opened a customer service training center to receive training for disabled people who can type. After passing the training exam, he can do cloud customer service, earn money to support himself and even support his family.

There is a handsome boy in the training class, whose legs can't move because of a car accident before the college entrance examination. He fell in love with a beautiful girl who was also training. Like him, the girl can only walk in a wheelchair.

When looking for relatives, the handsome boy met with difficulties.

The girl's mother didn't quite agree: I wanted to find a poor normal person to marry my daughter, and they were both in wheelchairs. How can we take care of each other?

In fact, no one is wrong, and marriage should have been considered more.

I heard a chicken soup before:? When God closes a door for you, will he open another window for you? But the reality is much more cruel than chicken soup. These people who are mistreated by life are destined to be more difficult.

Get married, go to town, buy a house, and be together.

In the middle part of Life for the First Time, the director group selected several points and gradually spread them out.

Are you ready to get married? Is it as you wish to enter the wedding ceremony?

What are you doing in town? Create a better life for your family.

But behind this beautiful hope, there is always sadness.

Before leaving, my daughter cried about the way her father chased the car and made the seven-foot man cry.

I haven't shed tears for many years, and I can't stand it every time I see a child like this. ?

When you settle down and buy a house, you can't escape the pressure, especially drifting north, and the burden on your shoulders is heavier.

It takes millions to buy a house in the imperial city. For ordinary families, the down payment is to empty several pockets together. Have you finished your meal? The young couple have to pay back loans for decades, thousands or even tens of thousands a month.

But the house is to be bought after all, and it is better to buy it than to float.

Why do people get married? Maybe when I was sick, someone was with me.

When his wife was seriously ill, Lao Xia's life became simple, that is, cooking and eating three meals a day with her.

The busyness of middle age makes time drift by.

You may have suffered disasters and been sick, but there is a great chance that you can go to old age safely and have leisure time after a lifetime of struggle.

When you can't see your grandson, you decide to go to school.

Run to the university for the aged in this city to realize the dream you gave up when you were young for a living and pay more? Old buddy? Do what you like.

With colorful retirement, there is also physical aging.

You start to lose your teeth, forget your memory, move slowly and lose your hair. You must consider the issue of providing for the aged.

Do you depend on children?

When you get old, your wife will be gone. If you don't want to live with your children, do you live alone or find a new partner, or choose a nursing home that suits you?

Grandpa Wang, 86, insists on living alone. His lover has been gone for more than ten years. He doesn't want to find a wife again, and he doesn't want to leave this house, because it smells like her.

Emotions and sorrows, ups and downs, life is short.

When you reach a certain age, you should consider how to leave with dignity.

The first and last issue of life is about saying goodbye.

The director took the camera into the will library and recorded a video of the will that seemed to chat with the children. Old people dress up carefully, most of them don't look sad, pour out, and say with a smile. When I saw this video, my parents were gone. ?

In addition to the Weill Library, the director also took the camera to Zhao Wenzhen's home, where his wife suffered from Alzheimer's disease.

Their farewell is different from that of ordinary people. Because of Alzheimer's disease, Zhao Wenzhen's wife Nie Airong began to forget when she was alive. Chao Wenzhen will never hear his wife say goodbye to him again in his life.

For three years, my wife has forgotten her relatives, and now even he will forget them from time to time.

At first, they lived together in their own house. Later, he really couldn't stand her. He sent her to a nursing home and visited her three or five times a week. He is at home alone. Although this is the best choice, the two lovers still have to separate.

He wrote a letter to his wife and recorded a video, which was often shown to her by the staff of the nursing home.

He said:? Since I sent you away, I have been thinking about things and people, and I am deeply grieved and deeply touched. See you every day, miss you every day, get depressed, can only find a doctor for medicine. But I know that you can live better only if I don't fall. ?

Chao Wenzhen is most afraid that his wife will forget him.

But he doesn't know whether his wife will remember his name the next time she sees him, even if it's only for one night.

As a documentary, the first time in life is not long.

Space is limited, and the sketched part is not wonderful. I only hate that words can be presented less after all, and the picture without dynamic is more shocking.

When we are born, go to school, grow up, become a soldier, go to work, get married, go to town, buy a house, stay together, retire, provide for the aged, say goodbye and watch documentaries, we will jump out of our lives and notice more details. This is a landscape that will happen in our lives, but it is ignored because we are in it.

Seen a lot? Super crybaby? Documentaries all have one feature: pain.

It is worth mentioning that the tone of "The First Time in Life" is warm, and shallow tears are to be cried from beginning to end, but there are not only distressed and wronged tears, but also bits and pieces melted by happiness.

From the beginning of life to old age, from the first cry to the solemn farewell to the world.

After reading Life for the First Time, we should live this life seriously.