What is a real best friend?

A really good friend may not follow you forever. I may not tell you rudely when I do something wrong, but I must give you a shoulder when you need it most. This is the real best friend.

In the American TV series Sex and the City, four attractive single women in Manhattan performed the Never-ending Girlfriend for us. Miranda is spending Christmas alone. Call Kelly. Kelly, who was already asleep, was awakened and didn't even have time to change her pajamas. She stepped on high heels in the snow and came to Miranda. On that festival, two single women were very happy because of each other.

Kelly and her boyfriend left new york and settled in France. Miranda's face was full of sadness and she kept saying, "She won't leave. Her life is here." I don't even like Kelly's boyfriend because of this. That little bit of selfishness, in my eyes, is inseparable friendship like family.

How can I make my best friend go further? Many girls have had their girlfriends at different times, but sometimes they go farther and farther away. In fact, girlfriends love each other, but it is not taken for granted. Just like love and marriage, it needs to be managed and maintained. Some rules must be remembered: for example, don't be harsh. There was a saying that lingered in my mind for a long time: "If you long for friends without faults, then you will never have friends."

You are not perfect, and neither will your friends. Girlfriend A loves to be late, and Girlfriend B has her own principles and never goes out to play at night. My best friend C is a little confused and often forgets things. If there are shortcomings, these are all counted, but I care more about the time they spend with me. When they are frustrated at work, they will hold me and cry on the roadside. When I resigned, I drove to pick me up, and then I ate a roast duck together and told me that "it will get better and better if I follow my own ideas."

These, in my heart, have left too much weight, so that I have no time to take care of their shortcomings, just think that they are very lucky? Also, don't cross the line. Know how to respect each other's boundaries. No matter how good your girlfriends are, don't forget that you can love each other instead of "invading each other."

Everyone has their own boundaries, but many times, because they are girlfriends, they often ignore each other's boundaries because they are too close. It seems that you have an unimpeded pass at the other side. Therefore, under the banner of "I am good for you", I will confidently question the other party's choice. However, such intrusion is always reckless, and even a best friend is not qualified to make a choice for her life.

When she wants to be the master of her choice most, I'd rather you were her staunchest supporter. Remember, if one day she is in pain, you must be there. Good girlfriends are often a lifetime. Even if you get married and have children, even if you move to other places, the friendship between girlfriends will always be there. Because this kind of friendship has never existed because of interests, and it does not need any proof. Just because we are similar to each other and share too many fragments of life together, I also hope that my future can be shared with you.