My ex-wife borrowed money from me. What should I do?

If it is because of the children between you, you can borrow it, and explain to your current position in advance how much you borrowed and why. But if she doesn't borrow money for personal reasons, she can borrow money from her friends and family, and she doesn't have to borrow money from you at all. Why did she borrow it from you? It may be convenient, or she won't have to pay it back in the future.

Many people who are still entangled with their ex after divorce have no idea what kind of people can contact again and what kind of people can't. Even if children keep in touch, it is natural for them to visit their parents regularly, but it is impossible for me to present my fragile and incomprehensible side to my predecessors.

Divorced, isn't it because we are unhappy together? I will choose the road of divorce, and I think I will be happy. Your ex-wife has a bad life, I told you. I don't think you will feel sorry for her. Maybe she just holds you, has a little affection for her, and makes a final struggle to see if she can get another sum from you. In fact, such a woman is really not worthy of pity.

I am a woman myself. I think women should stand up straight even if they are divorced. They must not be weak or condescending in front of their predecessors, especially the embarrassing thing of borrowing money. I hope women don't do it.

Last but not least, don't lend money to your ex-wife secretly. Once your current wife finds out, it will be a disaster, and a family storm is inevitable. So if she can't borrow it, she will definitely borrow it from someone else. If she has no money, she can make progress and try to start a new life. Besides, tell her it's over completely and there won't be any sympathy. Let's call it a day.