Men bully their parents. Nobody talks about it.

Girl, after you and your husband have quarreled and returned to your parents' house, you need to calm down and reflect. To be fair, who is the cause and responsibility of the fight? If the main responsibility lies with you, you should bear it bravely, go home now without hesitation, apologize to your in-laws and husband, and continue your life. If you think your husband and in-laws are bullying you, it's entirely your problem. Then, you have been quarreling with your parents for a month. "Nobody in his family asked me, nobody cared about me", "Nobody in his family asked me for phone information", and you are pregnant for four months, so you really need to consider the next step.

The old man thinks that if the relationship between you and your husband is not broken, and the quarrel is caused by trivial matters, and you still want to go back to your husband's house, then take the initiative to go back to his husband's house. Don't think too much and make both sides lose face. If quarreling is a matter of principle, you don't tolerate your husband's "doing whatever he wants". In this state, you can't go back to your husband's house easily. If you take the initiative to go back to your parents-in-law's house, you will be considered weak, and it will be difficult for you to bear the attitude of your husband and parents-in-law to you in the future.

If you are not ready for divorce, observe for a month or two before considering abortion or divorce. what do you think?