"Elder sister, you earn 300 thousand a year and leave it to your mother-in-law. Do you lose money? " Why is it "no loss, big profit"?

A few years after marriage, the husband gave his monthly income to his mother-in-law instead of his wife, which made many wives unbearable.

If you live under the same roof with your mother-in-law, it's ok for her to help buy food and do housework to save money, but if you give all the money to her mother-in-law, how can you face the needs of "two people" in the future?

In particular, my mother-in-law doesn't live by herself, and my husband has to keep money for her mother-in-law. Can you stand it?

There are all kinds of people in this world. Maybe you married a "baby boy".

What is mambo? It means that a man listens to his mother and everything she says is right. Even though he is over 30 years old, he is still a mother-centered man. Such people are often paved by their mothers since childhood, but they still have no opinion of themselves after adulthood. He belongs to a child spoiled by his mother. (This situation is not only for men, but also for women. The definition is similar. )

If the husband belongs to the "mother-in-law" type, and the mother-in-law is afraid that her son will suffer after marriage, she will consider controlling her son's money and let him give it to her mother-in-law.

As the wife of the head of the family, she must not be kidnapped by this so-called "filial piety". After marriage, you are the "hostess" of the family. You must instill this mental journey into your husband and let him pass on his dependence on his mother to you. My mother-in-law is in charge of money. It is very likely that buying a house will no longer be the main choice of two people, but three people will choose to look at the house together. If you want to buy a car, you must first get the money through your mother-in-law's consent.

In life, my mother-in-law is in charge of money and pays attention to whether the money is really "saved". If children need to pay tuition fees, car maintenance fees, internet access fees, property fees, etc. After a while, my mother-in-law refused to give money, and even said that all the money was used.

At this time, you should discuss financial management with your husband privately. After all, life is not easy, children grow up day by day and are slowly entering middle age. Whether it is a family crisis or a work crisis, it should not be underestimated. I think the key to the continuation of family life is to straighten out my husband's family concept as soon as possible and control the money in my own hands.