Have you ever seen anything disgusting on your partner’s phone?

The disgusting things I have seen are not on my husband’s mobile phone. I basically check my husband’s mobile phone every few days and I have never found anything that makes me feel uncomfortable. It’s about the things we talked about before. One of my boyfriends really made me sick. When we broke up, I felt like the sky was going to fall. But now I am really, really glad that I didn’t get married. There is a saying that goes well: I thank you for not marrying me back then!

At that time, I gave up my stable job and accompanied him to start a business. I borrowed money from relatives to support him despite the financial difficulties at home. I also used a large number of my credit cards, which can be said to have cut off all my financial resources. The way out is to live with him in a warehouse. There is no toilet or shower room. I just visit this store every day and can't go anywhere. Even to take a shower, I boil a basin of water at night and wipe it casually. One day I accidentally saw him with a girl. In the chat history, the woman asked him if he had a girlfriend, and he said no. At that time, I felt hopeless and really disgusted. But I had no way out and persisted. I really felt like a little strong man at that time. .

Until later I looked through the chat history between him and his cousin. The two of them were bragging about how great it felt to sleep with someone else’s wife. His cousin had a wife and children. I hooked up with someone else's wife, and I suddenly discovered that his friends around him all had the same virtues, and they were all confused about someone else's wife. I suddenly realized, this man is really disgusting, and it was refreshing. My third view is that I am here every day in disgrace. I go out with him to repair the car in the middle of the night. I used to sit in the office with my hands on the computer and hold a pen. Now every day I just wash clothes, pick up tools, and kneel on the ground to help others check tires. The key is I was still with such a person. His father also said that those of his generation who had not given birth to sons would not even be able to enter the ancestral graves after death. At that time, I foresaw that my miserable life would continue like this!

Fortunately, I saw these disgusting things. Although my current husband is not very capable, he is devoted to me and my children, which can be considered a blessing!

Let me tell you about my own experience. . . I once saw on my ex-boyfriend’s cell phone messages about him flirting with other women, and they were all young women, or divorced and raising children. There was more than one point. We met on a blind date. We were both living in different cities. We thought we were pretty good and became friends. In fact, the main reason at that time was that he was good-looking and good-looking, but there is a saying that the tears left after marriage are all because of the brain water at that time. Although we were not married, I really felt like my brain was going crazy at that time. The door was crowded and I thought he was good at everything, but in fact I never got to know him well from beginning to end. I would like to advise all young girls who have just graduated, you still need to have a discerning eye when choosing a partner, listen to the advice of your friends and parents, and get along with each other more.

At the beginning, I felt that everyone was an adult and had their own privacy and were honest with each other. But when I am sincere to people, it is another matter for others to treat me. I found that when we were sitting on the sofa watching TV together, he was looking at his mobile phone and I leaned towards him, and he immediately turned off the screen of his mobile phone, set a password on his mobile phone, and even took it with him when he went to take a shower, every time. In this case, I mentioned it to him face to face, and I said, can I check your phone? He immediately refused, and I guessed that something was going on.

Once, while he was drunk, I secretly took out his mobile phone, unlocked it with his fingerprint, opened WeChat and chatted. He had never said that before, but he was flirting with other women. The most disgusting thing is that he also took private photos of himself to others, and the other party sent her own photos to him, and the two of them talked on the phone. . . Absolutely disgusting! At that time, my hand holding the phone was trembling, mainly because I was angry, and this was not the first time. I checked his WeChat transfers and Alipay payments, and he transferred 20,000 to 30,000 yuan to each other one after another. He has never been so generous to me, and sometimes he even takes money from me. And they also traveled together, which was the last time he told me about his business trip. From then on, I finally knew that I had met a scumbag. At that time, I slapped him hard several times.

Later we broke up, and he came to see me several times, but when I saw him, I said "disgusting" in capital letters. How could there be such a person? ! I also don’t understand why those women are so easily flirted with? ! It really goes with that saying, flies don’t bite seamless eggs.

I almost never look at his phone,

Well, even if I occasionally do, it’s because of something,

For example, I’m anxious Use your phone, but my phone is charging or can't be found.

Use his phone temporarily.

After 8 years of marriage, we have long passed the passion period and basically have no secrets from each other.

I also always thought that we would just go on like this. .

Until some time ago, when I was pregnant with my second child, I always had trouble sleeping at night.

In the dead of night, I would always see his cell phone light up inexplicably.

At that time, I didn’t know what was going on.

Out of curiosity, one late night, when my phone turned on, I finally took a look.

It was okay not to look. When I took a look, I saw something I had never seen before. See things.

It was him chatting with some women on Momo.

Those women sent him messages, and the content was unsightly.

When I wanted to open the lock screen of my phone and take a closer look,

I realized that I didn’t know the password.

Put the phone away and go back again, even more unable to fall asleep.

It turns out that during the days when I was lying on the toilet with morning sickness,

he was busy chatting with other women on his cell phone.

I don’t know if he had sex with them.

But this has seriously disgusted me.

So, after I gave birth to my second child and was one month old, I went out to work.

Although I felt very sorry for the child, this man was really no longer worthy of my reliance.

I want to leave a way out for myself and my children.

I will work harder and give myself and my children some capital to leave him.

Now, I still don’t know his mobile phone password.

I have no interest in looking at his mobile phone again. ,

After all, going to work and looking after children every day is already tiring.

His salary is still paid on time. Still holding the phone and chatting.

But I am too lazy to care about this anymore.

My boyfriend and I live in different places. We see each other a few times a year. We can probably count them on one finger. We can’t see each other on our mobile phones, haha.

When we are together, he rarely looks at my phone. Even if he wants to look at it, he doesn’t have the password and can’t open it, haha. His own unlocking methods for his mobile phone are fingerprint unlocking and password unlocking. Mine is fingerprint unlocking, password unlocking and facial recognition unlocking, hahaha.

I don’t look at his phone very much, but I will play games on his phone. I don’t have games on my phone, so sometimes when I have nothing to do, I just play games on his phone to pass the time. .

Before he met me, he had WeChat, but he basically didn’t know how to use it. I taught him many of WeChat’s functions after he got to know me. He is older than me, and when I found out that he couldn’t even use WeChat, I wondered if he was from an alien planet, or was just that kind of hermit, isolated from the world.

I really can’t imagine how he lived for nearly 30 years. I once deeply despised him, haha.

Later, I learned to use WeChat, but I basically chatted with me on WeChat, and occasionally chatted with friends. After each chat, he would delete all WeChat messages, including his The WeChat chats between my sister and my father will also be deleted, leaving only the chat dialog box with me.

I was really curious about his habit, so I asked him why he did this. Every time he said: "Because I want to open WeChat and see your information at first glance. Don't let other information be seen and keep all the information, so I won't be able to find your information immediately."

Although it is very warm, I can't help but have doubts in my heart. After all, it is a long-distance relationship. I know that he is really good to me, but I still feel a little uneasy. I am worried that there is something he doesn’t want me to see, so I deleted it.

So, for a period of time, he will send me a screenshot every day before deleting WeChat, and then I need to ask him who he chatted with every day and what he chatted about.

After letting him post for a while, it was just daily chatting and nothing, so I didn’t let him post again.

To this day, he still always has the only chat dialog box for me in WeChat. Even if I am in front of him, after he finishes chatting with others, he will delete it in front of me.

There are no secrets in WeChat, so just look at the photo album on your phone.

Looking through the photo album on my phone, they are basically all my selfies. He saved every single one I sent to him.

Then there are the WeChat chat records between me and him. Some of the content that he thinks is commemorative will be screenshotted and saved in the photo album. When he has time, he will send it to me to see and choke me with the chat records. .

Except for these two, the rest are various videos and emoticons.

The video is to make me happy. I found various confession, funny, and cooking videos from the Internet. The emoticons also have the same content.

In his mobile phone, all the content is about me. Even the downloaded apps, except for some that must be used, are all because I am using them, or to help me buy things or find things. Things are downloaded.

I can’t find any disgusting content on his phone.

I accidentally opened his QQ account and found that it was a small account with only one girl on it.

The two are lovers, his name is Crazy Love Xiaolu, and the girl’s name is Xiaolu Love Crazy.

Click on the QQ space, and there are at least ten love letters written to girls. Between the lines, there are also feelings of boredom and helplessness about marriage.

At that time, I was shocked and disgusted. We have been in a good relationship for five years since we were married, and we are considered a model couple outside.

I can’t understand what kind of woman would do this kind of thing with a man who knows he has a wife but hasn’t divorced her yet.

After calming down, I asked him what this was? He actually told me that he was helping his friend pick up girls.

This operation made me doubt human nature and made me sick beyond measure.

Personal experience! It was probably my ex-boyfriend, whom I met online. We broke up for a while, but we reconciled later.

After the reconciliation, I accidentally looked at the photos on his mobile phone and saw a photo of him topless and small, and then the next one was a screenshot of chatting with a woman, and the photo was also sent to That woman was gone, so I said goodbye at that time.

It was useless to say anything. He explained that he was in a breakup state at the time, so he would flirt.

My answer is, then you can continue chatting and don't delay each other.

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