Should I wash the dishes when I go to my in-laws' house for the first time?

I think whether you are a daughter-in-law who has never been home or a daughter-in-law who has been there, when you go to your parents' home for the first time, you must behave well and leave a good impression on the old people before they will be willing to let their baby son marry you. Whether you usually wash dishes or not, and whether you like doing housework or not, as a daughter-in-law, it is definitely impossible for her mother-in-law to wash dishes, right?

Of course, you should first put forward the task of contracting to wash dishes and brush chopsticks, instead of sitting there watching TV after dinner and making your mother-in-law work hard. This face will definitely be hard, and my mother-in-law will definitely have a bad impression on you, thinking that my daughter-in-law is so young that she has no temper without going through the door, and she will definitely be bad for her in-laws in the future. So the first time I went to my parents-in-law's house, I didn't think any intelligent woman would let her mother-in-law or anyone else do the dishes. This is not a question of washing dishes, but a question of manners and upbringing. Of course, if your mother-in-law insists on not letting you do the dishes, then you can't just leave. You can clean up the dishes and do other housework, and then you can take over the dishes when your mother-in-law is tired.

Then we know that it is very important to go to the in-laws' home for the first time in China. Besides washing dishes, what else should we pay attention to? First of all, of course, talent. I think everyone should have concerns in this regard. I suggest that if your father-in-law likes drinking, bring him some good wine. If he likes tea, bring him some good tea. If he likes calligraphy, give him pen and ink. There are many things to choose from. If you are a mother-in-law, you can send some jewelry, skin care products, beauty instruments and so on. Or the latest mobile phone makes your parents-in-law fashionable. ?

In addition to gifts, it is recommended to dress steadily and elegantly, and not to wear too much exposure. After all, parents-in-law and we are not of the same age, and we may be dissatisfied with too much contact. The makeup is a little light, too. If your hands are too heavy, your in-laws will not like it and think you are not calm.

And talk, don't say too much, don't say all your thoughts at once, in case you accidentally say the wrong thing.