Boyfriend divorced, has a daughter and ex-wife. Can such a man marry?

You are in an awkward position.

1 first of all, you have to understand, do you love your boyfriend more or are you more dependent?

Love is a delicate and great emotion, which is not only reflected in the subtle thoughts and care in life, but also in the choice and trust in major events. For example, if you love someone, you can think about your future and do some shift of work focus for him. If you are old, you can devote all your time, energy, money and life to him.

Dependence is a lack of security, which is manifested in asking the other party for the care, time and so on you need as much as possible. However, my own efforts are very few, and I have never even thought about making some big changes and efforts for each other's happiness.

Personally, I feel that your love for him is not deep. You exist at the level of dependence.

2. The man is divorced and has children.

I don't advise you to marry such a man. This is not prejudice against divorced men, but that the man and his ex-wife already have children. Even though his ex-wife is raising them, the man is actually the father, and he has the obligation to raise them. Moreover, the kinship of blood can not be cut off on a piece of paper.

His current economic situation is not good in itself. If you marry him, you may not get the wedding, bride price and honeymoon you deserve. You have no regrets, but living in society, it is inevitable that friends around you will compare with you intentionally or unintentionally. Give you a psychological hint, you married a mistress, and the marriage was not as good as others from the beginning (it is said that the second marriage in rural areas seems to be no big deal, but it is a hasty marriage, I wonder if it is the same in your place). After marriage, you naturally become a stepmother, and you have to bear the obligation of raising his children (no custody, no support), and the pressure of life is even greater. Also, if his ex-wife is unreasonable and occasionally fights with her, it will add extra difficulties to your life.

It is wise not to marry him! After all, he has children and blood. It is inevitable that he will communicate with his ex-wife in the future. Can you accept it?

Tell me about your family and friends.

"If you are poor, you will change." Home is the eternal harbor and the person who loves you the most.

They let you go home and get married in the hope that you will live a stable and happy life in the future.

You are now old enough to talk about marriage. Family anxiety is normal. You can get married without going home, but you need to find a relatively suitable boyfriend. While being good to you, you should also have no financial burden. Otherwise, "but not as people who have been poor together know", oil, salt, sauce and vinegar will kill the sweet feeling.

Marriage needs to find the right man, and the current boyfriend is really inappropriate.

I hope you will find your own happiness as soon as possible!