Life without competition is a kind of wisdom: conform to nature, follow fate, follow fate.

Many pains in life are caused by blind competition.

If you can have indisputable wisdom, you can get more happiness, pleasure and happiness.

This kind of wisdom, because wisdom begets wisdom, will last forever.

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Don't compete with yourself, be casual.

Nowadays, we always like to compare with others. Compared with income, house, car and children, it is not your own fault, but compared with others, I feel unhappy and jealous because I am not good enough.

Strangely, we like to compare ourselves with familiar people. The more familiar we are with colleagues, friends and relatives, the more we seem to control our emotions and happiness.

A friend bought a new car and a colleague bought a new house. Sometimes I send a few perfunctory blessings and feel perfunctory. Think about yourself again, why you can't get a better life after working so hard, so you start to compete with yourself and your family. Either blame yourself for having no background or criticize your family for incompetence.

What kind of family we were born into, we have no choice. What kind of life situation can we have, as long as we work hard. It is particularly important to recognize your own endowment, ability and temperament.

What kind of talent and ability a person has, how many things he can accomplish, what kind of personality and interest he has, and how to promote success are also fixed.

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Don't compete with others, go with the flow.

I always hope that others can give me the same or even more in return when I give my feelings. Once you can't get it, you start to doubt others and wonder why they are like this and waste their time being so good to them.

When you start to compete with others, you must make yourself understand why. The more so, the more you fall into a situation that you don't understand.

In the TV series Heaven, there is a passage about filial piety between Ding Yuanying and his mother. Mother said that raising children to prevent old age, in the face of his father's cerebral hemorrhage coma, once coma, pulled out the tube. Ding Yuanying thinks that if the purpose of parents' having children is to support their children and prevent their old age, not to mention how great it is for fathers to love mothers.

In another scene in the play, Xiao went to the station to meet Rui and found that Han Chufeng appeared far away and left himself. This is to follow and cherish fate, not to climb, not to compete with Rui Xiao Dan. It is with this mentality and wisdom that she approaches her ideal step by step.

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Don't compete with God, follow your life.

It is very important to distinguish between what you can control and what you can't control. For those beyond your control, let nature take its course, and only let nature take its course.

For those who can change through hard work, we must work hard, and let nature take its course for what the result is.

What kind of family you were born into is fate. Blindly complaining about why others are lucky, can be born with a golden key, and can find a better partner is the result of spiritual practice and blessing.

The indisputable life is a kind of wisdom, fate, fate, fate.

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