Just 30: How important is it in marriage?

Just 30: How important is it in marriage? Through Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan, we ordinary people understand that the world of the rich is like this, not only enjoying the happiness of money and material, but also suffering that ordinary people can't bear; When we saw Wang Manni, played by Jiang Shuying, we saw a lot of shadows in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, which seemed to be rich, but only we knew the sadness behind it, and we had to work hard to make money to fill the overdraft hole after refining.

Today, I want to focus on two old people who are nearly 30 or just over 30. In big cities, all are young people, and there are no children in the middle. When the young couple are enjoying their own world, they have only been married for three years and have almost no communication, even once a month. Zhong likes cats but likes fish. This couple seems like cats and fish. They like one. However, they also loved to death at the beginning. At first, you couldn't live without me. How did they take their time later? In the latest preview, Rachel Momo and Chen Yu finally divorced, so what killed their love?

Let's analyze the family background of two people first. Zhong is a native of Shanghai, the only daughter in the city. Her family is neither rich nor expensive, but at least it is well-off. Since childhood, Zhong has been well protected and never suffered any harm, including material shortage, so Zhong doesn't know that there are still some people in this world who have to go through many hardships when they grow up.

Zhong grew up in the local area, went to college there, and then worked there. He doesn't want to make great achievements in his work, but he doesn't want to make progress. Zhong Yu's marriage is a precise marriage to help the poor. Chen Yu's hometown should not be local. He was admitted to a good university in Shanghai. After graduation, he went to a TV station and became a director. But Chen Yu is nothing more. He can get the job well, which is what his mother-in-law has been talking about. However, Chen Yu has extremely sensitive self-esteem about her economic status, and she has always resented this marriage.

That's why I said to Zhong, "I'll go back to your parents' house when I'm on a business trip. This is actually a complaint about Zhong and a dissatisfaction with the family gap between the two sides. The balance point in this marriage is that Zhong muddles along at work, and her professional advantages make it quite stable in this marriage. However, once her job changes and even her income is limited, their marriage will be in jeopardy.

Chen Yu is a child who has not grown up very well. In his hometown of Shanxi, it seems that his mother is a single mother and needs to work and take care of their two brothers. Chen Yu has been a big brother and half father since childhood. In Chen Yu's words, he has to take care of his younger brother like a child, so this is an important reason why he doesn't want children. There is a memory about him in the TV series, from which we can see Chen Yu's sensitivity and inferiority.

It is understandable that a normal couple is on a business trip, and the wife is bored at home and goes back to her parents' house, but not when she is in school. Zhong is simple and inexperienced. He likes to ask his mother to help him cook and clean the room, and he likes to run home when he has nothing to do. But from all this, Zhong is a child who doesn't grow up. Taking care of my brother's shadow from childhood not only makes him afraid to have children, but also makes him afraid that the clock will stick to himself and let him take care of himself like a brother.

Therefore, in the consideration of his wife, Chen Yu did not do well enough, even on purpose. For example, she seldom answers the bell after work. In any case, she would rather send a red envelope to Zhong than pick him up. Even if Zhong just miscarried, she chose a job that would give her a greater sense of security between her wife and work.

From here, we can see that Zhong and Zhong belong to two different worlds, which will always be an eternal topic. Our marriage and love are in China. Some people criticize that this view has a deep sense of family background, but two people with great disparity will not be happy if they are hard together. The difference between the clock and the growing environment has caused great differences in their concepts. When they were in love, they didn't think that once they entered the marriage, the difference was to slowly kill their love until the end of the marriage.

In fact, a girl like Zhong is more suitable for a strong and responsible man, such as her colleague and brother. But Chen Yu is more suitable for a woman who gets the kitchen downstairs like Gu Jia. What do you think of the marriage with Zhong? If you were Zhong, would you choose divorce in the end?