Why are "phobias" frequent now? How should parents correctly help their children with their homework?

In fact, for most families who go home to help their children with their homework, it is often the children's grades or some children with poor study habits, even those with good work habits, who basically don't need counseling.

1, from the child's point of view.

When it snows heavily in winter, there are no two identical snowflakes, so there are no two identical children. Therefore, when we are tutoring children, we must understand this and look at all problems with children's eyes. In primary school, children's Chinese writing is usually very demanding. I wrote it carefully, and it reached a certain printing level anyway. This is what parents want, but it is actually very difficult for children. Because of the child's physical development, his finger movement system is not perfect, which may lead to some children's lack of writing, but parents sometimes cannot understand this and force their children to go beyond it. Finger motor ability requirements, over time, children will hate learning and homework.

2, allow children to make mistakes in the learning process, or slow response.

As we all know, our own learning process is actually a process of constantly making mistakes and constantly correcting. Sometimes the correction of this mistake is not obvious, so we think that learning is a completely correct process, but for children, we think that children's learning is an unknown exploration process. In this unknown field, they are more likely to make mistakes because of their own knowledge level, knowledge and social experience.

3. Gradually cultivate children's habit of doing homework independently and the habit of checking homework independently.

In the primary school stage, especially in the teaching process of primary school mathematics, the textbook repeatedly mentions that calculation should be checked, but for many children and even parents, this is a new learning process, or a new job requirement. So out of this idea, most children and most parents lack understanding of checking calculation. We think this is also the habit of cultivating children to check their homework. Asking him is one of the habits of math homework. Requirements.

In short, in family education, impulse is the devil and anger is the catalyst. When educating children, keep calm and know how to communicate.