To our past 70s.

For the elderly 70-year-olds, after half a life, they have learned to bear the burden of humiliation and have learned to face all the ups and downs of life with inner peace. Looking back on their half lives, we have both regrets and gains. Now, after 70, we are getting old.

To 70-year-old 1 First of all, cherish your work, but don't trade health for money.

Some people say that after 70 years old, there is no need to take things at work too seriously. If they consume too much energy, they can put it off as much as possible. When you get older, you will consume too much energy and affect your sleep. But in fact, apart from civil servants or state-owned enterprises, few people can be so free and easy at work. After 70, our youngest is 43 years old a month later. Compared with young people, the post-70s have little advantage in the talent market.

What if you don't take your work seriously and optimize it? So, if you have a stable job, cherish it and don't bother to find a new job. After all, not everyone can become Lei Jun, and you can start a business at the age of 40. Admit it, we are ordinary people, don't aim too high. People in their forties are more pragmatic than tossing around new jobs.

But hard work doesn't mean trading health for money. People in their forties are not as healthy as young people. If we work hard for one thing and stay up late to work overtime, sooner or later, we will fall into work, which is not worth it at all.

In fact, we can handle a lot of work flexibly. Sometimes a leader just comes up with an idea on a whim. He only took a look at what we worked so hard to stay up late, and didn't even look at it. What he thinks is important one day is not important the next.

I have a good friend who is very honest and obedient. As long as you finish the work assigned by the leader overnight, you will continue to go to work on time the next day. As a result, he was kept at home for a month and recovered from a serious illness. When he went to work, the boss not only failed to comfort him, but also delayed his work progress.

Hard work doesn't mean that many things are done in a lifetime. If you really can't finish it within a certain time, let the leader know and continue the next day. If it is not urgent, the leader will understand.

After all, people in their 40 s and 50 s have used their organs for decades, and something should go wrong. If they are still working hard at this time and don't pay attention to maintenance, there will be big problems.

Second, talk well and make way for everything.

No matter big or small, no matter what occasion, what kind of people to treat. You should learn to make things clear in a friendly way. Losing your temper can't solve the problem, it's a sign of incompetence. What's more, people in their forties and fifties have at least 20 years of working experience in the workplace. They eat more salt than young people eat rice. They can't be as impetuous as young people when they encounter things. If they encounter contradictions, they will make way. Don't be afraid of being called cowards. Now is not the time to be competitive. If you meet something, you may not get it. To say the least, entanglement consumes energy.

Third, learn financial management knowledge and never make venture capital.

Stay away from the stock market and futures! Stay away from the stock market and futures! Stay away from the stock market and futures! Say the important things three times. A colleague in my unit is crazy about futures. As a result, oil futures fell to -37 dollars a barrel last year. He still made up the bill at 15 dollars, and lost a bottom. According to him, who would have thought that oil prices could fall to negative? But the reality is so dramatic!

To our health after 70, 2 1!

No matter what you want to do, your health should come first. If you have a lot of problems that you can't solve, you might as well put them down first, go out for a walk, go out for a run, don't think about anything, look back and see if there is no problem at all!

If you have suffered a lot of grievances, but now you have to bear them, I advise you to forget it. Since it can't be changed, it's better to let nature take its course and think about the bright side. Your child is going to college, and your husband still loves you. The knot of the past will naturally be untied. Don't worry about people who have nothing to do, because your liver needs happiness!

It seems that the fitness card is not very expensive, but the annual swimming card is ok. You can play badminton if you like, and sign up for a class if you like piano. I know an elder sister who is in her forties. Her child went to high school and spent 8 thousand yuan doing nothing to sign up for a piano class. She said that she would live for herself in the next life!

2, happy!

I don't know what happiness is since I got married. It seems to be my child's report card. It seems to be my husband's year-end bonus. It has something to do with me, but it seems to have nothing to do with me!

Busy for more than ten years, the child is going to college. I have never dared to be willful for so many years. Children have to make up lessons, I can't go home to see my parents, my husband has to eat, I can't leave home, my mother-in-law needs to be taken care of, and I have to be guarded 24 hours a day. What about me?

So in my forties, I want to be happy, just want to be simple and happy, even if I calm down and read a book, even if I watch a whole TV series!

3, happy!

Some people say that happiness is given by others, and some people say that happiness is found by themselves. If no one can give you happiness, then you can find it yourself. I love milk tea. I think milk tea is so expensive that I don't want to give it up. Think about it. When you buy beef, you don't feel bad for hundreds of dollars. A cup of milk tea is nothing. Twenty dollars can buy happiness, it's worth it!

I think not working overtime is happiness, so tell your boss that I don't want to work overtime. At this age, if I can't be fired, I will be willful once. But this is really a conversation. Many post-70 s are supported by the elderly for their families and children, and they are willful after 90 s. It seems that only people born after 70 are conscientious when they go to work, because he can't be willful. He is old and young.

Summary:

It's been more than half my life. Do what you can, do what you like, but don't regret it. I know a leader who came down from a state-owned enterprise in his fifties. His lifelong dream is to open a restaurant. Then he used his savings to open a hot pot restaurant and became the boss. Isn't it booming? Don't be afraid, go ahead, this life has gone two-thirds, and there are not many days left. You should be willful and presumptuous!

To our 70-year-old man and the rest of our lives, don't love the past.

When a man is fifty, he is old enough to know his own destiny. At this age, we have experienced many things, some of which are worthy of recognition and nostalgia, while others are a burden and even a shame in our hearts. However, no matter the glory or shame, we must learn to treat it lightly and even learn to forget it.

They all say, "A hero doesn't mention his courage." A person's past achievements also belong to the past. Don't show off everywhere, learn to save. Similarly, those past humiliations are an unspeakable pain in our hearts, and frequent memories are a moderate harm to our body and mind.

When people reach the age of 50, we will spend the rest of our lives. We have reached the twilight of our lives. Let's put aside the glory, shame and nostalgia of the past. Let's learn to bear the burden of humiliation, learn to be down-to-earth, and walk through the spring and autumn of the rest of our lives step by step.

Don't love the old all your life.

At the age of fifty, we already have our own family. At this age, we have a stable family and adult children. At this age, you should know how to say goodbye to your past feelings completely. Perhaps, when we were young, we all experienced our own emotional stories twice.

However, not all love will have a happy result. Even the best love can experience a sudden blow. Perhaps, it was my parents' sticks that hit Yuanyang, perhaps, it was someone else's sword to win love, and so on. When we have to say goodbye to the person we once loved deeply, watching the former lover slowly disappear into our sight, the feeling of desolation will not be understood by those who have never experienced it.

Yes, the emotions we experienced in those years were so heavy and helpless. But this is life, this is the joys and sorrows of love. Now, 20 or 30 years have passed, and the once unforgettable love has long since passed, so let's learn to let go. When people reach 50, they will spend the rest of their lives. Even if you meet old love again, you should know not to love the old. Maybe it's best to live in peace.

Don't go back to the grass for the rest of your life.

The ancients said that a good horse no longer eats grass. This sentence is a metaphor for ambitious people, even if they suffer setbacks, they will not look back. It encourages a person, after having an ambition, to go forward bravely no matter how many difficulties and frustrations he has experienced, and not to go back, just like a good pony. Yes, by the age of 50, if we haven't realized our ambitions, we have already made our own small achievements.

At this time, if we are not satisfied, we still suffer from loss and want to go back and pick up some things we have done to get a good opportunity, which is actually inappropriate. Because when a person always stays in the past, or wants to regain the achievements made in the past, it is difficult to succeed again. After all, people are forward-looking. When a person doesn't want to move forward, he will eventually be eliminated by this era and society.

When people reach 50 and want to go back to the past, it is estimated that they have been replaced by rising stars; Secondly, our own ability and energy are insufficient. We often can't learn any more and improve our new abilities in one aspect. Why don't we stop obsessing, strengthen and improve our existing abilities, and then move forward firmly. Only in this way can we succeed more easily.