I'm autistic, girl. I can feel that most girls don't like me. Why?

In fact, I am almost like you, withdrawn, fond of being alone, eager for freedom, and hate being disturbed. Some people say I'm cold, lofty or a lady, others say I pretend. At first, girls will target me, and boys will crowd me out. Few people take the initiative to contact me. They will bully me and hate me, but I don't care. Because of my dual personality, I always feel like a bystander, watching myself being bullied. Later, in junior high school, my parents finally divorced, and I finally got rid of it. Then a boy appeared in my life. He is very good-looking, and female teachers in every grade or class like him. He is particularly popular in Banrit because he is really cheerful, optimistic and sunny. I met a boy who can drive my mood for the first time, so I became the same as when I was a child. As long as he is around, I can be cheerful and want to talk to him every day. He is also the boy who knows me best. It is very easy and funny to get along with him. So I am quiet and shy in junior high school, but sometimes I am crazy. This is the evaluation of the boys in our class. Maybe he is ok and thin, so he is pitied. Boys in my class always ask me to eat more and give me more when cooking, which is good for me, but many people hate me. I have always been a controversial girl in my class, because it is very special, and others always pay attention to my every move. Dual personality, fresh and simple appearance, good for everyone, so I have a good relationship with the girls in my class, good for everyone, gentle and kind, and like to joke. I have become free and easy, and finally got rid of it, but I am still not used to being alone when there are many people. Sometimes I sit quietly by the window and look depressed. When people first met me, they thought I couldn't laugh, but later they found that my smile was really low. But when I am busy, I can't laugh when I should be happy. Sometimes I feel sad and uneasy. Sometimes I want to laugh alone in class. There is no reason. I don't study well, I have no talent and I am rebellious. I like art and want to be an actor, because actors are schizophrenic, but all kinds of personalities are myself. Sometimes I am normal, like a normal person, joking, competing with boys, playing with people around me in class, chatting awkwardly, fighting and eating snacks. I look lively, curious, positive and optimistic, sometimes I lose interest in everything, hate being close to others and don't want to talk. Seriously, I know that no one really understands me and likes me. I know what they say about me behind my back, but it's only superficial. In fact, two people living in the body are really tired and have been fighting with themselves. They have no enemies, and they don't bother to fight for anything. The only enemy is their other personality, who knows themselves best and knows themselves least. It's hard to like anyone when it's hot outside and cold inside. Even if he likes it, he is too lazy to pursue it. If he doesn't like me at first, but later likes me because he knows, even if I like him, I will hate him, feeling unclean, pure, mentally neat and obsessive-compulsive. I am very proud in my heart. People who have just met me will think I am introverted and withdrawn, but when they get to know me, they can't understand me. ...

I am an introverted girl with low self-esteem, because my skin color has been ridiculed since I was a child, and it will be the same when I grow up. I thought that no matter what they said, I didn't care, just like they farted. But every time I ridicule, I feel deeply in my heart, which makes me feel really inferior to others and unlovable. Slowly, I don't like making friends. I'm afraid they will laugh at me because of my skin color. The most important thing is that I don't like to talk, and I can obviously feel that others will be annoyed when talking to me.

I'm glad to answer your question. What can cause autism?

There are two periods in women's life when they are particularly prone to autism, one is adolescence and the other is menopause. During these two special periods, women's emotions will change greatly, so they are prone to autism, which usually has the following manifestations.

1. Do you have an inferiority complex? I feel that everything may not be as good as her. Gradually close yourself, and the people around you will be farther and farther away from you.

2. Closed psychology

I am not sociable, I don't want to take the initiative on issues, and I don't even want to associate with others. I shut myself in my personal Xiaotian field, and I like to be alone, with a narrow range of contacts.

3. rebellious psychology

What I do will raise the high standard to a higher level, thinking that I can't be laughed at now. Autism makes them more selective, fair and demanding.

In my spare time, I listen to music, watch a favorite TV series and movies, and communicate with friends more.

I think you, you are an introverted person, a man of few words. Not good at talking. Lack of communication. Your autism. From yourself. Be a student. In language. You can't shut yourself off. Be good at communication. Every object. Everything. Everything is for communication. Even talking and laughing. It is also a language contact with classmates. Let your classmates know about you. Know you. This way. You can blend in with your classmates. Students can also talk to you without mind. You always seldom talk during the day. Gloomy. Even more unwilling to participate in the communication between classmates. Female students don't even know what you are thinking. So classmates don't like you. If you want to get rid of autism, Be optimistic. A cheerful mood. Just each other. So as not to feel lonely. I hope you, change your character. Correct a good attitude. Approachable. This way. Your autism. Get better naturally. It will be easy for students. Close to you.

Maybe because you don't like yourself,

If you don't like yourself, how can others like you?

Meditate 1, find out why you don't like yourself, and dig down layer by layer to find the deepest reason.

Look at your own outlook on life. Everyone deserves to be loved, outlook on life and world view.

If I like myself and others like me, I can only choose the former. I can't remember which celebrity said it.

Happy new year! According to your description, I want to talk about my personal opinion, hoping it will be useful to you!

First, I personally think that the autism you said, other girls don't like you, that's your personal cognition! The truth is not necessarily what you know! Now everyone is very busy, in fact, many people pay more attention to themselves and have no time to pay attention to whether they need to like you!

Secondly, I personally feel that the reason why you have such a mentality may be that you really don't know yourself well enough, so you can think deeply about what you need to do most at present! Focus on how to improve your internal strength, which will not only make you feel that others love you or not, but also many people who like to be positive and optimistic can't help loving you!

20200202, today is a good day. I sincerely hope that from now on, from today on, you will pay more attention to improving your internal strength! Look up at the blue sky and white clouds, there are so many beautiful things waiting for you to discover! I wish you peace and happiness every day!

Autism can be divided into congenital and acquired. You must have been bought. Since it is acquired autism, it is not autism. It's your own psychological problem. Psychologically, people subjectively think that others don't like you. Actually, you are wrong. That's because you haven't met anyone who likes you or appreciates you! Communication is needed between people, so is love and liking, including your family! Have you ever tried to communicate? Did you express your true thoughts? Love needs to be expressed! Let yourself go!

1 No sense of humor, 2 no sweet talk, 3 honest people will tell the truth, 4 sister-in-law has no sense of security, 5 family factors, 6 lack of social contact, 7 the main reasons are individuals, the same sky, different destinies. There is a skeleton in the cupboard. Not on anyone, I don't know the pain!

You don't know them, and they don't know you, because you didn't join their small circle. Coupled with people's inherent paranoia, you always feel that they don't like you. In fact, you don't know whether they like you or not.

I'll give you some advice. First of all, don't feel inferior, communicate and understand boldly. If you really can't find a topic, listen carefully first.

Secondly, don't hint to yourself that others will follow suit, and do more things to absorb some positive energy. Fitness is a good way, find a suitable way to vent, vent yourself, accept others, blend in, blend in.

Everyone needs his own personality and life. If he really can't do it, don't force yourself. The road of life is very long, there is no need to wronged yourself.

In the final analysis, the formation of personality habits can not be changed in a day or two, nor can others change it in a sentence or two. It depends mainly on yourself. What kind of flowers you plant in your heart will bear what kind of fruit.