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40-year-old women don't want to make friends?

Women often can't sit still when they are young. As long as she is free, she will make an appointment with her best friend and go shopping or travel together.

They are married, have children, have families, and have no time to go to any parties. It is lucky to have time to sit down and have a good rest.

By the time the woman is forty years old, the child has already had his own life and the hard life has come to an end. It's time to start looking for your own life.

Life after 40 is your own. Generally, women with three kinds of mentality don't like people to be guests at home, or to be guests at other people's homes.

I want to have my own time alone.

Ms Liu is in her early forties this year. She has been married to her husband for more than ten years. During these ten years, she has been taking care of her family and children, and she has no time to herself in her life.

At that time, Ms. Liu devoted herself to the children. Every day, she thinks about how to better train children and how to make them grow up healthily.

It was not until the child grew up that she had time to pay attention to herself and make herself richer and more attractive. After forty years old, she looked at herself in the mirror and found that she was no longer the beautiful little girl before, nor the little girl who looked at the world full of innocence.

Now, after finishing the important events in her life, she wants to keep time for herself and become a woman with rich heart. She signed up for a yoga class, went to the institution to study every afternoon, and went out to eat and sing with friends at night to relax herself.

Sometimes when her husband is free, she will go for a walk and dance with him, and life will be more colorful than before. After forty, she will want to have her own time more. She hopes that during this time, she can think about her life and look back on her past.

Now she is radiant, and even her husband is surprised at her change, saying that she is much more beautiful than before. A woman who has time alone can make herself more calm in the face of things.

Second, I don't like trouble and being disturbed.

After forty, women will be more eager to have their own time, and of course they don't like being disturbed. Many men often bring their friends home as guests to show their hospitality.

At this time, women need to cooperate with him and prepare a good table to entertain them.

Before the age of forty, women always do these things willingly, but after forty, they begin to get tired of the noise at home. They prefer a quiet home where she can move freely.

Older women will no longer like to help men maintain friendship, and their focus will gradually shift to themselves. They are eager to have their own lives, not to live for men.

After forty, women will never go to other people's homes again. First, they know how much trouble it will be for their owners to go to other people's homes.

Secondly, they really don't like to disturb other people's lives all the time, which will only make others feel bored. Other people's homes are not their own. No matter how they prepare, they are not as comfortable as themselves.

It is better to be comfortable at home than to go to other people's homes to see their faces. A 40-year-old woman knows that the future days are her own. She should keep these days for herself and don't waste energy with some unworthy people.

Third, see through who is worthy of communication and who is not.

When women are young, they always make friends everywhere. As long as she is inactive, she will feel uncomfortable all over. When young, women spend most of their time with friends and husbands.

With the growth of age, women have experienced more and more things, and gradually understand who is the most important person in a person's life and who this time should be left to. At this age, women know that they can't rely on anyone in this life. Apart from their parents, the only person they can rely on is themselves.

Looking back on my previous experience, I used to bow and scrape to people everywhere for a job; In order to maintain a good workplace relationship, even if you meet someone you don't like, you can only smile.

When a woman is over forty, she finds that she no longer has to bow and scrape with others. Living high is the most important thing. After forty, it is what she should do to take good care of her parents and children and understand and be considerate of her husband.

For those who are not worth it, you can completely forget. After forty, women will know more about what they want and what they really lack.

After understanding the meaning of real life, continue to struggle and create a better future for yourself, instead of relying on others for the rest of your life.