Classic reality: Everything is in moderation, and if you are too kind, you will lack the heart.

1. There is no secret to growing old together. Just be a little touched when you are in love, and know how to be grateful when you are in a cold war.

2. Half of the fatigue of life comes from survival and half from comparison. Many times we do not live for ourselves, but for "face". Most of people's troubles are not dissatisfaction due to lack of something, but the imbalance of "others are better than themselves". Therefore, we must learn to face life with a contented attitude and understand that everyone's happiness is different.

3. When you trust someone without reservation, there will only be two results in the end, either that person in life, or a lesson in life.

4. The car has gas, the mobile phone has electricity, and the card has money! This is a sense of security! It’s bullshit to expect others to do so! No matter how awesome the co-pilot is, he can't hold the steering wheel tightly!

5. Never explain yourself to anyone. Because people who like you don't need it, and people who don't like you won't believe it.

6. One day you will understand that people cannot be too kind. If you are too generous and tolerant in everything, others will not appreciate you, but will become worse. People should have a temper. Being too kind will make you lose your own value and dignity. Being too kind is also a kind of stupidity. Remember a saying: A good person will be bullied by others, and a good horse will be ridden by others. Everything is done in moderation. If you are too kind, you will lack the heart; if you are too humble, you will be weak.

7. Make money! Without money, what can you do to protect your family, support your love, and maintain your friendship? Do you rely on your words? Stop making trouble, everyone is very busy.

8. The clarity of water is not because it does not contain impurities, but because it knows how to precipitate; the transparency of the heart is not because there are no distracting thoughts, but because it understands the choices.

9. A good person is bullied by others, and a good horse is ridden by others. Everything is done in moderation. If you are too kind, you will lack the heart; if you are too humble, you will be weak.

10. Most of the mistakes are caused by not persisting, not working hard, not retaining, and then hypnotizing oneself to say that everything is fate. Don't be smart, be careful in everything.

1. You may not be beautiful, cute, or gentle, but you must be honest and kind.

2. When difficulties come, face them with a smile and solve them with wisdom.

3. People are lonely, and the only way to alleviate the pain it brings is to accept it calmly.

4. Don’t always tell others about your difficulties and expose your vulnerability.

5. Those who have not experienced it will never understand these principles, but it is good to listen.

6. Be a simple person, down-to-earth and pragmatic. Don't indulge in fantasies. Don't bother yourself.

7. Everyone is an independent individual. It is true that no one can live without the other!

8. Love your family, friends, partner, and children, but you must truly live for yourself.

9. Love all beautiful things, praise and enjoy the beauty they bring.

10. Pain makes people grow. It is an opportunity and a challenge for you to make progress. Don't be afraid of painful things, it has a positive side.

11. Be brave enough to admit the mistakes you have made and bear the responsibilities they bring.

12. Never worry about what has happened and what has not happened. Worrying about a fait accompli that has already happened will not help. If something has not happened, you can only rely on subjective assumptions and cannot deduce the direction of things, which only adds to worries.

13. There is no perfect thing and no perfect person. The key is to know what you want. To get what you want, you will definitely lose another part. If you want everything, you will get nothing.

14. Be sincere, calm, generous, tolerant, and have a normal mind.

15. Don’t forget your roots, at any time, in anything.

16. Everyone has his own distinct opinions and personality. Don’t try to change others. Likewise, don’t be changed by others. If you change, you will no longer be yourself.

17. Be optimistic, be positive, smile more, and look in the mirror more often.

18. Promise is a beautiful thing, but beautiful things often do not become reality.

19. Don’t try to control others and don’t ask others to understand you.

20. The most fragile thing in this world is life. Good health is very important.

21. Learn to forget. Forgetfulness is a good thing.

22. Try to love someone. If you pay, you may not get anything; if you don’t pay, you won’t get anything. Don’t expect miracles.

23. Don’t be smart. Everything is so thoughtful.

24. If you don't like someone, you can respond with a silent smile; if you like someone, just do whatever you want, because your love will be revealed unstoppably.

25. Make your own decisions. Then be prepared to face the consequences. Remind yourself from the beginning that there is no such thing as regret medicine.

26. Sometimes you have to learn to listen to the opinions of people around you, and more often so that you will not get hurt.

27. Don’t overestimate your power in the group, because when you choose to leave, you will find that the sun still rises even without you!

28. If you don’t even believe in love, wouldn’t life be too miserable?

29. Please remember that the definition of a good friend is: if you do well, he is happy for you from the bottom of his heart; if you do not do well, he is sincerely worried about you.

30. If you want to get one thing, you will definitely lose another thing.

31. Don’t be a hedgehog. Don’t make enemies if you can’t make enemies with others. Don’t follow anyone for the rest of your life. There are some things that you don’t need to keep in mind!

32. Only by forgetting the past can we have a new beginning.

33. Don’t rely too much on your friends. Human nature basically has a bad side.

34. There is no eternal love in this world... time can dilute everything. WeChat emotional chat phrases: Too much humility becomes weakness

1. Sometimes I just want to face the sea and spend an afternoon in a daze. Be silent and let yourself go. Love well and live well. Youth is so short, don’t lament about old age. You can stop and rest occasionally, but don't squat down and look around. When walking down a path, remember not to look back. Ask yourself from time to time, what are you doing? Remember, the sun is new every day, don’t let down the beautiful morning light.

2. Life is repetitive, and you are often disappointed after success. Good times are hidden in reverse currents, which always make you sad and happy, crying and laughing. After tasting the bitterness, you can no longer miss the sweetness; after enduring the sun, the rain is also beautiful. If you are depressed, then change the environment and breathe; if you are confused, then think from another angle; for some people, if you wait, they will not come. It is better to open your heart, give him a little freedom, and give yourself a little space.

3. Always on rainy days, I think about the couplets. Everything in the past is looming, always on rainy days, and the bitter mood is like the wet longing in the spring rain and breeze. Everyone who doesn't understand love will meet someone who does. Then experience a heartbreaking love, and then separate. Later, people who didn't understand love gradually understood. In the end, you don’t learn how to fall in love, but you learn how to love yourself.

4. Many times, we are obviously wrong, but we are unwilling to admit it. There are always reasons to defend and excuses. In fact, a mistake is a mistake. No matter how nice the words are, it is difficult to make up for it. No matter how wonderful the cover-up is, it is irreversible. If you are stubborn, you will only make the same mistake again and again. Only if you dare to admit your mistake can you know how to avoid making the same mistake again. Sometimes when you learn to give up, you know how to own and cherish.

5. Let the simplest things make you happy, pursue silly things that touch your life, do not rely on consumption or spend money, return to your pure heart, get close to people, get close to love, and your heart will change Soft, enhances warmth and human touch. Self-love starts little by little in life, starting from drinking a good glass of water, eating a good meal, and being kind to yourself. Learn to take care of and listen to yourself and others. No one survives alone, we are but mirrors to each other.

6. I’m used to seeing people walking around me in a hurry, I’m used to people’s indifferent faces, I’m used to the loneliness and loneliness that this city has left me. There are many people walking past me in such a hurry, Go towards your pre-set goals. Maybe you are nostalgic, maybe you are reluctant to let go, but no one will stay for anyone. I think I should get used to these times without you.

I still have to walk my way, even if I am alone.

7. A simple life makes people relaxed and happy, and simple desires make people peaceful and tranquil. Simple family affection makes people warm and happy, and simple friendship makes people comfortable and comfortable. Because of simplicity, I deeply understand the lightness of life. Because of simplicity, we can understand the tranquility of the soul. Simplicity is the beautiful form that life leaves to this world. I am fascinated by the simplicity of everything, how wonderful it is!

8. Many times, there is no way to miss the past. Lost yellowed photos, lost things that had been kept for a long time, lost withered memories. Reach out and catch nothing. Perhaps, there are always some things that will remain in the deepest part of life, with deep and shallow traces. When your heart brushes gently, you will no longer feel pain, only numbness.

9. The bare branches stand there alone, and the flourishing branches that have long since withered are always quiet and dusty in this season, and the dry yellow land cannot show a slight smile. Perhaps, they are all waiting, waiting for a falling snow to cover the old memories, and then brewing a proud gesture before spring comes.

10. Sometimes, I have fantasized about wandering in the vast sea with a small boat. In the wind and rain, look for the lighthouse in your dream. But suddenly I felt that I had lost my direction and forgotten my route. Where is the reserve I once had now. The surge of heart that surged with the waves brought out the pain condensed in the depths of my heart. Her pink and beautiful face has been washed away from its original splendor. I am still wandering as always.

11. All sadness will always leave a trace of joy. All regrets will always leave a perfect corner. In the deep sea of ??ice peaks, I look for the gap of hope, but I always wake up from my dreams. Will you look back on the beautiful past now? But I am still looking for a harbor that can allow me to stay in the vast sea of ??people.

12. The older people grow up, the more accustomed they are to suppressing their true inner feelings. They no longer cry loudly and laugh loudly, but just lighten up on everything. It seems that nothing is happening less and less. I can be so sad that I cry, but I can no longer find an outlet to release my sadness. It is always good if you have time and opportunity to cry freely; if you can shed tears fiercely, it means that your heart is not dry. Now I clearly feel pain, but I can no longer shed tears freely.

13. When you are misunderstood, wronged or do not understand, and are furious and furious, never make any decisions or actions impulsively. Please stop, take a moment, take a deep breath, and count in your mind. This will give yourself a chance to calm down, and you will not do anything irrational and stupid. If you are really not at fault, then those who are clear will be clear themselves, and not arguing between right and wrong will be the liberation.

14. If there is an afterlife, I will be a tree and stand for eternity without any gestures of joy or sorrow. Half of it is peaceful in the soil, half of it is flying in the wind, half of it is covered with shade, and half of it is bathed in sunshine. It is very silent and very proud, never relying on and never looking for it. If there is an afterlife and no one loves me, I will try my best to be a lovely person. Don’t blame anyone, don’t laugh at anyone, don’t envy anyone, just shine under the sun, run in the wind and rain, dream your own dreams, and walk your own path.

15. Occasionally I think of it. Thinking of some people I have met before, but may not meet again, or even never see again. Like a monsoon passing through. When I wake up from a dream in the middle of the night, my memory is still fresh. Who have you met before? With longing, I traveled through the long winter and embraced the blooming spring flowers. If the voice is not remembered, it is not youth and we are catching the wind. Those warm and beautiful things in life. Let's miss you together.

16. I have always felt that a person’s best quality is kindness. But the kinder you are, the more deeply you will be hurt by bad people. It’s not that kindness is wrong, it’s that you lack the skills to protect yourself. Because your kindness will be regarded as cowardice. You are often hurt just because you are so nice. Learning to protect yourself is the prerequisite for kindness. Otherwise, don't be kind to people casually. Everything is done in moderation. If you are too kind, you will lack perspective; if you are too humble, you will be weak. Tenderness is of no use, cruelty is too much

1. Many people feel that they live too tiredly. In fact, they may just sleep too late.

2. As long as you plan something carefully and make adjustments while persisting, you will often accomplish it very well. Everyone will feel lazy. Don't worry that you are walking slower than others, and don't be discouraged by temporary setbacks. As long as you keep adjusting your mentality and never stop, you will eventually reach the finish line.

3. When you are not strong enough, everything you do is just a joke in the eyes of others.

4. If you want someone to love you, the best psychological preparation is not to make yourself obligated to love him. You must be strong and independent, seek happiness for yourself, and make yourself the focus of your life. , have sustenance, have goals, have brilliance, have a future... In short, let yourself have enough sources that can make you happy, and then prepare to accept or not accept the other person's love.

5. All luck and coincidences are either destined by God or a person secretly working hard.

6. You never worry that you are not worthy of good people, you only worry that you are not worthy of the people you like.

7. The most persistent love in the world is to love someone with the purest heart and bear it with all the strength of your life. If you have loved like this once in your life, even if your love is like a summer flower that only blooms half a summer, you will have no regrets.

8. Most fears are related to laziness. I firmly believe this. We are often afraid of change. In fact, it is because we are too lazy to adapt to the new environment, learn new knowledge, and get involved in new fields. But if this is always the case, how can we mature ourselves?

9. In your life, if you hope that when you look back one day, every step you take, whether forward, backward, or stopped, will become a poem, then you will be down-to-earth. Take every step of life well.

10. There are many things in life that can knock you down, but what really knocks you down is your own mentality.

11. As a newborn, follow your parents; as a student, follow your teacher; as a society, follow celebrities; this has become the growth pattern of some people. The only thing missing on the road of life is myself. In fact, to follow is to learn to be independent, not to follow, not to imitate.

12. The most confusing thing in life is not that no one understands you, but that you don’t understand yourself.

13. I think everyone exists for a reason. You make me believe that everything I encounter does not hinder my progress, but makes me more determined. Thank you for letting me understand that if you can't give up easily on something you like, then you have to work harder to let others see your existence. I have been flying in the direction of others. This time, I want to fly in my direction.

14. Many people feel disappointed because they have violated their youthful aspirations. I think I am mature, I think I am sophisticated, I think I think I am shrewd, I used to be naive, but I finally see through it and think through it. As a result, we become the kind of people we hated most when we were young.

15. Don’t make others happy and disgust yourself. Learn to reject others and respect others’ rejection.

16. Once someone makes you rely on someone, you will have expectations, so sometimes being alone may not be bad.

17. Someone has been here after you left, but the present has become the same again. I am still the same as before, still cold and indifferent, unable to use gentleness, and too cruel.

18. Life without concentration is like having eyes wide open but seeing nothing.

19. There are many things that I actually know the truth about. But he couldn't help but desperately find loopholes and excuses to overturn the truth and get the answer he wanted in his heart.

20. If I had known that it would be so disturbing to people’s hearts, why would I not have known each other in the first place.