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Emotional Infiltration-Mature Love

I don't know when it started. Friends around me began to use the word "transparent" to describe me. As far as I'm concerned, I'm not complacent, because I can let others call me "transparent". What I have experienced, only I know.

In 2020, I will try to write an article every week, which may be emotional, professional or my own free travel notes. Not to make a living, but to express what you want in words, always examine your mental journey, correct the past, and don't waste the word "transparency".

In the first article, I will talk about my "transparency" about feelings. On the whole, I am satisfied with this state. Satisfaction does not mean good, and dislike does not mean bad. Generally speaking, the advantages outweigh the disadvantages. In other words, there is no absolute good or bad in the world.

Come on, tell a story and get to the point-

A friend named Chen Zi lives in a different place from the girl he likes. Although they met online, they had endless words, so they overcame all kinds of difficulties and lived together. Different from other people's life after death, they really live an enviable fairy tale life, and occasionally quarrel, but most of the time you and I are very affectionate.

At first, there was no money. They live in a rented house, work during the day to make money, and the girls eat and drink at home. Every day, there will be a sumptuous dinner waiting for Dustin Chenzi to come home.

Chen Zi worked very hard to give the girl the life she wanted. In any case, he works hard as long as he can make money. He wants to be a better person, live in a better house, live a better life and enjoy a better life for her.

Girls love him, too. Before going to bed, they will wash Chen Zi's feet and squeeze toothpaste. I went to see them. At that time, I felt that choosing a city to die and growing old with someone was nothing more than that.

However, this life lasted for three years, and they broke up.

It has been four years since I met Chen Zi again. At this time, he has spelled out his own small piece of heaven and earth in his own field, but he has been alone and no one has hurt him.

He said: "I don't know why I broke up with her, distance?" Family? Reality? It seems to have something to do with it, but it seems to have nothing to do with it, so it just goes away. Now I probably won't love so enthusiastically, because when I felt that I didn't have the ability to love, she appeared, my ability was stimulated, and she left. "

Later, I also asked the girls what they thought of this relationship. The girl said, "I used to think that all I could think about was love and water." In fact, the reality is not as people know, they were poor together. I have never disliked his lack of money. I can believe that he will have a bright future, but it is one thing to believe and another to gamble. When there is no material foundation to support life, no matter how high the spirit is, it will look pale and powerless, and the chicken feathers in life will be infinitely magnified. I can't wait. " Interestingly, girls are still single.

I can understand the feelings of Chen Zi and the girl, probably like an adopted child who thinks he will be happy soon, but suddenly ... he retired.

But now, as girls say, no matter how good feelings are, they can't compare with reality. Dedicating the best youth to this feeling is the greatest respect for this feeling. What else can we do?

This is feelings. You think most of them are happy endings, but it's normal to ask for it. It's just that it's hard to leave a person behind after that unforgettable experience.

When I was a child, I liked a person and had a lot of time to play fairy tales. I can buy her my favorite delicious duck neck in about eight blocks, or I can wait for him to go home in the corridor with an umbrella on a rainy night.

When you are mature, you should not only understand each other's difficulties, but also have the burden of the family, the support of the elderly and the education of the children. Think big.

I have never seen the world when I was a teenager, and I have no valley in my heart. I thought liking is a big deal and I can't live without each other.

When I grow up, I understand that love is icing on the cake, and a person can also become a team.

Chen Zi, they have kept this feeling as low as dust. Chen Zi crossed 1800 km three times in two months, just to meet a girl. In the past, girls went on a hunger strike and broke up with their parents for dust. But there is no ideal ending in the end.

And with the growth of age, they will meet the eyes of confirmation again, and will not hug each other as tightly as they once lost each other. Most of them throw out love signals several times in a row, so they will never guess each other's thoughts again. Even if the face value is higher and the figure is better, they can retreat at any time.

After the vicissitudes of the world, they suffered unspeakable pain. At first, their soft hearts grew thick shells. They no longer cry for anyone, are no longer shy for anyone, and are no longer tossing and turning for anyone. They think more about their appearance, personality, ability, and whether they live in harmony with you in life. At the same time, they also considered the gap between the two sides, family, interests, future development and a series of complicated things.

Later said, "Why was love so simple at that time?" Yes, at that time, even on a warm afternoon, a white shirt and a flowered skirt, the sun hit his face through the window, and his heartbeat missed half a beat. At that time, playing games together was happiness, chasing together was happiness, and even saying "good night" was like being dipped in honey.

Later, when we were mature, those admirers were very nice, sunny and white shirts, but we would never give all our feelings to anyone.

In the past, you were separated from the person you liked by 100 steps. As long as the other person takes one step, you will go through the remaining 99 steps without hesitation. Now, I can't do it. When others flinch a little, you flinch at once. Forget it, I can't leave these 99 steps. Let's not waste time.

You hit a deer before, and then the deer was killed.

You can't say that you used to be young and good, nor can you say that you are immature and sophisticated. It's just that we are all stones polished by the world, with strong appearance and self-knowledge. It's not that I don't know how to love, but that I have learned to weigh the pros and cons and avoid harm.

We are all watered by chicken soup. "If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come." It is rare to sigh that "the cold butterfly is hard to come, and it has not blown into the north wind." Chen Zi thinks he has lost the ability to like people, but in fact he can control his feelings.

Finally, we dusted them: you haven't married her yet, why can't you start over?

They said, "We can't go back.