What if the little girl in our dormitory speaks ill of me behind my back?

Ignore her, just ignore her and be yourself, because there is no point in arguing with such people. There are eight people in the dormitory and a group of three. Their usual hobby is to speak ill.

They basically scolded all the girls in the class. Make-up is coquettish, talking to boys is a wave, speaking on stage is pretending, traveling is fishing for Kai Zi, going out to eat uninvited, buying a bottle of drink by myself is to seduce others to pay the bill ... As a dormitory with them, I have also become a victim.

I feel really grown up. When I was in junior high school and high school, people said that I was not a bad word, but a pertinent evaluation. Maybe I can't sleep at night. I've been thinking about it, thinking about what I didn't do well enough, and paying great attention to interpersonal communication.

Now that I'm in college, I think their behavior is so childish. I have three views on this. First, they were angry and made up stories because they were jealous or wishful thinking. ?

Second, they have personality problems, others don't believe what they say at all, and they all end up gossiping. They spoke ill of me behind my back, because everyone saw my character and my classmates showed contempt for their behavior.

Third, people are utilitarian, and so are many contacts. I care about the comments of people who are better than me. I will unconsciously associate with excellent people, hoping that I can be as capable as them. I don't care what they say behind their backs. I can only say that I hope you don't bother me. I am usually busy.

They don't have much influence on my life. I still do my own thing, reading, writing and shopping. Poof, ha ha ha ha ha ha. I still find it ridiculous.

I didn't pay attention to the dirty water they threw at me. I didn't skip class every day. I did what I should do in the library at the weekend. I was elected as a party activist, a model group cadre, an outstanding student and a national scholarship. The point is that I lost eight pounds because I was not fat!

Usually, I can almost guess who they said behind their backs. When I chat with these people, some people will reveal something to me. I smiled without showing anger.

I didn't say anything bad about them, but I said the advantages of three people helping them, all of which were very nice. The audience all think that I have a good character, return good for evil, stay away from them and gradually move closer to me.

So, when my class voted for party member, I crushed a gossip with 43 votes: 8 votes. Although I later ushered in a darker basin of dirty water, I didn't care. Because before these words reached my ears, someone was defending me.

I am not a heartless person. It's really stupid to speak ill of others behind their backs. I was so angry that I didn't say it, and my reputation stinked. Take your time. There is plenty of time. Dig a hole slowly and let them jump. It's hard to climb out after planting.

Maybe their life is dark and boring, so I just add a little color to their boring life. So don't dwell too much on these things, be yourself and be clear about yourself.