Granddaughters often contradict grandma, which makes the old man very sad. How to educate children to communicate with them?

In the process of raising children, effective communication is a very important thing.

How to educate children to communicate with them? 1. Care for children.

Parents and children rely on careful care to close the distance. Only when there is a seamless distance can they communicate effectively. It is the responsibility of our parents to care, love, help and educate their children.

2. Put down the shelf.

Some parents often make a mistake in front of their children, that is, condescending and giving orders. Parents must put down the "head of the family" shelf and be "equal" with their children, so that they can have "charm" when they speak.

Get down.

It is sincere and caring to communicate with children and squat down. Moreover, the child is short in stature, and you need to talk to him face to face. More importantly, you need to convey "love" with your eyes.

4. Smile.

Some of our parents often reprimand their children with a straight face, which makes them unacceptable and even contradictory. Wise parents will always smile at their children and communicate with them through laughter.

5. Keep your voice down.

Yelling at children is also a habit of parents. People often say that "rationality is not high". Talk to children in a gentle breeze, whisper, be emotional and rational.

6. Say "we" first.

When adults communicate with children, it is best to start with "we" to show affinity and respect and make "words" effective. For example, "we don't cry", "we are good" and "we don't bully children" and so on.

7. Listen carefully.

Being good at listening to children is the beginning of effective communication with children. Don't interrupt the child's speech easily, interrupt in the middle, or even forbid the child to talk, which will only make the child disgusted.

8. Appreciate the compliment.

When communicating with children, we should appreciate more, use more oral words such as "You are great", "You are really good", "You will" and "You are better", criticize and educate children in praise, and convince them.

9. Keep company.

Accompanying children is the best education. Nowadays, many parents neglect to accompany their children because of their "busy" work. In fact, parents' words and deeds when accompanying their children will exert a subtle influence on their children and affect their life.

10. Body language.

When communicating with children, you can't ignore the use of body language. Sometimes touching a child's head, giving him a hug and kissing him is the best comfort and encouragement for the child, which is better than anything you say to him.