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Why can the love of our fathers last long, but our love is particularly easy to give up halfway?

The love of our fathers lasts forever because people at that time were simple and the social environment was pure, and their ideas about love, marriage and family were different from ours. Now, we pay attention to personality and self, and pay more attention to personal feelings. Without love, we will never give up, so our love is particularly easy to give up halfway.

In fact, their parents' love is not completely love. When the two are combined, "home" is put in the first place. Their idea of love is companionship, without so many sweet words, romantic surprises and gifts, as long as there are two people together to accompany each other and share the burden. Even if one of them is dissatisfied with the other, it will weaken his dissatisfaction with the other because of the weight of his family in his heart. Moreover, the country was relatively backward at that time, and solving the problem of food and clothing for a family was often the top priority in a year. I don't have much leisure time to think about love, and even a few disappointments are influenced by secular concepts and dare not let others know. Few people get divorced.

Now people can not only eat and wear warm clothes, but also pay attention to fashion trends and style collocation. Couples no longer quarrel about what to eat, drink and wear, but the material keeps up and people begin to pursue the spiritual world. Modern society is an era of individuality, self-expression and rich material living standards, so people are more free to pursue the spiritual level.

Nowadays, young people attach much more importance to feelings than the concept of family. They believe that in love, as long as they are dissatisfied with each other or lose their feelings, without love, they will definitely leave each other and leave this home because of disagreement. And the fathers, no matter how hard life is, they don't bury it, don't complain, no matter how superior life is now, they never leave. There is no word divorce in their cognitive world, so their love can last forever, which is difficult for us to do.