Look at the world objectively and talk about my poor son.

Last night, I made an appointment with my cousin for a long time, and finally I had dinner when I was a busy man in their eyes. Oh, I'm really ashamed. I'm not busy. I don't want to be idle Why don't I want to be idle? Because I'm really scared.

Because once I am free, I feel that people who are better than me have dumped me for many streets, and I feel endless sadness when I think about it.

No house, no car, no deposit, no object, no parents to fight for, no house to be demolished, no education to compare with this classmate, so what else do you have, er ... you are getting older and older, worried about the future, worried that the speed of making money can't keep up with the aging speed of your parents, helpless to compromise with the world, and vaguely uneasy about yourself at this stage. It's chilling to think about it.

So classmate, what should you do?

Don't worry, I still have constantly updated ideas and the motivation to work hard and study hard.

At the dinner table, my cousin and I talked a lot. Cousin said, aren't you making up an article? Seeing that you have a feeling of reading and reviewing lectures, write a feeling of eating. I ...

If I have to say it, I only feel one thing after dinner, and I will be hungry after going home for an hour ... haha.

In fact, the real feeling is that even if you are poor, you can live well as long as you work hard enough.

Because their words touched me in the chat, yesterday I was deeply moved by Lian Yue's article "Now, it's easier to be born in a poor family", so I shared it in my own WeChat official account.

Lian Yue said that it is difficult to give birth to a noble child in a poor family. As long as you know that this is a normal phenomenon in concept, you should get rid of jealousy, put down self-pity and concentrate more on your own efforts, and accordingly, your opportunities will increase. Market economy society is an innovative society in essence, just like a circle that keeps growing. There are more and more demands and unknowns outside the circle, and there are more and more opportunities. This opportunity will be given to the son of a rich family and also to the son of a poor family. Even if it is given to the son of a rich family first, he will give up.

After sharing, the non-small fish left a message saying that it is almost impossible to have children in the cold, that's right.

I don't know how to reply to his message, because I was born in poverty, but I'm not your son, and I haven't changed from humble to rich, so even if I say more, it's not convincing.

But I want to share my humble son in today's article.

Perhaps, from them, we see the possibility of being born in poverty and becoming your son.

Sister Mei, who had dinner with me yesterday, is my idol and an example to learn from. She is in her thirties, with little background and connections. She is willing to study hard and suffer hardships. Now he is the chief financial officer of a listed company.

After graduation, she could have dragged herself into the government to have tea and read newspapers from nine to five, but she chose a private company as a cashier and worked hard. Many people say that Sister Mei's success today is due to her love of finance, her sensitivity to numbers and her extraordinary understanding of others. But I think, unlike ordinary financial personnel, she is more willing to get to the bottom of things, be good at studying the root of things, dare to think and do, be resolute, not complain so much, and always be positive.

The flower of success/people are only amazed at her current glory/but its bud/soaked with tears of struggle/sprinkled with blood and rain of sacrifice.

Brother Yuan, who had dinner together yesterday, is now the sales manager of a listed company. He took the road of the most established poor son in everyone's eyes, singing and learning all the way to the end. He once said that in order to change the status quo at home, study hard is to make others respect him. Whether he is a university or a graduate student, he never misses classes. He knows how to cherish opportunities and the importance of hard work, peace, gratitude and initiative in an ordinary family. These are all excellent qualities that Ge Yuan has.

Someone once said, whether you think you can do it or not, you are right. Then why don't you think you are good at it? If you still dream about the lottery winning number, sleep more, maybe there is one in your dream.

Dong Ge next door, with only junior high school education, is my cousin, and now he is a leader and big boss in the electric vehicle industry. When electric cars first emerged, they started from scratch, and the couple, starting from scratch, supported and persisted all the way to the present. This is really inspiring and great.

I remember chatting with Dong Ge once, and he said, I really envy you people who are still working in the government after going to college, and feel that you are particularly tall. I sighed deeply in my mind. Brother Dong, who knows who is suffering? College students are not as good as you think. Overtime dogs sell cabbage to earn money with the heart of selling white powder, which really hurts.

In fact, there are still many people who have traditional ideas. In their eyes, nobles are dignitaries and princes, with good academic performance and high degree of graduation, and then they can find a good job to honor their ancestors. The reality is that many people spend a lot of time on learning that they are not good at, and lose the opportunity and courage to try to make a fortune for themselves. In the end, I can only choose an office job that guarantees drought and flood.

Today, Lian Yue's article also mentioned the problem of equating learning mistakes with school education. He said that it is only a waste of time to stubbornly believe that children from poor families have few natural education resources and low investment in education besides natural talents.

There are also many parents who are wrong. Their families are ordinary and all their hopes are pinned on their children's education. They believe that "everything is inferior, only high school", and children should study hard to gain fame and fortune. The idea that they can only find good jobs when they go to college really doesn't apply to the current market economy society. The phenomenon of high scores and low energy can be seen everywhere, and the examples of getting rich from scratch are not uncommon.

Of course, learning is a lifelong thing, but more learning still needs to be done at work, especially for children from poor families. You should see clearly the advantages and disadvantages of your own situation early, find your own way, and surpass others in social experience and social experience. You have accumulated far more than some ungrounded intellectuals.

There are many poor sons around me, such as Chang Ge who runs his own studio, such as Rong Jie who works hard despite the wind and rain, such as the master who runs Didi after work, such as the hard-working takeaway brother, such as the passerby A who has set up a stall, such as the passerby B who has done several housekeeping jobs, such as you, me and him who are still struggling for their dreams.

These people spend their time and energy on things that can bring them output, and there is a high probability that they will face difficulties and become rich.

In this world, 80% people are ordinary families. If you have to wonder why others are born rich and luxurious, I can only say that reincarnation is a lucky technical job. Even if you are reborn, you are still likely to become a member of an ordinary family. Therefore, it is important for a family to recognize this reality and not dwell on the poor and the rich, but to support and inherit a positive spirit.

Finally, let's end with Lian Yue's words. People are self-cultivated, and people are also self-realized. When a bad idea enters your mind, there will be a bad reality. Many people can't help the wall and are poor all their lives, mainly from poor backgrounds, relying on self-cursing.

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Text/Qiu Xiao v