Talking about knowing people but not knowing their hearts.

Many people know an old saying: "It's hard to draw bones by drawing dragons and tigers, but people don't know their hearts and faces". But many people don't know the origin of this sentence. Knowing the source of this sentence, I feel very interesting.

Zhuangzi is a noble man. One day he wandered down the hill and saw a woman crying in front of a new grave, fanning the grave with a fan while crying. Zhuangzi was surprised and asked, "Dear, you are so sad and still crying. Who is buried in the grave? How can I still raise a fan grave? " The woman said, "My ex-husband is in the grave. He loved me when he was alive, and he couldn't give up when he died. His last words before he died: I can't remarry until the grave is blown dry by the wind. If the new grave is difficult to dry, I will raise a fan. Zhuangzi sighed: "So that's it! "I thought to myself: this woman is really impatient, but she kept saying that she loved each other before she died. He asked the woman to give him the fan and was willing to do it for him. The lady was very grateful: "thank you, officer!" " Hands will pass Zhuangzi Bai wan fan. So Zhuangzi murmured, raised his fan and took some photos of the grave. In an instant, the water vapor ran out and the grave dried up. The woman was overjoyed and gave ten thousand fans to Zhuangzi. She thanked him and left. Zhuangzi returned home, sat at home, looked at Wan Fan and sighed four words: "It's not that enemies don't get together, when will they get together?" "I knew that I was ruthless after death, and I hooked up before I died."

Hearing Zhuangzi's lament, Zhuangzi's wife Tian stepped forward and asked, "Why do you lament? Where did this fan come from? " Zhuangzi told his wife the cause and effect of a woman fanning her grave. Hearing this, Tian was furious and scolded, "Such a fickle daughter is rare in the world!" Zhuangzi immediately said, "It's hard to say, it's hard to say. You can't say that. If I die unfortunately, your age as beautiful as flowers and jade may not last for three or five years. " Tian dares to show his determination: "ambitious women are stronger than men." Not to mention three or five years, I will never remarry. " Immediately grabbed ten thousand fans from Zhuangzi and tore them to pieces.

A few days later, Zhuangzi suddenly became seriously ill, and Zhuangzi said, "I am very ill, and farewell is imminent. It's a pity that you broke ten thousand fans the other day. If you can keep this fan, take it to the grave! " Tian sobbed: "Don't worry about your husband, your wife knows well and will never make up her mind." Zhuangzi said tearfully, "It can be seen that Mrs. Chigo is ambitious, and I will die with my eyes closed. Stop the coffin in the backyard house after death, don't bury it. " Say that finish then alas. In the first few days, Tian wore plain clothes and cried day and night. Unexpectedly, on the seventh day, suddenly came a young scholar, handsome and charming, with a face like powder and a lips like lacquer red, who claimed to be a student in Zhuangzi, and came to offer his condolences. After Tian met, he moved his heart and flirted with that boy in a few days, unable to control himself.

Tian has long been disheartened, unable to hold back, and is not ashamed to ask questions and marry a young husband. While waiting for the wedding ceremony, the groom was so distressed that he fainted to the ground. Jing Tian asked what to do. The groom said, "I have a relapse. There is no cure. There is only one thing, and it works. " Tian Ji asked, "What is it?" The groom said, "If you give birth to a man's brain, if you swallow it with hot wine, the pain will stop." He hated Tian, with an axe in his right hand and a lamp in his left, and walked to the back room. He gritted his teeth, raised his axe and cut at Zhuangzi's coffin. After a few axes, the coffin cracked.

Chef is heaved a sigh, suddenly see Zhuangzi sighed from inside the coffin, pushed open the coffin, stood up and sat up. Tian was so scared that his heart went soft and his axe fell to the ground. She paused, trying to hide it with clever words, and said coquetry, "I missed you day and night after you died, and I just heard something in the coffin." I thought the ancients were resurrected, so I opened the coffin with an axe, hoping that you would be resurrected. " Zhuangzi smiled and said sarcastically, "Thank you for your kindness. What's a century-old couple like? When you meet a new person and forget the old one, all you have to do is chop the coffin lid with an axe. How can you wait for the fan to dry the grave? " Tian saw that things were exposed and that the scholar was gone. Only then did he realize that this was a change of Zhuangzi Road, and he was ashamed to meet people, so he untied the embroidered belt around his waist and hanged himself.

Zhuangzi leaned against the coffin and sang:

Everyone said that he was very deep before his death.

Everyone wants to fan the grave after death.

It is difficult to draw bones by drawing dragons and tigers.

You may know a person's face, but you don't know his heart/thoughts-a person may know a person for a long time, but he doesn't know his true nature.

The Song family caught fire, the house was burned, and even the coffin was reduced to ashes. Only the Tao Te Ching and the South China Ching are not destroyed, and some people take them from the mountains. It is easy to know a person, but it is difficult to know a person's heart. This is a metaphor.