In the name of people: In the world of "successful" men, why are there no women?

In the name of people has been a hit recently.

But in my opinion, this is a failed TV series.

Because this is not "in in the name of people", but actually "in the name of straight men". If the people include men and women, there are only successful men and no successful women in in the name of people.

I suggest that all girls who want to marry a successful man should not worry about being a "fan girl" and watch this drama, because this is the life you are likely to encounter in the future.

Many people compare "Taking in the name of people" with "House of Cards" in the United States, but it really can't be compared, not to mention the size of the scale and the depth of human nature disclosure. From the perspective of women:

In the card room, the couple's binary stars shine, but in in the name of people, there are only a group of big men who are intrigued, while the women are far away from the background.

The tendency of straight male cancer in this play is very obvious:

The first rule of successful straight men: women in the workplace are only for entertainment.

First of all, from the workplace, Lu Yike and Lin Huahua, the only directors of the anti-corruption bureau mixed in the workplace, basically play all kinds of silly roles in the play. Lu Yike often uses this sentence: Yes, why didn't I think of it? This makes sense ... she often speaks without thinking, which makes people believe that this is a workaholic who has worked hard in the workplace for many years. As long as she is in charge, she will basically screw up, the arresting person will definitely not be caught, and the trial will definitely not tell her the reason. Finally, the director has to save the scene. Their appearance is to set off the brilliant SHEN WOO of Hou Liangping, director of the Anti-Corruption Bureau.

The second rule of successful straight men: the women in the family are basically decorated.

The wives of the leading men in the play are basically two things:

1. Dead and alive (neither alive nor dead)

2. Resentful wife appearance

Qi Tongwei's wife, who was also a beautiful teacher in Han Dong University, was repeatedly pursued by Qi Tongwei, the school grass. There is only one real reason: she is the daughter of the secretary of the municipal party Committee and a stepping stone for Qi Tongwei to get rid of the eternal grassroots cadres. When she has completed her historical mission, she can be classified as a "yellow-faced woman".

Note: Qi Tongwei, Director of Han Dong Provincial Public Security Department, and his wife Liang Lu.

Another typical example is the wife of Gao, secretary of the Political and Legal Committee. It sounds awkward that two people are commensurate with their teachers. But in fact, they divorced and didn't leave home. Gao has a lover in Hong Kong, and they are passers-by. It's really scary to think in front of outsiders.

Where is our perfect hero Hou Liangping?

Excellent work, can cook, know how to give gifts to his wife, should be regarded as a warm man.

But don't forget, only after his wife made sacrifices for him, did his care become more obvious. In the TV series, the director would rather flirt with a pair of diaosi men and women, which has nothing to do with the plot. He even spent a lot of time describing Hou Liangping as the father of body double, the youngest son, and did not show how much he missed his wife and children.

Note: Ping, Director of the Anti-Corruption Bureau of the Provincial People's Procuratorate, and his wife Zhong.

In an American blockbuster, even if it is an action movie from beginning to end, the director must set aside a lot of space to show how the protagonist misses his wife and children in a foreign country: he will stare at the picture of his wife for a long time, video with the other party, and shed heroic tears when talking about his wife and children with others. ...

Where's Hou Liangping? Looks like a bachelor.

The director didn't realize that Hou Liangping was married at all, and he didn't expect to be responsible for his feelings. He is a case-handling machine and a wound-up prosecutor.

It should be pointed out that Dakang Li's wife Ouyang Qing also sacrificed for him for many years. They were lovers at that time, just like Hou Liangping now.

But how can a woman always pay for you? Can you buy her a dress that she is reluctant to buy?

The third rule of the name of a straight man: there is no woman in a man's world, only himself.

Now let's talk about the most popular uncle Dakang Li.

I don't know why he is so popular, but as a man, he is a disastrous phenomenon.

In the workplace, the friend who took a bullet for him is obviously a good cadre, and he just doesn't recommend it for his own career.

But who is he using? Ding, the king of flattery, boasted that he was an "incarnation" everywhere, but actually turned his most admired "Mingfeng Project" into a "Dark Peak Project" without knowing it.

Old comrade Chen Yanshi asked him: I called you and wrote to reflect the situation. Why didn't you reply to me? He said, I swear in the name of party spirit that I have not received any information from you.

Chen Yan said: "This means that you are overhead."

Note: Dakang Li, Secretary of Jingzhou Municipal Committee.

I wonder what the Standing Committee of the Provincial Party Committee is doing. He seems to live in another world. Until a mass incident broke out in Dafeng Factory and became a national event, he actually wanted to demolish the house by force. If he does this, he will definitely get into more trouble. If the old comrade Chen Yanshi hadn't stopped the car, his political life would have ended.

Unfortunately, it is not the first time that Ding has put a moth to the fire under his nose. He almost ruined his political career because of his crime.

Such a person is actually considered a "talent" by the provincial party secretary?

He is clean, but corruption is prevalent around him. He is very party, but he can't even handle the relationship between husband and wife well; His wife was corrupt under his nose, but he didn't know it; What does he think all day? Power.

"Don't bow your head, Secretary Kangda, or you will lose GDP."

This expression pack vividly illustrates the ecology of such a person. For the sake of political achievements, he can do anything, break through all boundaries, sacrifice everything that can be sacrificed, live in the world of his own power, but ignore the people around him.

He represents quite a few so-called "successful people". They don't prostitute or gamble, but they are workaholics, and their world is only their own.

At the end of the divorce negotiation, Ouyang Qing said to him: You should have friendship.

His response is: We are not Liangshan heroes.

Of course, you don't have to be a Liangshan hero, but you are not a cold-blooded animal.

Why is there only work and no life in your world? There are only things in your world, but there is no love? Why do others sacrifice for you? What have you done for the world?

Rule number four in the name of straight men: Everything is a performance.

If Dakang Li can be cute everywhere, it will arouse the maternal love of many women. The height at that time was hard to inspire this feeling. He is always gentle, leisurely, everything is under control, and he is always impartial and watertight. But what he lacks most is feelings.

Note: Gao, Deputy Secretary of Provincial Party Committee

He's just a copy of Dakang Li. Dakang Li is good at playing orphans. Many leaders hope to have a watchdog who works hard for himself, because he is not afraid of offending people and because he has many shortcomings, so he can do some bad things for himself without threatening himself.

Gao is wily, and leaders with some ideas will not like such people, because such people with ideas are likely to threaten their power.

As your wife, you can still quarrel with him, because you know that he is just low in emotional intelligence, but you can't quarrel with someone like Gao, because he is too smart. In other words, you have no idea what his heart is like. If you talk to him for a few words, you will be surrounded by him unconsciously.

In this way, a person's life is a pool of stagnant water, and all his passions are hidden in the depths, and this passion will always serve himself. Everyone is materialized by him, everyone is a pawn, including himself.

After communicating with your wife, you can also find some conscience, but you can't expect this kind of thing to happen here. People like him can basically give up treatment.

The only time he can be saved is when his painstaking chess game completely collapses. That's when he died, and it's also when he changed his lifestyle.

The fifth rule of straight men's names: My name is "no lower limit"

Compared with Lu Yi's upright face, Qi Tongwei has an evil beauty.

Note: Qi Tongwei, Director of Han Dong Provincial Public Security Department.

His story is very simple and can be summed up in three words: Phoenix Man. Poor enough to go to college, even the shoes have to rely on the second generation of students. His life creed is: I am too poor! Because you are too poor, even love is a luxury.

He has been struggling to get rid of mental poverty all his life.

But this is a black hole. No matter how rich the material is, he can't stop the footsteps of "red dancing shoes". He can never be satisfied, because he is more greedy than anyone else, so he can do things without a lower limit, and even put on a "crying grave" play that was laughed at by the whole officialdom.

Why is he so greedy? Why can you do whatever it takes?

Because he has a crisis of "self-existence". He has always been ashamed of poverty, just as Michael Jackson wanted to whitewash his skin color. He can't accept the shame of being born in poverty, so he keeps making false appearances to prove that he can be proud, but this shame is like a sore throat and a thorn in the side, because those wounds have never been repaired.

When he was ashamed, no one accompanied him through those painful years. He could only keep blocking those pains with anesthetics, and the marginal effect of these anesthetics would make him need more hallucinations to "relieve the pain".

Gradually, he became an addict. One of his famous sayings is: How heartless people who can quit smoking should be.

Once he gets rid of the "power addiction", he will face a great sense of shame in his heart. He does not believe that once he has no power, he can still be accepted by the world.

I want to ask, in this man's world, women are just drugs. Once he fails, he will give up without mercy.

What did we see in this play?

A group of men who are crazy about power, a group of women who are frustrated.

Even the relationship between the director and his girlfriend, which is used to drag the plot, is full of various mutual uses.

Is this world really so cruel: people die for money (power) and birds die for food?

Maybe this movie can explain "Where's Dad?" . The man was lured away by power and money, and gave his heart to the devil, becoming a vassal and puppet of the devil and an impetuous and disloyal "love rat".

And what about women? In addition to being a social butterfly like Gao, there is also some release of human nature. What is the way out?

We have no hope in this play.

Because the screenwriter and director of "Straight Male Cancer" are all designed as "men serve power and women serve men".

Men are demanding power. When can I get a promotion? The woman asks the man painstakingly: When will you give me love?

Without power, men wait and wait; Without love, women would rather separate, divorce and not leave home, or endure their husbands' mistresses.

If you can't bear it, be a social butterfly-a woman who doesn't hesitate to be famous, otherwise, a woman's name is "sacrifice"?

Bullshit.

This drama only proves one truth: if a woman places her happiness in life on a man, it is a dead end. If there is only power in a man's world, even if he succeeds, it is a kind of "morbid" success, and such success is the biggest failure in his life.

What China needs to reflect on most now is: Is the success of men and women at the expense of "humanity"?

Do men want to succeed at the expense of their lives?

Do women want to succeed at the expense of work?

One of the cores of our culture for thousands of years is the "sacrifice" perspective of mother and baby. Dayu, the earliest workaholic, managed water and didn't enter the house for three times. There is also an early legend of "ChristianRandPhillips Zhu": the concubines who are in harmony wait and don't return, and their tears keep flowing. After a long time, bamboo was stained with tears, so now there is a mottled bamboo. Legend has it that their tears are soaked.

I was a little surprised until I heard that the president of the United States was on vacation. In my impression, all successful men should be workaholics.

I remember that the first lesson in junior high school textbooks was to describe the lights of the Prime Minister's Office, which were on until four or five in the morning. Finally, dear Premier Zhou was exhausted alive, including Comrade Jiao, who insisted on working with his chair against his liver even though he was suffering from cancer. These legends praise the so-called successful men and women who are left behind.

Dad didn't just disappear now. Look at A Dream of Red Mansions, The Water Margin and The Romance of the Three Kingdoms in The Journey to the West. Have women ever appeared in men's world? Women are nothing more than two roles. If she has any humanity, she is a slut. If you suppress some self, it is the victim.

Now we have to decide one thing: do we still have to accept this social culture, and do we still have our own choices?

Do we still aim to marry such a "morbid" successful man?

A man who has been alienated by "power" and "money", should we pester them to the end?

In fact, the women in this play are not ordinary women without knowledge, culture and ability. The only thing they lack is self-discovery and self-liberation.

They unconsciously agreed with the identities of E Huang and Nv Ying thousands of years ago, agreed that women were "second sex" and gave up themselves, so they could only live a life of the affiliated class.

At present, China is in a period of transition, and the marriage problem is becoming a social problem. This in itself shows that women's self-awareness is rising, while men need to reflect: when I have more and more resources, can I control them or do they control me?

Is there anything to sacrifice in this world?

What we need most is the enlightenment from the old people like Chen Yan: they live comfortably, and their husbands and wives are fine, because they have faith.

We don't have to share their beliefs, but we must know this:

What can't be lost in life?

What's the point of living like this?