Teach me the better words to refuse in social communication, such as avoiding embarrassment and tactfully telling lies!!!

Usual routine:

Diarrhea, stomach pain, headache, nerve pain, leg pain, leg hair pain, hair pain

It’s easy for my boyfriend and girlfriend not to be around , today I want to go out alone and relax.

Systematic learning:

When people live in the world, there will always be some classmates, friends, or colleagues. After getting along for a long time, they will naturally want to communicate with each other. When asking others for something, if we can do it, we should try our best to do it. If some of the requests made by our friends are excessive, they are beyond our personal capabilities. This brings up the problem of rejecting others. Many people often find it difficult to deal with this kind of problem, so they don’t know how to say no. They know that some things cannot be done, but they are afraid of damaging the friendship between friends. How can If you say no, you won't hurt the other person? The following aspects should be considered

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1. Before you say "no", be sure to let the other person understand your reasons and regrets for refusing. Your attitude should be sincere and your language should be gentle.

2. Avoid ambiguous answers. If I think about it again, the person speaking in this way may think it is a rejection, but the party asking for it thinks that the other party really thinks of a solution for him. In this way, it will delay the other party, so do not use words. Vague words.

3. Explain the reasons why you have to refuse in a sincere manner until the other party understands that you are helpless. This is the most successful rejection.

Practical exercises:

How to refuse to borrow money

You can tell him that you want to go home as your family, and let him wait for you in his usual place. ． After a while you are telling your friends that there is no one at home. There's nothing you can do if your friend doesn't. ． If your money is seen by your friends on the spot. Just say that your family asked you to buy things you need at home.

How to say no to a party~~You are not feeling well. If it conflicts with other important appointments, it is best to avoid it if it is related to official business.

How to refuse to borrow a car

1: In order not to borrow, I am willing to be a driver

2: Borrowing a car is not possible, exchanging a car is possible

3: If you really can't refuse, you should say "ugly words" up front and make a "three-part agreement" with the person who borrows the car in advance

How to politely refuse someone to introduce you to a blind date?

The best way is to contact the other party's elders through their elders and say that they feel the personality is not compatible, or something like that euphemistically.

If we no longer take the initiative to contact you, it will be natural for us to break up.

How to refuse from multiple companies

Sorry, I can’t go to work in your company. It’s because you didn’t notify me after a long time. I thought I didn’t apply. , I applied for another company. I work in that company now. I'm sorry that I can't work hard in your company! ! ! I hope I can make up for it in the future! ! !