These symptoms indicate that the marriage exists in name only.

These behaviors of couples indicate that marriage has existed in name only

Many people are facing this question: What kind of marriage is really irreparable? Marriage problems exist for every couple, but the degree varies from deep to shallow, so it is difficult to say that it can be restored, but it is too absolute to be unable to restore it, because there are always variables in everything. Today, let’s talk to you about what kind of spoiled wedding cigarettes are likely to reach the point of irreparability.

01. Two people have been separated for a long time.

A husband and wife have been separated for a long time, just for the sake of separation and not wanting to be together. Such a marriage exists in name only, and all they have to do is get a divorce certificate. After separation, many couples slowly start to live their own lives and no longer interfere in each other's lives. Long-term separation will lead to a weakening of the relationship between the couple, and they will gradually come to the point of separation.

02. Basically zero communication

In addition to living together, couples also have someone to accompany them and talk about their concerns. However, if the couple’s life becomes zero communication, then the marriage relationship will also be It has become precarious. Neither one understands the other's thoughts nor cares about the other's feelings. Each is immersed in its own world and does not communicate with the other at all.

03. Treat the mobile phone as a father (the mobile phone is more important than the other half)

Nowadays, going out without a mobile phone is more uncomfortable than not bringing money. Playing with your phone, not caring about the other person's life, not communicating, or even getting angry if the other person touches your phone. Then this relationship will also make the other party feel chilled. Gradually, the couple loses interest in maintaining it. As time goes by, this relationship will move toward separation. And he pays too much attention to his mobile phone, and even prevents you from looking at his mobile phone, which means that there is something wrong with the other person.

04. Mystery

After getting married, both husband and wife will naturally care about each other’s whereabouts, whether they get home safely after get off work, and whether they arrive at the office safely at work. Wait, but if one party becomes mysterious and does not let the other party know his whereabouts, then it is very likely that the other party has developed a new relationship, but the time is not right now and he does not want to tell the other party yet.

05. Dislike each other

When you are in love, all the shortcomings of the other person will become advantages. But once the love disappears, you will become more and more disgusted with the other person, and even Feeling disgusted when seeing the other party. When one party feels this way about the other party, they will naturally avoid contact with the other party, and slowly and gradually lower the level of close contact between the two parties. One day, they will be in Chen Shou's heart. When you can't stand it, break out and leave decisively.

What are wedding cigarettes? I once read a passage like this: Marriage is the only time you personally choose your family, and it is also a reincarnation with your eyes open. Even if you choose incorrectly, don’t choose too crookedly.

Just find the kind of person you want to spend your life with. Among all your relationships, the most important relationship is the relationship between husband and wife, bar none.

People who put the relationship between husband and wife first will generally not have a bad life. God will let you experience things you can't learn over and over again until you correct them. But one day you will understand that the financial foundation is important, but what is more important than this is a person's quality, upbringing and responsibility. A person's sense of responsibility, ability to control emotions and way of speaking, and attitude towards doing things.

The meaning of marriage is: there is a light left for you among all the lights in the house, not that you are alone among all the chaos. A partner is really important. It doesn’t matter if it’s a little later, but it must be the right person. This is the light for the rest of your life.